Lights, Camera and Fashion with SONAS in Fairfax

Fashion is important—it is intrinsic to self-expression and first impressions. 

In Marin, one man is bringing his talents to bear to ensure we have what we need to put our best, most well-dressed foot forward.

Gerry Kelly is the owner of SONAS, a trendy yet comfortable high-quality clothing boutique located in Fairfax. The items sold at SONAS range from classic, impeccably tailored staples to bold statement pieces with a unique allure perfect for personalizing one’s wardrobe. Whether customers come in looking for a date night ensemble, something to wear to Burning Man or just a day-to-day outfit that represents their personality and fits like a glove…well, Kelly has it covered.

“I’m in the people business and just happen to sell clothes,” he said. “But I’ve always been into fashion since I was a kid. I loved going to vintage stores…and finding unique stuff.”

Kelly may have moved to Fairfax not long ago, but in a few short years, he has taken his shop from a modest but rockin’ farmers’ market stall to the full-fledged boutique that SONAS is today. Although he originally hails from Dublin, he has fast become the beating heart of style in the Fairfax community. His people-forward approach in fashion, business and life has created a lasting, positive impression that makes SONAS an epicenter of good vibes that spreads and ripples out into the world.

He describes his style as “timeless and classic with an edge” and with more than a hint of rock ’n’ roll. The shop’s name, SONAS, comes from the Gaelic word for “happiness, good fortune, prosperity, luck, success, felicity and bliss.”

One of the most exciting aspects of a visit to SONAS is Kelly’s iconic Before/After fashion do-overs. Those who want to see and experience a drastic change in their wardrobe (or the wardrobe of someone they love) can come on down to Fairfax. They just need to prepare to see the difference well-fitted, high-quality clothing styled to one’s own tastes can make.

Above all else, SONAS and its staff are focused on the warm and welcoming atmosphere of the shop itself. While the clothing and accessories are guaranteed high quality and suit a diverse range of tastes and genders, the combination of fashion and friendliness is what sets SONAS apart. And, as a self-professed guy’s guy, Kelly aims to make shopping and styling a comfortable and enjoyable experience for men who otherwise may not find it to be a particularly welcoming activity.

No animal products are used in Kelly’s clothing line, in part because his wife, Christine Kelly, is an animal rights attorney. Kelly describes his wife as his biggest supporter, so ensuring his style line is cruelty-free only makes sense. The one exception to this is the “re-loved” leather items, mostly shoes and boots, which gives already existing wearable animal products a second chance.

So, what can Marin’s citizens expect next from Fairfax’s fashion man? Well, his fashion plan!

“My big goal for this moving forward is building community here in Marin,” said Kelly. “I love Fairfax. There are lots of cool, interesting people, and our store has become a bit of a community center…especially with the parties, which are a fun way to gather a really unique, diverse crowd together in one place. We’ve been throwing those since the beginning.”

“Last year, I got the idea to do Marin Fashion Week,” he added.

Kelly’s idea for a fashion week hit the ground running as a grassroots movement to get the party started right here in Marin. But to keep things simple, he and his entourage of helpers decided the inaugural event would do best as one stunning night celebrating haute couture.

“And that was the birth of Marin Fashion Night,” said Kelly. “[My community] took my vision to the next level, and I’m just so lucky for that.”

The first annual Marin Fashion Night took place on Oct. 5 at the Presidio Yacht Club in Sausalito. Guests were greeted and granted entry to what soon became the most well-dressed party Marin had seen in quite some time. 

With the backdrop of the Golden Gate Bridge lighting up the skyline, guests mingled, sipped on beverages and enjoyed the waterfront view while waiting in anticipation for the fashion show to begin. In the meantime, one could go browse the chic collection of clothes and accessories on display. Or they could simply admire the best-dressed guest, a friendly dog sporting a tutu (very en vogue).

After everyone had a chance to meet, greet and enjoy the top-notch vibes, it was time for the fashion show. Professional and unbelievably beautiful models strutted their perfectly curated outfits down the catwalk. And so went the first fashion show of many to come here in Marin. After the main event, more entertainment came in the form of fire dancers who twirled in time to the live DJ’s tunes well into the night. Not a single fashion faux pas was present at the event, and the vibe was immaculate yet completely unpretentious.

“There’s definitely a few people I want to thank,” concluded Kelly. “My loving wife, Christine Kelly, for her unwavering belief in me, and all the amazing food she prepared. Our creative director, Stacy Messerschmidt, for all the late nights and early mornings working with me on our stellar branding. Project manager Claire Schuur, the operations queen, who helped execute on everything.”

In addition, Kelly thanked “fashion show director Charleston Pierce, for taking this event to the next level.   Lawrence Batterton, for all his help from day one. Head stylist Michelle Moquin and her assistant. Jonathan Gaines, who made everyone look beautiful on the night. Our wonderful emcee, Tana Inskeep. And all our amazing friends who volunteered to make this night so memorable.”

Next year, Kelly hopes to make for an even more memorable Marin Fashion event lineup, with an elegant red-carpet rollout one day and a hopping party the next. He even has a vision for an afterparty to keep the well-dressed guests dancing, chatting and stunting/strutting their stuff as long as they want.

After dressing the citizens of Marin to the nines, Kelly may very well roll out his classic yet edgy rock ’n’ roll style movement to the rest of the world. As he said, “Think global; start local.” But before that happens, Kelly has his sights on bringing the North Bay a taste of his great sense of style, a sense of togetherness and (of course) an all-together great and stylish party.

Those in the community who want to stay updated on future Marin Fashion Nights and the SONAS clothing line can join the mailing list. 

Visit sonasdenim.com or come on down to 10 Bolinas Rd. in Fairfax, and get started on becoming a local fashion icon.

End HIV

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White House must ensure access to cutting-edge prevention drugs

The Biden-Harris administration has a historic opportunity to help end HIV. New, cutting-edge drugs that prevent HIV are hitting the market, but insurance companies are trying to twist the rules to deny access to these remarkable therapies.

Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) drugs represent one of the most vital tools we have to combat HIV. These highly effective therapies can reduce the risk of contracting HIV by up to 99%. So far, the FDA has approved two once-daily PrEP pills, and in 2021, approved the first long-acting injectable version of PrEP.

Currently, just 36% of people who could benefit from PrEP are using it. Racial and ethnic groups face wide disparities in PrEP uptake. For example, Black individuals constitute 39% of new HIV diagnoses but only 14% of PrEP users.

A new federal directive, if properly enforced, could help close these gaps. In August 2023, a panel of prevention experts issued an updated recommendation to clinicians, recommending PrEP—including long-acting forms of the drugs—to people who want to prevent HIV acquisition. Under the Affordable Care Act, most newly issued private health plans must be covered without patient cost-sharing to comply with this recommendation beginning in September.

Yet many HIV experts and patient advocates have raised concerns that insurers could misinterpret the task force’s decision and keep barriers to PrEP in place.

One top concern is that insurance companies could decide to cover only one kind of PrEP, even though the task force’s recommendation isn’t drug-specific—it applies to all versions. Yet long-acting PrEP is a critical option for many patients, such as those who struggle to adhere to once-daily drug regimens.

The Biden-Harris administration, through the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), has an opportunity to issue clear, detailed guidance that ensures health plans comply with the legal requirement to cover PrEP for all eligible patients at no cost.

CMS’s guidance should clarify that insurance companies must cover all FDA-approved PrEP versions, including daily pills and long-acting injectables.

Doctors—not insurance companies—should decide which drugs best suit patients’ needs.

Carl Schmid is executive director of the HIV+Hepatitis Policy Institute.

Your Letters, 10/23

Rent Bent

California’s Proposition 33 is an attempt to grab the horns of a bull raging through California residential housing. It pulls in the state’s authority to interfere with local rent control regulations. 

One of the assumptions is that unregulated municipalities would impose local rent controls to stabilize their communities and, through this, limit landlord’s (and developer’s) ability to shoot the moon on rents under the rubric of “what the market will bear.” 

I believe getting the State out of the equation is a good thing. Since the dispersion of work habitats after Covid has balkanized California’s idea of “communities,” the State is probably less tuned in administratively to local community needs and profiles. 

Some of us can choose where we live and work—others are more limited in their options (“essential workers” come to mind…). Residential properties—especially in scenic and desirable destinations such as Marin County—are increasingly appropriated as “assets” for private equity and venture capital firms, which have only one objective: Make. More. Money. They can use many instruments to leverage this tendency. Unlike local landlords, they can write off un-rented assets, allowing them to launder excessive taxable income in local “failing” real estate. 

How might we solve this problem? If Prop. 33 prevails, local governments could (freed from State constraints) impose a stiff local “property use tax rate” on non-local businesses while easing the property taxes on local landlords with an interest in stabilizing our local neighborhood economies while making a reasonable ROI. 

As such, Prop. 33 is a mediocre effort (with predictable pro and con arguments), but could head us on better, locally administered rental ordinances. 

Perhaps 33 is not the best strategy, but the 1995 State’s hold on local rental policies has outlived its usefulness.

Michael Stocker

Forest Knolls

Marin Theatre’s ‘Yaga’ Filled with Mystery and Magic

Marin Theatre’s season opener, Yaga (written by Kat Sandler and directed by Barbara Damashek), is being marketed as a mystery with a supernatural twist. However, the supernatural takes center stage before the mystery ever begins, and the supernatural is where this play shines. The show runs in Mill Valley through Nov. 3.

In a small, present-day university town where rumors of witchcraft abound and everyone seems to be an unreliable narrator, Detective Rapp (Adam KuveNiemann) arrives to investigate the disappearance of Henry, the heir to a vast yogurt fortune. He is met by small-town detective Carson (Rachel Clausen) and an increasing number of female suspects, including the local professor of osteology, Katherine (Julia McNeal). In this Slavic Twin Peaks, nobody is who they appear to be, and the only reality may be the magic and the chickens.

All actors play multiple roles, and McNeal’s work with the specificity in her roles is a joy to watch as both an audience member and a theater professional. It’s multi-characterization done incredibly right. However, McNeal’s Yaga is by far the strongest performance.

Out of a blinding flash of light (light design by Kurt Landisman), an immaculately clad Yaga (costume design by Meg Neville) appears as if by magic on the beautifully moody set encircled with birch trunks and chicken feathers (scenic design by Carlos Aceves). McNeal delivers a funny and thought-provoking monologue, asking whether Yaga is a wicked witch in the woods or a woman doing her best in a world meant for men. 

While the play’s visual aspects remain compelling, KuveNiemann and Clausen’s character shifts are less distinctive. This results in uneven scenes, with some characters lacking the depth and grounding needed to help the audience through the convoluted plot. 

The play is also long, meaning the actors must work extra hard to keep the sometimes rambling script captivating. Some subplots don’t go anywhere, and some explanations feel like the playwright is trying to hold the audience’s hand. However, the premise and plot are compelling, and Sandler’s writing shines in McNeal’s capable hands during the multiple Yaga monologues. 

This play is worth seeing for the Yagas, the production values and the intriguing marriage of Slavic lore with magical realism. It is an exciting and somewhat risky choice for Marin Theatre’s new season and its rebranding efforts.

Marin Theatre’s production of Yaga, despite a few flaws, shows promise for an interesting and thought-provoking season.

‘Yaga’ runs Weds – Sun through Nov. 3 at Marin Theatre, 397 Miller Ave., Mill Valley. Weds – Sat, 7:30pm; Sat & Sun, 2pm. $14-$85. 415.388.5208. marintheatre.org. 

Free Will Astrology: Week of Oct. 23

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): Secrets and hidden agendas have been preventing you from getting an accurate picture of what’s actually happening. But you now have the power to uncover them. I hope you will also consider the following bold moves: 1. Seek insights that could be the key to your future sexiness. 2. Change an aspect of your life you’ve always wanted to change but have never been able to. 3. Find out how far you can safely go in exploring the undersides of things. 4. Help your allies in ways that will ultimately inspire them to help you.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): From the early 1910s to the late 1920s, silent films were the only kind of films that were made. The proper technology wasn’t available to pair sounds with images. “Talking pictures,” or “talkies,” finally came into prominence in the 1930s. Sadly, the majority of silent films, some of which were fine works of art, were poorly preserved or only exist now in second- or third-generation copies. I’m meditating on this situation as a metaphor for your life, Taurus. Are there parts of your history that seem lost, erased or unavailable? The coming weeks will be an excellent time to try to recover them. Remembering and reviving your past can be a potent healing agent.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): An old proverb tells us, “You must run toward the future and catch it. It is not coming to meet you, but is fleeing from you, escaping into the unknown.” This adage isn’t true for you at all right now, Gemini. In fact, the future is dashing toward you from all directions. It is not shy or evasive, but is eager to embrace you and is full of welcoming energy. How should you respond? I recommend you make yourself very grounded. Root yourself firmly in an understanding of who you are and what you want. Show the future clearly which parts of it you really want and which parts are uninteresting to you.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Early in his musical career, Cancerian innovator Harry Partch played traditional instruments and composed a regular string quartet. But by age 29, he was inventing and building novel instruments that had never before been used. Among the materials he used in constructing his Zymo-Xyl, Eucal Blossom and Chromelodeon were tree branches, light bulbs and wine bottles. I’m inviting you to enter into a Harry Partch phase of your cycle, Cancerian. The coming weeks will be an excellent time to express your unique genius—whether that’s in your art, your business, your personal life or any other sphere where you love to express your authentic self.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Life’s unpredictable flow will bring you interesting new blessings if you revamp your fundamentals. Listen closely, Leo, because this is a subtle turn of events: A whole slew of good fortune will arrive if you joyfully initiate creative shifts in your approaches to talking, walking, exercising, eating, sleeping, meditating and having fun. These aren’t necessarily earth-shaking transformations. They may be as delicate and nuanced as the following: 1. adding amusing words to your vocabulary; 2. playfully hopping and skipping as you stroll along; 3. sampling new cuisines; 4. keeping a notebook or recorder by your bed to capture your dreams; 5. trying novel ways to open your mind and heart; 6. seeking fresh pleasures that surprise you.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): In an old Irish folk tale, the fairies give a queen a crystal cauldron with special properties. If anyone speaks three falsehoods in its presence, it cracks into three fragments. If someone utters three hearty truths while standing near it, the three pieces unite again. According to my metaphorical reading of your current destiny, Virgo, you are now in the vicinity of the broken cauldron. You have expressed one restorative truth, and need to proclaim two more. Be gently brave and bold as you provide the healing words.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Let’s review the highlights of the recent months. First, you expanded your perspective, blew your mind and raised your consciousness. That was fabulous! Next, you wandered around half-dazed and thoroughly enchanted, pleased with your new freedom and spaciousness. That, too, was fantastic! Then, you luxuriously indulged in the sheer enjoyment of your whimsical explorations and experimentations. Again, that was marvelous! Now you’re ready to spend time integrating all the teachings and epiphanies that have surged into your life in recent months. This might be less exciting, but it’s equally important.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): As a teenager, I loved the music of Jefferson Airplane. I recall sitting on the couch in my New Jersey home and listening to their albums over and over again. Years later, I was performing on stage at a San Francisco nightclub with my band, World Entertainment War. In the audience was Paul Kantner, a founding member of Jefferson Airplane. After the show, he came backstage and introduced himself. He said he wanted his current band, Jefferson Starship, to cover two of my band’s songs on his future album. Which he did. I suspect you will soon experience a comparable version of my story, Scorpio. Your past will show up bearing a gift for your future. A seed planted long ago will finally blossom.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): My horoscopes are directed toward individuals, not groups. Yet it’s impossible to provide oracles about your personal destiny without considering the collective influences that affect you. Every day, you are impacted by the culture you live in. For instance, you encounter news media that present propaganda as information and regard cynicism as a sign of intellectual vigor. You live on a planet where the climate is rapidly changing, endangering your stability and security. You are not a narrow-minded bigot who doles out hatred toward those who are unlike you, but you may have to deal with such people. I bring this to your attention, Sagittarius, because now is an excellent time to take an inventory of the world’s negative influences—and initiate aggressive measures to protect yourself from them. Even further, I hope you will cultivate and embody positive alternatives.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): I suspect you will be extra attractive, appealing and engaging in the coming weeks. You may also be especially convincing, influential and inspirational. What do you plan to do with all this potency? How will you wield your flair? Here’s what I hope: You will dispense blessings everywhere you go. You will nurture the collective health and highest good of groups and communities you are part of. PS: In unexpected ways, being unselfish will generate wonderful selfish benefits.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Do you fantasize about being a masterful manager of your world? Have you imagined the joy of being the supreme sovereign of your holy destiny? Do you love the idea of rebelling against anyone who imagines they have the right to tell you what you should do and who you are? If you answered yes to those questions, I have excellent news, Aquarius: You are now primed to take exciting steps to further the goals I described. Here’s a helpful tip: Re-dedicate yourself to the fulfillment of your two deepest desires. Swear an oath to that intention.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): The Liberation Season is here. How can you take maximum advantage of the emancipatory energies? Here are suggestions: 1. Plan adventures to frontier zones. 2. Sing and dance in the wilderness. 3. Experiment with fun and pleasure that are outside your usual repertoire. 4. Investigate what it would mean for you to be on the vanguard of your field. 5. Expand your understanding of sexuality. 6. Venture out on a pilgrimage. 7. Give yourself permission to fantasize extravagantly. 8. Consider engaging in a smart gamble. 8. Ramble, wander and explore.

Homework: Is there any joy or pleasure you deny yourself for no good reason? Newsletter.FreeWillAstrology.com

Home Again: Affordable Housing in Marin

I was blessed to win the lottery—not the one you might be thinking of, but the affordable housing lottery. I was then able to leave Sonoma County and return home to the city where I grew up: San Rafael.  

More precisely, I hail from Santa Venetia: Scabo, in the vernacular of those who hiked the hills behind Tweedies General Store (now the 7-11 store) and paddled their rubber rafts on the Civic Center lagoon.   As a girl, I loved being out there on the water until one day, a boy I knew drowned there, chasing geese.  That cast a pall over the entire neighborhood.  Kids were supposed to live forever.  That irreparably broke the paradigm.  

We were children of the 1970s, taught to play New Games at school that involved bouncing balls on parachutes and learning the spirit of cooperation instead of besting someone because that would make someone feel bad. Many of us kids felt bad during that decade, as our mothers found feminism to be the escape hatch they needed and freed themselves from loveless marriages to find their own happiness.  

At the time, I couldn’t fully appreciate how this benefitted my mother:  I just knew that splitting us into two separate households meant our middle-class aspirations were shattered as I shuttled back and forth between both my parents’ homes, as was required by law and that they were tasked with making rent/mortgage for two separate households on just one income.  

Back to the lottery: I was thrilled to have the privilege to move back to my hometown last year and see how I could make a difference here. Though I’m Buddhist by practice, I’m Jewish by blood, and I aspire to live by the Jewish precept of Tikkun Olam. I want to heal the world of its ills.  There’s a palpable need for that in my new/old neighborhood.  Few people have the good fortune to move back to Marin, once having moved away for monetary reasons.  Here’s what I found when I did:  

A young woman who lives on the streets of San Rafael, no more than 30 years old, about four feet, five inches tall, and has matted hair. You can smell her approaching, as she likely hasn’t seen soap and water for days, maybe weeks.  On a 95-degree day this summer, I bought her a gallon of water, for which she was grateful.  The following day, she was passed out in front of a liquor store on 4th Street, without even a coat or a blanket to shield her, with a half-drunk bottle of vodka neatly placed beside her. 

The other day, I saw a young man, high as a kite, no older than 30, dragging his unrepaired broken ankle and foot along the street.  The foot was at an impossibly perpendicular angle to his ankle.  I felt nausea rising in my throat just looking at it.  Was he turned away from doctors due to his inability to pay for its repair?  Or did he not bother to ask, fearing the answer would be no?

Another day, I saw a woman running out of Walgreens on 3rd Street without paying for an armful of lotion, candy, and other sundries. The employees called out impotently behind her, “Hey, come back here with that stuff!” The cashier, who’s been there for 23 years, said he used to leap over the counter and tackle those scofflaws. As he’s aged, the notion of hurdling the counter to nab the thief is off the table, lest he be sued for touching her.  

Since the law was passed that made stealing less than $950 worth of merchandise from a business a misdemeanor, it’s put most drug stores at risk of bankruptcy due to attrition, which is a fancy word for the tremendous loss of inventory those stores are now experiencing due to rampant shoplifting. Growing up here, it was unthinkable to take anything from a store.   I was a Girl Scout, and I knew that if I did, there would be moral, ethical, and legal consequences for such an act. 

I told the Walgreens thief (now seated at the traffic signal, picking at her meth scabs) that I saw what she did, and I asked her how she was doing.  She said, “You’re not a cop, are you?  I don’t care what you saw.”  And I said, “No—I’m not a cop.  I’m just concerned about you.” Hearing that, she immediately softened her approach, thanked me for my concern, wished me a nice day, and walked quickly away to find her next fix or John.  

I sat down at the Pink Owl café at an outdoor table. An adorable young man with an equally adorable dog approached me and shared some concerns with me.  Primarily, he wanted to get rid of his “gay voice.”  I encouraged him to accept it as part of his genetics and that without it, other gay men’s gaydar may not recognize him so quickly as being a member of “the tribe.”  Then, in an instant, his mind had floated out into space. He was referencing the universe, rattling off numbers at break-neck speed, talking about Satan, and accusing me of crimes I hadn’t committed.  

He, too, was so young—Just 26, or so he told me.  Seconds before I ran into him, I noticed him smoking a vape pen.  What was in it?  Fentanyl? Meth? Pot? Hash? Perhaps he had uncontrolled schizophrenia or mania, unmitigated by medication?  He was reeling out into the universe, and I wondered if he had anyone to reel him back in.  Or was he, too, one of the many folks here struggling with some mental/behavioral health challenge who was unwilling to seek support, or perhaps he had but wasn’t capable of being compliant with treatment?

Across from my affordable housing complex is a dilapidated bank that’s been closed for years.  The parking lot there is a gathering place for drug and alcohol users and the unsheltered.  The other day, I saw a man flat on his back in the blazing afternoon sun.  I gingerly approached him, looking for signs of life.  I carry Narcan with me, the nasal spray used to revive people who have overdosed on opiates. Would he be a candidate for this?  I waited for what seemed like an eternity. Then, the reassuring rise and fall of his breathing resumed. He’d live one more day to die another.  

We’ve lost a whole generation of people to the scourges that are drugs, alcohol, and untreated mental health issues.  Alcohol, I fear, is truly the most insidious drug, as the man takes the drink, the drink takes the drink, then the drink takes the man.  The other drugs can also be easily had on the street for the price the junkie wants to pay or, if lacking the money, the turning of a trick. Decades ago, kids would take a pill, have a new experience, and live to tell about it. Now, with the influx of fentanyl, that pill may be the last one they take.  If it could happen to Prince and my ex-boyfriend from childhood, no one is immune.  

Many of the street folks I encounter were emotionally, sexually, or physically abused or neglected as children or thrown out of their homes for being LGBTQ+. Quite a large number of them are veterans who saw combat. One cannot underestimate the soul-crushing nature of those experiences, and some of them live their lives unable to extricate themselves from the PTSD that resulted. They forever drag it behind them like a broken limb, evidence of their forever scars, never to be healed.  

These people are still worthy of love, or perhaps even more deserving of love than one who’s not been so severely broken and torn asunder.   Only through recognizing their humanity and attempting to connect with them can we make a difference in their lives, even for one precious moment. 

Susan Kay Gilbert M.A. Edu. is the facilitator for a dementia caregivers support group. 

Your Letters, 10/16

Clime of Times

As the election draws closer, we cannot ignore the growing impact of climate change on our communities. Hurricane Helene and now Hurricane Milton, along with dozens of wildfires this past summer, are all clear warning signs of a very real climate crisis.

This issue deserves more attention than it has received so far this election cycle. Only one brief question about climate was asked at the very end of the presidential debate.

The climate crisis impacts us all, no matter where we live or how much money we make. Americans are being told to flee their homes and risk losing everything. 

Meanwhile, Big Oil continues to put profits over people by prioritizing fossil fuels that continue to destroy our environment.

We cannot afford to lose any more time in the fight against the climate crisis. We need leaders—at the federal, state and local levels—who believe in the science of climate change and are willing or can be convinced to take bold action before it’s too late. 

So I urge everyone: When you cast your ballot this November, think of our planet and the people who call it home.

Chris Bartle

Corte Madera

Room With a View

With regard to American public life, civil discourse, diplomacy and world affairs, leadership and our current political climate, what is the largest room?

It is the room for improvement.

Craig J. Corsini

San Rafael

A Beatle, Barkuterie, Bags, and the Blues

San Rafael

The Revolution Was Televised

For one extraordinary week in 1972, John Lennon and Yoko Ono took over The Mike Douglas Show, and Daytime Revolution brings that radical moment in TV history back to life. The documentary captures five unforgettable episodes where Lennon and Ono pushed the boundaries of daytime television, inviting guests like Jerry Rubin, Bobby Seale, Ralph Nader and George Carlin to discuss issues like police violence and women’s liberation. With candid Q&A sessions, conceptual art and musical performances—including a duet with Chuck Berry—this film is a riveting reminder of art’s power to provoke change. Directed by Erik Nelson, the doc plays 7pm, Saturday, Oct. 19, and 1pm, Sunday, Oct. 20, at the Smith Rafael Film Center, 1118 4th St, San Rafael. Cost is $14 general admission, $10.50 for seniors and youth, and $8.50 for CAFILM members.

Freestone

Howl-O-Ween at Black Kite

Black Kite Cellars is bringing some spooky fun to Freestone with its first annual Pooches & Pinot event, Saturday, Oct. 26. It’s time to dress up those furry friends and join the Halloween Doggy Costume Contest for a chance to win doggy “barkuterie” boards, treats and more. While the pups enjoy their goodies, humans can sample cool-climate pinot noir and chardonnay from Black Kite’s signature flights. They may also capture Instagram-worthy moments in front of murals by Michael Duté, while sipping wine at the laid-back Jasper House, Black Kite’s pet-friendly tasting room. The event occurs in two shifts, 11am and 1pm, Saturday, Oct. 26, at 12747 El Camino Bodega, Freestone. Tickets are $50 per person, available at bit.ly/pooch-pinot.

Petaluma

Bring Your Own Bag

The Petaluma Downtown Association invites kids and their families to avoid the hustle and bustle of neighborhood trick or treating and instead enjoy the relatively calm environs of the Trick or Treat Trail in downtown Petaluma. Over 70 businesses will participate, offering treats and spooky fun from 3 to 5:30pm, Thursday, Oct. 31. The trail runs along Kentucky Street, Western Avenue, Petaluma Boulevard and the Theater District, with highlights including a costume contest at Ivy’s Hideout, a photo booth at Poppy’s and treats from the Petaluma Fire and Police Departments. Maps soon to be available (after Oct. 28) at  petalumadowntown.com/trick-or-treat-trail.

San Rafael

Ladies Sing the Blues

Marin Jazz presents Three Ladies Sing the Blues on Friday, Oct. 18, featuring powerhouse artists Terrie Odabi, Tia Carroll and Lady Bianca. These award-winning blues and jazz singers will perform onstage together for the first time at the Marin Center Showcase Theater. Known for their full-throated singing and virtuosic piano playing, the three icons are internationally touring and recording artists and are the Bay Area’s very own blues ambassadors to the world. They perform at 7pm, Friday, Oct. 18, at the Marin Center Showcase Theater, 20 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. Tickets are $55 and $65. For more details and to purchase tickets, go to marinjazz.com.

Celebrity Chef Ryan Scott, San Anselmo’s Trailer Blazer

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Some might know Ryan Scott as a celebrity chef and TV personality. But for those in the know, he’s also the guy behind a small boutique food trailer, RS 2go, in San Anselmo. It’s a passion project inspired by living in the neighborhood and cooking the comfort food he craves. My belly can attest that we all benefit from that.  

What do you do? I’m a professional dishwasher, who happens to have won two Emmy awards and written two best-selling cookbooks.

Where can we find you when you’re not at work? 

Ahhhh, at work. On the line cooking at my new trailer and loving it. chefryanscott.com/boutique-cafe

Where do you live? In the amazing little town of San Anselmo.

How long have you lived in Marin?   

Five years this Thanksgiving.

If you had to convince someone how awesome Marin is, where would you take them? 

Easy; downtown San Anselmo: Get coffee at Longway, see Yoda at Imagination Park, get pizza at Creekside Pizza and then people-watch. #favethingever

What’s one thing Marin is missing? 

A bowling alley. Even though the one in San Rafael is closed, my family still heads up to Petaluma for a day of bowling and video games.

What’s one bit of advice you’d share with your fellow Marinites? 

There’s a reason we’re here; don’t forget that. Park the car, walk or hike… we’re blessed here. No doubt, as Gwen Stefani would say.

If you could ask anyone to join you at dinner, who would you invite? 

Babe Ruth and Dwight Yoakam. There’s not a day I don’t listen to Dwight, usually at 2am, baking pastries. Babe has been my idol since I was three; he’s the best, still the best.

What’s some advice you wish you knew 20 years ago?

Nobody in their 40s is looking for a new best friend… so choose wisely and know your time has value. Put you first. 

What’s something that 20 years from now will seem cringeworthy? 

Sadly, our ecosystem. Apple Pay. Twitter (aka X). And maybe MySpace will come back… also probably my gut and hairline.

Big question. What’s one thing you’d do to change the world?

Pay teachers more!!! More, more, more.

Make sure to check @ryanscott2go on Instagram for updates on when the trailer is open. Currently, it’s open on weekends until Thanksgiving week, then Scott’s off with the family for the holidays, and then back again. 

Nish Nadaraja is always up to something at @IveGotNissues and might just see you in line at Scott’s RS 2go Boutique Food Trailer.

North Bay Journo’s New Docu-series, ‘OtherWise’

Content is everywhere in this day and age, but content worth consuming is increasingly rare and hard to find—that’s why OtherWise with Jane Harvey is such a diamond in the digital rough. 

OtherWise with Jane Harvey is a docu-series and podcast that, through interviews with various intriguing individuals, aims to highlight the unique insights of those who learned to transmute their lived experience into something extraordinary and often beautiful. 

As the title suggests, OtherWise is all about showcasing other forms of wisdom from those whose experiences and advice don’t necessarily fall into the mainstream. This newly released show shines bright not only for its stunning technical quality, but for the intent behind its rather inspirational vision, all of which goes to show what can happen when authenticity and talent are brought together by passion and compassion.

The masterminds behind OtherWise with Jane Harvey are, unsurprisingly, Jane and Micah Harvey, a recently married couple who took their talent and compatibility and poured it into a shared entrepreneurial vision. And now, that shared vision is a reality with the series to prove it.

“This project has been in the works for most of my life—finding a way to combine my creativity, my love of humanity and my love of storytelling has been the goal for me since day one,” Jane Harvey explained.

“This show has taken my passion for visual storytelling to a whole new level,” added Micah Harvey. “Creating media that elevates the human experience, at a time when it’s so needed, feels like what I’m meant to do. Hearing the stories of our interviewees, getting to sit down with them and get to know them, deeply moves me. Being able to amplify their messages is incredibly fulfilling.”

OtherWise with Jane Harvey is designed to showcase a wide variety of the elements that make up the human condition through an honest lens—this is especially true of those who took the path that leads from struggle to resilience and then to artistry. In sharing stories of individuals’ unique experiences in learning to balance life’s challenges and success through an accessible platform, OtherWise hopes to uplift and inspire its listeners to pursue their passions and explore life’s many opportunities for creativity.

“This show is about inspiring goodness and fostering connection,” Jane Harvey explained. “Bottom line: It’s here to help you, make you laugh, lift up your heart and boost your energy. ”

The concept for OtherWise first took root in 2021, when Jane Harvey decided to take her experiences as Bay Area art and culture journalist (including for the Pacific Sun and Bohemian, under her original byline, Jane Vick) into a different, more expansive media format. Though she enjoyed speaking with and highlighting the artists, thinkers and otherwise interviewable individuals through written word, she found the medium restricted her ability to truly showcase the extent of her interview experiences. 

And so, the former Jane Vick set off to find her own way to share more of others’ wisdom with the world…with the help of her then-boyfriend and now-husband, of course.

“When we were [first] filming, [Micah] saw what I wanted to see and shot what I wanted to shoot, and so we have a synergy in terms of our creative vision that feels really natural and good,” said Jane Harvey.

“After that, it was like, ‘What if we did this—what if we started a business and made a show?’” she continued. “And so, we spent the next two and a half years making a show. We did our 9 to 5 jobs, and then our 5 to 9 was spent in the production studio, interviewing, and making sure we had materials to launch with, building up the entire brand, the website, structure, socials…”

The couple combined their shared talent and experiences in creating and managing content, and what alchemized was the first seed that would eventually grow to become OtherWise

“I had great opportunities to learn as I developed my career, but found the more I progressed, the more I was guiding and approving other people’s creative process instead of developing my own,” said Micah Harvey. “The pay was comfortable, but it wasn’t that spark I experienced when working with Jane to create and tell stories that inspire people.”

In between their respective 9 to 5 and 5 to 9 jobs, Jane and Micah Harvey also managed to fit a few moves, an engagement and a wedding into their busy schedule. But when one is inspired, it seems as though no work is too much and no life is too busy to make room for the most important parts. The couple agrees that the breadth of everything they accomplished in such a short time span was far from easy, but was very worth the time, effort and risks.

“These two and a half years have been great, and challenging,” said Jane Harvey. “Being comfortable with discomfort was important. Knowing that this is going to be hard and uncomfortable and risky and scary, and those are actually indicators that you’re doing something really important.”

The first two video episodes of OtherWise with Jane Harvey were released just this September, and both are available to watch online. The docu-series begins with an intimate interview with Holly Wong, a San Francisco-based mixed-media artist who transmuted her early struggles into an honest and powerful story of living authentically and fully. The second OtherWise episode features Orin Carpenter, a multimedia artist, painter and arts teacher with a whole lot of wisdom, talent and kindness to share.

“A word that keeps coming up that I’m proud of is ‘authentic,’” said Micah Harvey. “…it’s important for us to come off with that authenticity, so it’s really comforting to hear people are receiving it that way.”

Now, the Harveys are excited to continue their work on OtherWise and share the incredible life stories, struggles and successes alike, of those they interview, with the world. And yes, they are aware of the very meta fact that they too took their struggles and passions, both individual and shared, and turned them into their own impactful artistic expression.

“We feel the magic of the fact that we are living the life that we created, and it’s the very thing we are interviewing people about—living our truth and dream,” said Jane Harvey.

“I have been wanting to do something like this my whole life, and when I met Micah I thought, ‘I can do this with this person,’” she concluded. “I won’t say I couldn’t have done it without him, but I would never want to.”

So, those interested in expanding their horizons and getting inspired one story at a time may tune in and watch an episode (or two) of OtherWise with Jane Harvey—just visit otherwisewithjaneharvey.com and enjoy!

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