Hero and Zero: The Scooby fund and a fountain bath

by Nikki Silverstein

HERO: Let’s all be heroes this week by helping out a deserving man and his faithful dog. Kirk, a Mill Valley resident, lives on a limited income due to disabling spina bifida. Years ago, Kirk adopted Scooby, a Chihuahua mix, from the Marin Humane Society. Scooby is now 10 years old and needs surgery to remove numerous bladder stones. Though Scooby remains stoic, this condition is often painful. An emergency fund has been set up at Adobe Pet Hospital to raise approximately $2,000 for his surgery, medications and special diet. Please skip your latte one day this week and send a few bucks to Adobe Pet Hospital, 265 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley, CA 94941. Just reference Scooby on the check and we’ll keep you posted on his progress.

ZERO: No, you cannot take a bath in the fountain in Sausalito’s Viña del Mar Park, even though it is spilling over with soapy bubbles. Sausalito resident Rebecca Brooks was on her regular running route through downtown on Monday morning when she saw the white lather flowing from the historic fountain. “We’re in a drought. What a waste of water,” she said. Typically, the fountain recycles the water it uses; however, Jonathon Goldman, Public Works Director for the City of Sausalito, said that it will take hundreds of gallons of water to clear out the soap. We hate to burst the vandal’s bubble, but you need to clean up your act. See the foaming fountain in action below.

Got a Hero or a Zero? Please send submissions to ni***************@***oo.com.

(Video courtesy of Rebecca Brooks.)

Food and Drink: Much to celebrate

by Tanya Henry

Head over to the Key Room in Novato for the next Fresh Starts Chef Event on Thursday, April 23 from 6:30pm to 9:30pm. Chef, author and healthy and sustainable food activist Bryant Terry of Oakland will be preparing an inspired menu from his latest cookbook, Afro Vegan. The accomplished chef will be preparing his Texas caviar on grilled rustic bread and dandelion salad with pecan dressing, tofu curry with mustard greens and brown basmati rice and a cocoa-spice cake with crystallized ginger and coconut-chocolate ganache. Tickets are $55, including dinner; wine will be offered by the glass or bottle. For more information, visit thekeyroom.com and click on the “Cooking Classes” tab, or call 415/382-3363, ext. 243 for reservations.

CELEBRATE SPRING! If you’ve never been to beautiful Slide Ranch, it’s a must visit. The spectacular farm, overlooking the ocean, is nothing short of breathtaking. The ranch’s annual Spring Fling includes hands-on farm activities like goat-milking, feeding chickens and touring the organic gardens. Hiking, live music and local organic food are also on the menu. The special event takes place on Saturday, April 25 from 10am to 4pm. The cost is $25 per person in advance and $30 at the door; children 2 years and under are free and sliding scale rates are available. Slide Ranch is located at 2025 Shoreline Hwy., Muir Beach. For more information, visit slideranch.org or call 415/381-6155.

CELEBRATE SEEDS! Help support The Living Seed Company’s breeding projects by attending their Seed to Table Dinner on Saturday, April 18 at 7pm in Point Reyes Station. They have spent the past four years breeding and selecting varieties suited to the greater Bay Area’s climate. Here is your chance to help maintain regionally based seed diversity. The five-course dinner will be created out of freshly harvested wonders from The Living Seed Company’s farms and local West Marin producers. The cost is $75. For more information, visit livingseedcompany.com, or call 415/663-8002.

CELEBRATE MOM! Reserve a table now at Terrapin Crossroads for Mother’s Day—Sunday, May 10. A special brunch buffet including Eggs Benedict, French toast, chicken piccata, beef brisket and other tasty items will be offered from 10am to 3pm. Mom gets a complimentary sparkling wine cocktail and there will be live music. The cost is $39 and children under 12 are $15. Terrapin Crossroads, 100 Yacht Club Dr., San Rafael. For more information, visit terrapincrossroads.net or call 415/524-2773.

Share your hunger pains with Tanya at th****@********un.com.

Trivia: Stretching 4,500 miles (7,200 km), the longest mountain range on the face of the earth is known as what?

For more trivia questions (and answers!) see Howard Rachelson’s Trivia Café every week in the Pacific Sun.

Answer: The Andes, which run along the west coast of South America from Cape Horn to Panama and Venezuela.

Advice Goddess

by Amy Alkon

Q: My boyfriend has a crazy ex-wife who can’t let go. She is the meanest, most vengeful and manipulative person, initially convincing the 15-year-old son she has with my boyfriend that I’m the reason “Dad won’t come back.” (He actually divorced her after she, in a fit of rage, made a false police report about him.) She also slashed my tires and spread a rumor that my boyfriend is a child molester. I love him dearly, and we feel we’re soul mates, but his ex-wife is making it so hard to be happy. What can I do?—Besieged

A: Where is the very small, highly targeted zombie apocalypse when you need it? Don’t take this woman’s behavior personally. And yes, I’m serious. Assuming what you say about her is true, she seems to be one of those born bar brawlers, ever on the lookout for a reason to break a bottle over someone’s head and start the second Hundred Years’ War. If she could, she’d not only slash your tires but take a sponge bath in the Fountain of Youth so she could live long enough to slash your great-great-grandchildren’s, too.

The problem is, because she isn’t acting from anything resembling reason, there’s no reasoning with her. As personal security expert Gavin de Becker says about the irrationally persistent in his terrific book The Gift of Fear, “There is no straight talk for crooked people.” So, practically speaking, short of finding a home security company that sends out zombie squads by radio call, all that you, personally, can do is decide whether you find love and soulmatery worth the trade-offs in terror and tire costs. As for what your boyfriend can do, the answer, unfortunately, is “not much more”: Install video surveillance; document everything she does and use the legal system to the extent he can (and the extent that seems prudent).

The following advice—to use gratitude as a buffer against ugliness—might sound like it’s from the Little Miss Sunshine Solutions Department, but there’s actually solid science behind it. Research by social psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky and her colleagues finds that people are meaningfully happier when they take regular stock of the things they have to be grateful for. (A caveat: This happiness-increasing effect was found only for people who did this blessings-counting once a week, maybe, the researchers surmise, because doing it more often felt like a chore.)

So consider getting gratitudinal once a week, maybe on Sunday night. You could even write five things down on slips of paper and put them in a “Gratitude Jar” so you have a visual reminder of how good you actually have it when things go bad. This may also help you avoid getting snippy with the irritatingly well-meaning who chirp, “What goes around comes around!” Right. If there is such a thing as karma, it seems to go after the truly heinous offenders first, like all the people who ever dropped a straw wrapper or let out a puff of tail wind in the elevator.

Q: I’m a butch lesbian with a crush on a (supposedly) straight married lady who’s very tomboyish. She has a number of lesbian friends, and I suspect her husband is in the closet. I keep telling her she’s “culturally gay” (because she dresses “soft butch”—combat boots, cords, etc.—and because of some of her attitudes), but I actually think there’s more to it than that. She insists she’s straight but seems weirdly upset by my comments.—Be Who You Are

A: Why not just say it right out: “There’s the closet. Could you please sit in there for a half-hour and come out ready to leave your husband?” I personally find it tragic when gay people feel they have to “ungay” themselves by living straight, but respecting another person’s privacy means accepting that they get to choose which parts of their life they’ll be taking commentary on. In other words, by picketing a baker who won’t make a cake for a gay wedding, you’re exercising your free speech rights, but it’s way out of line for you to effectively picket somebody’s relationship: “We’re here! We’re queer! And guess what: So are the two of you!” And no, this isn’t justified by your creation of an updated Kinsey scale—one that measures female homosexual desire based on a woman’s choice of footwear and whether she accessorizes with a welding mask.

So, instead of trying to drag this woman (by her wallet chain) out of her marriage, turn your attention to a woman who’s single and out. Respect that for your friend, Prince Charming may very well be that dude from the Disney movies, determined as you are to recast him as a soldier of fortune crossed with a lady gym teacher.

Letter: ‘If you can’t bail it out quickly, you may lose the car entirely.’

Enabling thievery

The Ferguson, MO, traffic ticket scam is alive and well here in Marin. The smallest infraction can wind up costing hundreds of dollars when state and local “fees” are tacked on. If you miss paying on time your bill can become thousands of dollars with the threat of jail time and a suspended license. Of course, this highway robbery disproportionately hits the poor the hardest as when their car is towed and “stored” at a cost approaching a hundred dollars a day. This is paying over 10 times per square-foot more for your car to sit in some dusty back lot than the cost of prime office space in the finest location. If you can’t bail it out quickly, you may lose the car entirely.

This out of control levying of ever increasing fines has created a present-day debtors’ prison for those who can least afford it. More than 4.2 million drivers’ licenses have been suspended in California since 2006 but only 72,000 have been reinstated. This leaves millions of people unable to drive legally to work or school and leaves all of us uninsured in case they get in an accident. This is costing our social welfare system hundreds of millions of dollars and un-measurable lost opportunities for these people to improve their lives.
In Marin, these abusive fines, seizures and suspensions are the direct fault of our county supervisors who use the courts to squeeze more money out of the citizenry to waste on their pet projects. Instead of continuing to enable this thievery, Sacramento should legislate strict, realistic limits on traffic ticket and court fines.

Alex Easton-Brown, Lagunitas

Letters: “Most cops are the good guys …”

Bad apples

I resent Nikki Silverstein and her political opinions being touted as the last word. I am referring to her law enforcement bashing in the recent Hero & Zero [April 10]. She doesn’t provide a single fact about the situation, the reason the officer felt his life was in danger, etc., but feels free to accuse the officer of near murder. I know that some people are thrilled to blame the cops and never the low-lifes who roam our towns and cities to rob, kill, hijack cars and beat people up. Most cops are the good guys, even though some mistakes are made … and just like in every profession, there are some bad apples.

PG, North Bay

Letter: “This lady has actually been reading my life!”

You know me so well

I’m not sure what type of mystic power the writer [Leona Moon] has, but for the past three years I have been following my horoscope through Pacific Sun, and this lady has actually been reading my life! It’s absolutely amazing how detailed her readings are with me. I don’t like gambling and always thought horoscopes [were] like being just lucky. NOW, NOW. Thank You.

Lee Myers, Date of birth: 03/23/65

Letter: ‘ I would rather have Dr. Simon for a neighbor…”

A little toot right back at you

This letter is a reply to Ms. Silverstein’s opinion piece [‘A toot of the horn,’ Letters page, April 10]. Her piece is erroneous in several ways and comes to what I regard as an erroneous conclusion.

First, it is not true that there was no evidence that Dr. Simon’s assailant was a threat. People familiar with the case know that there is plenty of such evidence. Out of consideration for Dr. Simon’s assailant, this is neither the time nor place to list them. But should this case actually come to trial everyone will know the evidence and it will place Dr. Simon in a much more sympathetic light. The fact that this evidence was withheld from the grand jury says more about District Attorney Ed Berberian’s fitness for his position than it does about Dr. Simon’s fitness as a neighbor.

Second, Ms. Silverstein makes reference to “the safety of his garage” as if the garage was some sort of impregnable fortress. In fact, there was no safety in Dr. Simon’s garage because he couldn’t shut the door. And he couldn’t shut the door because his assailant had driven his vehicle partially into the garage itself. Some safety!

Third, Ms. Silverstein, apparently taking her cue from the D.A.’s office, makes reference to Dr. Simon’s collection of firearms as if it was germane to this case. It is not. This case is a simple matter of self-defense and Dr. Simon’s hobby is not going to be on trial. If Ms. Silverstein wants to eschew the immunity of the herd and live in a neighborhood where no one owns firearms, she is free to attempt it.

Finally, a few words about the tactics of Mr. Berberian. There is a “second bite of the apple” provision in California criminal law that allows prosecutors to re-charge defendants after a case has been dismissed. The intent of the law was to cover cases in which new evidence came to light after the original dismissal. It was not supposed to give prosecutors a mulligan. Mr. Berberian introduced no new evidence to the grand jury which then proceeded to re-indict Dr. Simon without having the proper context to do so. By abusing the provisions of the law, Mr. Berberian seems to be taking on a personal vendetta. His actions are those of a fanatic and fanaticism has no place in the DA’s office.

To sum up: I would rather have Dr. Simon for a neighbor than Ed Berberian as a D.A. Ed Berberian is a dangerous man. Dr. Simon is not.

Mike Helmer

Feature: Driven to distraction

by Alyson Geller

“How many of you have texted while driving?”

Inside the Sir Francis Drake High School auditorium, around a third of the student audience members raise their hands … then, tentatively about 10 more—kids checking out each other’s reactions. The question is posed by a woman named Debbie Barrios, a mother of five whose husband was killed by a distracted driver speeding through a stop sign at 60 mph.

“I was told that I could feel good that the accident wasn’t my husband’s fault,” said Barrios, who speaks on behalf of AT&T’s It Can Wait campaign. But if you drive while distracted and injure or kill yourself, Barrios tells the audience, the end result is the same. “We are responsible for the entire field.”

The conversation with Barrios caps a week-long Distracted Driving Campaign organized and led by Drake’s Peer Resource class in collaboration with Marin’s Safe Routes to Schools program and the Marin Bicycle Coalition. Distracted driving-related crashes killed 3,154 people in 2013, and injured 424,000—an increase from 421,000 the previous year, according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Association (NHTSA).

Teen drivers ages 16-19 have the highest crash rate of any group in the U.S. A recent AT&T survey indicates that while 97 percent of teens know that texting while driving is dangerous, 43 percent of them admit to sending a text while driving—and 75 percent say the practice is common among their friends.
“If you are in a car with a texting driver,” Barrios tells the Drake students, “don’t close your eyes. Tell them to stop. It’s your responsibility to say, ‘My life is important.’”

Her simple entreaty is backed by decades of research that explains why our brains are incapable of multitasking—and also why it is so hard for us to stop.

One hundred years ago, we didn’t have a concept called multitasking, says David Teater, Senior Director of Transportation Initiatives at the National Safety Council (NSC). “People came home at the end of the day and ate dinner with the family. We didn’t get on the phone or watch TV.”  During the Second World War, pilots were handed radar technology, and were increasingly required to multitask. “When they were flying planes with all sorts of screens and other stimuli, they began making mistakes,” Teater says. The field of attention science was born. “We learned that when you are talking about anything cognitively demanding, like driving, the human brain can truly only do one thing at a time.”

Today, cognitive research tracks, measures and illustrates the distracted brain in vivid MRI technology, providing a biological basis for driver risk. Scans reveal that just listening to a disembodied voice on the phone decreases our brain activity by 37 percent in the area responsible for driving skills, like navigation and organizing visual information, according to Carnegie Mellon University research.

“Our brains don’t multitask,” says cognitive psychologist David Strayer, who has led distracted driving research for more than a decade. “Rather, we ‘task switch,’ shuffling information and attention. Behind the wheel, the fallout of this mental juggling is a phenomenon called ‘inattention blindness,’ in which drivers look at but fail to see 50 percent of the information in their driving environment. Important information, like a red light or a person on a bicycle falls away from view and is not processed by the brain.”

Talking on the phone while driving increases our risk of crashing fourfold—the same level of impairment as driving above the legal intoxication limit. Texting increases risk by a factor of 23.

Most of us know that it’s wrong: Ninety-eight percent of those using cellphones regularly say that they are aware of the dangers, according to AT&T. Yet three-quarters of us admit to texting and driving anyway.

“We all think we’re invincible,” says Aria, a Drake Peer Resource student who helped lead the school’s recent campaign. “But (a distracted driving accident) can happen to any one of us.”
For all of its awesome complexity and evolution over thousands of years, the human brain is slow to the draw when it comes to technology’s demands.

“Our ability to recognize that we are distracted and control our behavior requires a part of the brain called the prefrontal cortex,” Strayer says, “and yet this same prefrontal cortex is also what we use to multitask.” This explains why we are able to ignore our bad behavior, even to our peril. “We are like Mr. Magoo, blindly unaware that we are causing mayhem,” he says.

Our brains also have a difficult time recognizing the difference between a friend’s social update, a reminder from the boss and a true emergency. Even the most disciplined among us become momentarily spellbound by the chime of a text tone. As social creatures hard-wired for survival, we are biologically compelled to respond to the proverbial tap on the shoulder.

“You must discover whether the person is an opportunity or a threat,” writes journalist Matt Richtel, who explored technology’s effect on the human mind in a series of Pulitzer Prize-winning columns. His recently published book, A Deadly Wandering: A Tale of Tragedy and Redemption in the Age of Attention, chronicles the story of a college student who fatally struck two rocket scientists as he texted and weaved along a Utah highway. “When the phone rings … you want to find out who it is. You need to. Your bottom-up survival system demands it,” Richtel writes.

Over at Drake, the kids seem ready to take on this challenge. “It’s a temptation we have to deal with,” one student tells me, as a group of us watch a gym full of kids in baggy shorts try to text without getting hit in the head during a game of “distracted dodgeball.” The students rattle off statistics in rapid-fire fashion and discuss the issue with intense resolve. They want people to know that to ignore a text in the car—“such a little and common thing”—could save a life.

Nearby, a chalk-drawn crosswalk is a “distracted walking awareness zone,” enforced with tickets. “People were glad to get tickets to remind them,” a student says. “One person wanted more.”

Their willingness to take responsibility is poignant—especially when you consider the next issue raised by Barrios at the assembly: “How many of you have a parent who texts and drives?” she asks. Again, hands shoot up.

More disconcerting still: Teens say that their parents are calling and texting them, while they are driving—and expecting an immediate response. More than half of U.S. teens are on their cellphones with a parent while they are driving, according to National Institutes of Health surveys. “This happens a lot,” acknowledge the kids in Drake’s Peer Resource class. “Sometimes we text back while driving just to calm our parents down. But they need to be patient and trust us. They need to know it can wait.”

“You have an 18-year-old entering into the most dangerous period of their lives,” marvels David Teater, whose son Joseph was killed by a young woman who ran a red light while involved in a cellphone conversation. “You tell your kids at the least not to text and not to use the phone at all—and yet they’ve spent the past 18 years watching you do it. Your credibility is out the window.”

Along with such significant challenges, technology is also presenting opportunities to understand and control our impulses. A growing wave of anti-distraction apps, some designed especially for teens and parents to use together, are readily available and often free. Tools like the LifeSaver App, AT&T’s DriveMode and Sprint’s Drive First will shut down the phone when a car starts moving, auto-respond to calls with an ‘I am driving and will call you when I have arrived’ message and record and share driver behavior with a parent or employer. A variety of hardware devices combine telecommunications and mobility (telematics) to block incoming calls and outgoing texts. App-makers are working with insurers to push for financial incentives for safe driving behavior.

Community-wide efforts are also key—and organizations like the AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety, AT&T, the National Safety Council and Allstate are heading up advocacy and education programs as well as legislative efforts. “We need to provide ongoing opportunities for parents and teens to have conversations and find agreement,” says Peer Resource class teacher Diana Winkler, herself the mother of two teens who are currently learning to drive. “One and done awareness days are not enough.”

In the school’s courtyard, kids flip skateboards and gather at lunch tables. At the center of the scene, students have turned the massive Senior Tree into a memorial, wrapped with yellow caution tape. Ghostly white-painted bicycles, a tricycle and a car seat scattered with plush toys hang precariously from the tree’s branches, each accompanied by a “true incident” report, documenting the crash that killed a baby named Enzo Williams. The driver, who was text messaging at the time of the crash, did not appear to brake before hitting the car, which was at a stoplight.

“It’s satisfying to know that you can stop yourself from a tragic experience if you are encouraged to work on your self- restraint and put the phone in the trunk or the back seat,” say students as they look back on the week. They are taking Debbie Barrios seriously when she urges them at the assembly’s conclusion to “be the generation that changes this.”

Contact Alyson when you’re not driving at le*****@********un.com.

RESOURCES TO HELP WITH YOUR HANG-UP

Free apps: LifeSaver, DriveMode and Drive First offer options for Androids and iPhones.

Current research, tools and in-car footage: AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety, AT&T, National Safety Council, Allstate

Local resources: Marin’s Safe Routes to Schools program; Marin County Bicycle Coalition

Test yourself: Take the National Safety Council’s Focused Driver Challenge here.

 

Horoscope: What’s Your Sign?

ARIES (March 21 – April 19) Ready for a 180, Aries? Well you’re in luck—everything is about to change. If your favorite color is pink, it’s about to be black, and if there’s nothing more you enjoy than a morning jog, that’s about to get replaced by a spoonful of Ben & Jerry’s first thing in the early dawn. Get ready for your life to turn upside down—good or bad!

TAURUS (April 20 – May 20) Not sure if you’re in a light or dark kind of mood, Taurus? Just pop over to IKEA and consult the paint specialist already! Whichever color you decide to paint your man cave on April 22 will be the right choice. All home-related decisions may seem stressful, but the heart wants what it wants (according to Selena Gomez)—so just go with your first choice!

GEMINI (May 21 – June 20) Out with the old and in with the new, Gemini! The new moon on April 18 ushers in a friendly lineup. Wondering when you’d ever find someone who shares an interest in bird-watching as much as you do? Well, get ready to partner up! You’ll be joined at the hip for life with this fellow eagle eye!

CANCER (June 21 – July 22) Is that your name lit up on the marquee, Cancer? The new moon in Aries on April 18 brings your big shot at stardom. If you’re eager for a taste of some well-deserved 15 minutes of fame, gear up—because the right VIPs will be gracing you with their presence. Bring business cards and practice an ice breaker!

LEO (July 23 – Aug. 22) Pack your bags, Leo! There’s nothing like a little travel. On April 18 you’ll find yourself in a new area, surrounded by awe-inspiring activities, people and vistas. A change in scenery might be just what you need to inspire your next creative project, and with Jupiter in Leo you’re practically unstoppable.

VIRGO (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22) All signs point to you, Virgo! You’ve got the stars on your side this week, so if it’s love you’re seeking, then look no further than into your next door neighbor’s window. We’re not talking about channeling Peeping Tom here—just sayin’ that love is a little closer than you might think.

LIBRA (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22) Tired of packing up boxes, Libra? Maybe your latest passion project—moving from the downstairs apartment to the upstairs locale—wasn’t your brightest. You’re inventive, and nothing is going to change that, but whatever you’ve been working on when it comes to home-related changes might need to be filed under the “fail” category.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21) Your friends might be trying to make plans with you, Scorpio, but you’ll be spending all weekend at the bank! Looks like the cash is flowing as steady as the Nile River herself. Enjoy the extra cash while you can—while opening a savings account might be the responsible thing to do, it’s just so stale. Try going zip lining in Sonoma or playing underwater laser tag in Cancun.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21) Don’t be fooled by those QVC “special values” or the flurry of infomercials that flood the airwaves around 3am, Sagittarius! You’ve been on a spending spree and, while you look absolutely fabulous, your bank account is hurting. Craft a savings plan on April 19 and stick with it.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19) Are you feeling a little magnetic, Capricorn? That would explain why everyone and their mother are drawn to you right now. You’re clearly the celestial favorite of the moment, so enjoy being the center of attention. If single, now is the time to mingle. That hard-to-get babe who works in finance might give you the side glance on April 18.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18) Hit the road, Aquarius! It’s time to travel. We’re not talking a faraway place full of strangers—more like a change of scenery. You’re in need of a little adventure, so consider cage-diving with great whites off the coast or base-jumping in Yosemite.

PISCES (Feb. 19 – March 20) You’re headed out of town, Pisces! Sometimes a little R&R is the best cure for an overly ambitious work schedule. Spend a little downtime with some loved ones and soak up those vacation hours. Start your trip off with bottomless mimosas if you’re feeling flirty!

Hero and Zero: The Scooby fund and a fountain bath

hero and zero
by Nikki Silverstein HERO: Let’s all be heroes this week by helping out a deserving man and his faithful dog. Kirk, a Mill Valley resident, lives on a limited income due to disabling spina bifida. Years ago, Kirk adopted Scooby, a Chihuahua mix, from the Marin Humane Society. Scooby is now 10 years old and needs surgery to remove numerous...

Food and Drink: Much to celebrate

by Tanya Henry Head over to the Key Room in Novato for the next Fresh Starts Chef Event on Thursday, April 23 from 6:30pm to 9:30pm. Chef, author and healthy and sustainable food activist Bryant Terry of Oakland will be preparing an inspired menu from his latest cookbook, Afro Vegan. The accomplished chef will be preparing his Texas caviar on...

Trivia: Stretching 4,500 miles (7,200 km), the longest mountain range on the face of the earth is known as what?

For more trivia questions (and answers!) see Howard Rachelson’s Trivia Café every week in the Pacific Sun. Answer: The Andes, which run along the west coast of South America from Cape Horn to Panama and Venezuela.

Advice Goddess

advice goddess
by Amy Alkon Q: My boyfriend has a crazy ex-wife who can’t let go. She is the meanest, most vengeful and manipulative person, initially convincing the 15-year-old son she has with my boyfriend that I’m the reason “Dad won’t come back.” (He actually divorced her after she, in a fit of rage, made a false police report about him.) She...

Letter: ‘If you can’t bail it out quickly, you may lose the car entirely.’

Enabling thievery The Ferguson, MO, traffic ticket scam is alive and well here in Marin. The smallest infraction can wind up costing hundreds of dollars when state and local “fees” are tacked on. If you miss paying on time your bill can become thousands of dollars with the threat of jail time and a suspended license. Of course, this highway...

Letters: “Most cops are the good guys …”

Bad apples I resent Nikki Silverstein and her political opinions being touted as the last word. I am referring to her law enforcement bashing in the recent Hero & Zero . She doesn’t provide a single fact about the situation, the reason the officer felt his life was in danger, etc., but feels free to accuse the officer of near...

Letter: “This lady has actually been reading my life!”

You know me so well I’m not sure what type of mystic power the writer has, but for the past three years I have been following my horoscope through Pacific Sun, and this lady has actually been reading my life! It’s absolutely amazing how detailed her readings are with me. I don’t like gambling and always thought horoscopes ...

Letter: ‘ I would rather have Dr. Simon for a neighbor…”

A little toot right back at you This letter is a reply to Ms. Silverstein’s opinion piece . Her piece is erroneous in several ways and comes to what I regard as an erroneous conclusion. First, it is not true that there was no evidence that Dr. Simon’s assailant was a threat. People familiar with the case know that there is...

Feature: Driven to distraction

by Alyson Geller "How many of you have texted while driving?” Inside the Sir Francis Drake High School auditorium, around a third of the student audience members raise their hands ... then, tentatively about 10 more—kids checking out each other’s reactions. The question is posed by a woman named Debbie Barrios, a mother of five whose husband was killed by a...

Horoscope: What’s Your Sign?

All signs look to the 'Sun'
ARIES (March 21 - April 19) Ready for a 180, Aries? Well you’re in luck—everything is about to change. If your favorite color is pink, it’s about to be black, and if there’s nothing more you enjoy than a morning jog, that’s about to get replaced by a spoonful of Ben & Jerry’s first thing in the early dawn....
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