Free Will Astrology, Nov. 19-25

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): In the coming weeks, I invite you to commune intimately with your holy anger. Not petulant tantrums, not the ego’s defensive rage, but the fierce love that refuses to tolerate injustice. You will be wise to draw on the righteous “No” that draws boundaries and defends the vulnerable. I hope you will call on protective fury on behalf of those who need help. Here’s a reminder of what I’m sure you know: Calmness in the face of cruelty isn’t enlightenment but complicity. Your anger, when it safeguards and serves love rather than destroys, is a spiritual practice.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): The Korean concept of jeong is the emotional bond that forms between people, places or things through shared experiences over time. It’s deeper than love and more complex than attachment: the accumulated weight of history together. You can have jeong for a person you don’t even like anymore, for a city that broke your heart, for a coffee mug you’ve used every morning for years. As the scar tissue of togetherness, it can be beautiful and poignant. Now is an especially good time for you to appreciate and honor your jeong. Celebrate and learn from the soulful mysteries your history has bequeathed you.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): More than 100 trillion bacteria live in your intestines. They have a powerful impact. They produce neurotransmitters, influence your mood, train your immune system and communicate with your brain via the vagus nerve. Other life forms are part of the team within you, too, including fungi, viruses and archaea. So in a real sense, you are not merely a human who contains small organisms. You are an ecosystem of species making collective decisions. Your “gut feelings” are collaborations. I bring this all to your attention because the coming weeks will be a highly favorable time to enhance the health of your gut biome. For more info: tinyurl.com/EnhanceGutBiome.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Why, yes, I myself am born under the sign of Cancer the Crab, just as you are. So as I offer you my ongoing observations and counsel, I am also giving myself blessings. In the coming weeks, we will benefit from going through a phase of consolidation and integration. The creative flourishes we have unveiled recently need to be refined and activated on deeper levels. This necessary deepening may initially feel more like work than play, and not as much fun as the rapid progress we have been enjoying. But with a slight tweak of our attitude, we can thoroughly thrive during this upcoming phase.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): I suggest that in the coming weeks you care more about getting things done than pursuing impossible magnificence. The simple labor of love you actually finish is worth more than the masterpiece you never start. The healthy but makeshift meal you throw together feeds you well, whereas the theoretical but abandoned feast does not. Even more than usual, Leo, the perfect will be the enemy of the good. Here are quotes to inspire you. 1. “Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order.” —Anne Wilson Schaef. 2. “Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing.” —Harriet Braiker. 3. “Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection, we can catch excellence.” —Vince Lombardi.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Now is an excellent time to practice the art of forgetting. I hope you formulate an intention to release the grievances and grudges that are overdue for dissolution. They not only don’t serve you but actually diminish you. Here’s a fact about your brain: It remembers everything unless you actively practice forgetting. So here’s my plan: Meditate on the truth that forgiveness is not a feeling; it’s a decision to stop rehearsing the resentment, to quit telling yourself the story that keeps the wound fresh. The lesson you’re ready to learn: Some memories are worth evicting. Not all the past is worth preserving. Selective amnesia can be a survival skill.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): A Navajo blessing says, “May you walk in beauty.” Not just see beauty or create it, but walk in it, inhabit it and move through the world as if beauty is your gravity. When you’re at the height of your lyrical powers, Libra, you do this naturally. You are especially receptive to the aesthetic soul of things. You can draw out the harmony beneath surface friction and improvise grace in the midst of chaos. I’m happy to tell you that you are currently at the height of these lyrical powers. I hope you’ll be bold in expressing them. Even if others aren’t consciously aware and appreciative of what you’re doing, beautify every situation you’re in.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Your theme for the coming weeks is the fertile power of small things: the transformations that happen in the margins and subtle gestures. A kind word that shifts someone’s day, for instance. Or a refusal to participate in casual cruelty. Or a choice to see value in what you’re supposed to ignore. So I hope you will meditate on this healing theme: Change doesn’t always announce itself with drama and manifestos. The most heroic act might be to pay tender attention and refuse to be numbed. Find power in understated insurrections.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): A day on Venus (one rotation on its axis) lasts about 243 Earth days. However, a year on Venus (one orbit around the sun) takes only about 225 Earth days. So a Venusian day is longer than its year. If you lived on Venus, the sun wouldn’t even set before your next Venusian birthday arrived. Here’s another weird fact: Contrary to what happens on every other planet in the solar system, on Venus the sun rises in the west and sets in the east. Moral of the story: Even planets refuse to conform and make their own rules. If celestial bodies can be so gloriously contrary to convention, so can you. In accordance with current astrological omens, I encourage you to exuberantly explore this creative freedom in the coming weeks.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Let’s revisit the ancient Greeks’ understanding that we are all born with a daimon: a guiding spirit who whispers help and counsel, especially if we stay alert for its assistance. Typically, the messages are subtle, even half-disguised. Our daimons don’t usually shout. But I predict that will change for you in the coming weeks, especially if you cultivate listening as a superpower. Your personal daimon will be extra talkative and forthcoming. So be vigilant for unexpected support, Capricorn. Expect epiphanies and breakthrough revelations. Pay attention to the book that falls open to a page that has an oracular hint just for you. Take notice of a song that repeats or a sudden urge to change direction on your walk.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Awe should be one of your featured emotions in the coming weeks. I hope you will also seek out and cultivate reverence, deep respect, excited wonder and an attraction to sublime surprises. Why do I recommend such seemingly impractical measures? Because you’re close to breaking through into a heightened capacity for generosity of spirit and a sweet lust for life. Being alert for amazement and attuned to transcendent experiences could change your life for the better forever. I love your ego—it’s a crucial aspect of your make-up—but now is a time to exalt and uplift your soul.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): What if your anxiety is actually misinterpreted excitement? What if the difference between worry and exhilaration is the story you tell yourself about the electricity streaming through you? Maybe your body is revving up for something interesting and important, but your mind mislabels the sensation. Try this experiment: Next time your heart races and your mind spins, tell yourself “I’m excited” instead of “I’m anxious.” See if your mood shape-shifts.

Local Cornucopia, A Market for Makers

A “made locally” store is stocked with much of all we make here. In a right world, there would be one of these stores in every town and village. 

In a righteous world, there would be more than one store and kiosk, differentiated in concept (home goods, clothing, food, art and apothecary), as the local production of mutually supporting artisans displaced the cheap importation of mass manufactures.

Made local stores incubate local brands emerging from local garages and kitchens, producing local culture and sense of place, paying local sales tax and circulating local dollars in an upwardly spinning trajectory of green, blue, pink and golden prosperity.

Blinking that dizzy vision out of my eyes, I see that we now have two of these stores. One is in Santa Rosa, and one is in Novato. And for that give credit to Willow Fish Peterson, owner and steward of Made Local Marketplace. For this edition of the column, I visited the second store, newly opened in Novato, at the corner of Grant and Machin. 

With a high window carved out from a former monumental bank, it is at once classical and rustic, in the farm and antique style of Fish Peterson’s furnishing and display. Divided into small departments, the store has sections for local home goods, clothing, art, apothecary, dry good provisions, jewelry, beer and wine. 

Rather than reproduce the content of her successful Santa Rosa store (and stretch the concept of local to regionality), Fish Peterson reached out to small producers in her new Marin neighborhood, which now constitute 40 of the 90 local artists and makers represented in her store.

Cincinnatus Hibbard: Willow, what is your connection to Marin?

Willow Fish Peterson: My husband is from Marin.

You’re a growing success. Why do people like your stores?

People like that they can come in and find a truly unique gift—without having to do that online thing we do for convenience but not for joy. It’s a joyful experience to shop at one of our stores. You can touch and smell things, turn them over and feel their worth in your own two hands.

I understand that your store employees are some of the local makers represented here. Is it true that they know the local names and stories of all the producers in the shop?

Yes (laughing).

That is special, and distinctly different about the Made Local store—you know the names of the lives you touch. Let me choose one product at random… That display of local purses caught my eye; they look as fine as anything you would see at Coach.

That’s Ann Victor, and Ann Victor is her label (laughing).  She’s been making them for a long time and has a closet full of them, but this is her first time selling them—and they are just flying off the shelf.

Besides the heart, I’m interested in the numbers. What is the deal you offer your makers?

All the information is on our website, (as well as the) application to apply. We offer makers a 50/50 split. It is consignment based, and they are paid at the end of every month. At the end of the month, I get to write 170 local checks.

Learn more: The new Novato Made Local store is at 881 Grant Ave. The Santa Rosa store is at 2421 Magowan Dr. Visit their website at madelocalmarketplace.com. Shop their ever popular local cornucopia gift baskets there. To hear Fish Peterson’s rippling laugh, visit the store or download the podcast of our 2022 interview, ‘Sonoma County: A Community Portrait,’ episode 14.

Tenants & Landlords, Challenges Beset Marin’s Tight Residential Rental Market

One of the most harrowing experiences of my relatively charmed life occurred over the last two months as I sought out a residential rental in Marin. 

In all seriousness, I’m safe and sound now, but still not entirely over the trauma. And I’m not alone.

I checked in with other renters, landlords and a property management firm in our exclusive county. All agree that renting presents significant challenges for both tenants and owners. The biggest issue, of course, is a shortage of housing, affordable or otherwise.

Marin has a low apartment vacancy rate of 4.3%, according to the Q2 2025 CoStar Survey, an analytics report by a real estate data firm. Compare that figure to the 7% national vacancy rate for the same period, as reported by the U.S. Census Bureau, and the tight local rental market comes into focus.

Consider these stats to put it in better perspective: Marin has approximately 111,565 housing units for its 256,400 residents, with about one-third of the county’s population renting their homes. Zillow, a popular online real estate marketplace, currently has just 766 available residential rentals. Sure, the site doesn’t list every rental, but let’s just say Zillow’s tally indicates that it’s darn competitive out there.

My search began when I sold my little condo with a jarringly fast one-week close. I immediately perused postings on the large rental websites, including Zillow, Apartments.com and Craigslist. My list narrowed from the git-go because not all landlords accept dogs.

Admittedly, I started off with strict and in hindsight too many standards. Charming. Natural light flooding in. Ample closets. Laundry. Perhaps a view or garden. Preferably an ADU or a lovely Victorian divided into a few units.

This set of criteria couldn’t be met in a week, sending me to bunk on a friend’s sofa. Treating the search like a job, I checked the listings at least daily. I found a lovely ADU in San Anselmo where the landlord allowed dogs but didn’t permit poop bags in the outside garbage can. Perplexed about the disposal process, I moved on.

Reviewing the lease for a Ross cottage, I discovered that I was limited to one overnight guest for two nights in a six-month period. Forget about those weekend visits with my SoCal sister or bestie from Austin.

Then there were the funky units. One possessed just a hot plate and dorm fridge in the kitchen, while another had slanted floors that kept me off-balance. The few places that seemed ideal were rented before I could fill out the applications.

To gain some insight on why I kept failing to find an inviting place to hang my hat, I caught up with Matt Borries, VP of business development for Prandi Property Management, Marin’s largest property management company.

“Owners who live on the property have a vision of the type of renter they’re seeking,” Borries said. “They want this perfect living situation with the perfect person. It can be quirky because they may not know the rental laws and want to have a lot of control.”

Borries advises renters to be aware if they’re dealing directly with an owner who lives on site or a mom-and-pop landlord. They should ask the right questions and carefully review the lease to ensure it hasn’t departed too far from a boilerplate agreement.

Professionally managed properties—from a $1,700 San Rafael studio apartment to a $17,000 Mill Valley home—place an intermediary between the tenant and owner, benefiting all parties. Most of Prandi’s clients don’t make a career of owning rentals; rather, they belong to the “accidental landlord” category. They need to leave their home but aren’t yet prepared to sell.

This category includes the person relocating for a job, but concerned that if all doesn’t go as planned, they won’t be able to buy back into Marin’s ever-appreciating real estate market. Then there’s the couple who has owned their home for 40 years, needs to move into assisted living and wants to avoid a huge capital gains tax.

As a prospective tenant, dealing with a reputable property management company removes many worries, such as becoming a scam victim. Joan, a Mill Valley resident using only her first name, has a 24-year-old son who almost fell for a con by a man claiming to own a one-bedroom Marin apartment renting for $2,000 a month. After obtaining personal information from the young man, including ID, credit score and employment background, he then required a signed lease and security deposit to show the apartment prior to an upcoming open house.

“All this seemed like a big red flag,” Joan said. “The apartment was listed on Apartments.com. I notified them, and they had it taken down from their site within 24 hours.”

Renters are essentially on their own, says Borries. Prandi’s leasing agents will show a potential tenant properties in their portfolio. But unlike a realtor representing a home buyer, renters’ agents don’t exist in Marin.

Landlords also have a difficult time. A woman we’ll call Tammy is trying to rent out a bedroom and shared bath in her Novato home, where she also lives. Young people often share homes to keep expenses low, yet it has also become commonplace among mature adults in high-priced real estate markets.

Tammy hasn’t had much luck. A man getting divorced seemed appropriate, until his wife insisted that he take the two dogs with him to Tammy’s home with a no-pet policy. Students typically can’t afford the $1,200 rent, and professionals would rather pay more to have their own bathroom. Currently, Tammy is considering renting to a single dad who works at a nearby grocery store.

“I do want to help the local workers and make it possible for them to reside close to their work,” Tammy said. “So let’s see how that goes.”

Borries offers advice for both landlords and tenants to help the process run more smoothly. For example, landlords should have the roof and furnace inspected and replace the 20-year-old carpet.

“I’m not telling them to renovate their home, but they’ve got to bring it up to speed to attract a quality tenant and more value,” he said.

Suggestions for renters include starting the search 60 days ahead of when they need a new place. Cut back on the number of must haves and remain flexible. Set up alerts on rental websites for units coming on the market that meet their top criteria. And expect a one- to three-week overlap in paying rent because it’s hard to line up the last day of a current rental with the first day of a new lease.

Borries is spot on, at least in my situation. After a disappointing and exhaustive eight-week hunt for unique and cozy quarters, the cookie-cutter, corporate-owned apartment complexes looked more attractive. I’m living in one now.

Finding a rental is like that game of musical chairs where people outnumber seats. Keep moving and grab the empty spot before someone else does. And don’t forget to read the fine print.

Pouring Stories, Writer Jeff Burkhart Raises the Bar on Stage

Jeff Burkhart has long been a fixture of Marin nightlife, both behind the bar and the byline. 

As the “Barfly” columnist for the Marin Independent Journal and a five-time “Best Media Personality” winner in the Pacific Sun annual “Best of Marin” readers’ poll, Burkhart has chronicled the comedy, chaos and quiet wisdom of life behind the stick for nearly two decades.

Now, he’s bringing that world to the stage with Tale of a Barfly: Stories Poured from the Pages of Twenty Years Behind Bars, a full three-act production premiering 8pm, Thursday, Nov. 20, at the Showcase Theater, Marin Civic Center in San Rafael.

For those who’ve followed his column or his two books, this evolution feels inevitable. Burkhart’s writing has always had a cinematic quality, and for good reason: “Initially, I wanted to be a screenwriter, and not a journalist,” says Burkhart. “So I tend to write ‘in scene.’ Meaning that I write what I see, in person, and in my head. And that translates pretty well to a visual medium.”

It’s a natural transition for a storyteller whose observations already play like theater. In collaboration with photographer and filmmaker Lou Lesko, the project became a full narrative that merges memoir and imagination. 

“Lou is a fantastic photographer and a great visual artist,” Burkhart says (Lesko shot the book covers for the writer’s two volumes of Twenty Years Behind Bars). “With his help, and expertise, we turned my stories and vision into a full narrative that not only incorporates a few of my stories but my overall experience as well.”

The production also includes Burkhart’s daughter, actress Callan Taylor, who stars alongside local performers Isabelle Barkey and Peter Malmquist. Taylor, a former Marin School of the Arts student, is known for her recurring role on Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why and for appearing in the short film Testing 1,2,3, based on one of her father’s stories. For Burkhart, sharing a stage with her is both personal and profound. 

“How many people get to combine their creative dream with their child’s creative dream?” he asks. “Callan is a true professional, and she really lights up the stage, so it’s enormously gratifying to be standing next to her when that happens. It is also interesting to hear one’s own dialogue coming out of the mouth of one’s own daughter. Often actors don’t like to take direction from writers, but in this case, it’s also her dad. And it all works.”

At its heart, Tale of a Barfly follows two women—a seasoned bartender and a writer learning the trade—whose parallel journeys explore what it means to find purpose in unexpected places. “The story of the two characters is really my story, in a sense, albeit combined and fictionalized for dramatic purposes,” Burkhart explains. “A bartender who wants to be a writer, only to discover that you can be both. Life comes right at you, no matter where you are. And sometimes, just standing right where you are is the best possible place in the world for you to be. That is the theme that we worked around.”

Few writers know better how bars double as stages for the human condition. “In a bar, especially a busy one, the breadth of human experience is on display almost every day,” he says. “All the world is a stage, and it has been my privilege and pleasure to be able to look through that very real proscenium arch, and write about it, for nearly 20 years.”

‘Tale of a Barfly’ plays Thursday, Nov. 20, 8pm, Showcase Theater, Marin Civic Center, San Rafael. Tickets $62–$165. More info at marincenter.org.

Déjà Vu: Marin Theatre Revisits Subject of Division

Much has been said and written about the (then) Marin Theatre Company’s 2017 production of Thomas Bradshaw’s Thomas and Sally. Bradshaw’s historical fiction used a conversation between college students as the framing device to explore the possible relationship between Founding Father Thomas Jefferson and his slave, Sally Hemings. 

To say the Jasson Minadakis-directed production was divisive would be a bit of an understatement.

Now the renamed Marin Theatre, under artistic director Lance Gardner, revisits the subject with their production of Suzan-Lori Parks’ Sally & Tom. Whether it’s canny marketing, a thumb in the eye of a segment of the theater community or a genuine attempt to address the still-existing wounds left by the prior production I’ll leave for others to debate. The show runs in Mill Valley through Nov. 23.    

Parks’ framing device, though I think it’s much more than that, is a theater company mounting an original play about Hemings and Jefferson. Company leaders and personal partners Mike (Adam KuveNiemann) and Luce (Emily Newsome) think they finally have a play that people will actually come to see and a financial backer for it if they’re willing to make a few changes.

This play is titled The Pursuit of Happiness, and it tells its version of the Hemings and Jefferson story. Mike (KuveNeimann) plays Jefferson and directs; Luce (Newsome) plays Hemings and is the playwright. That dynamic is not coincidental. The unseen backer wants a key speech by Hemings’ brother James dropped, much to the consternation of Kwame (Titus VanHook), the Hollywood actor cast in the role. 

The relationship between money and art is the real relationship being examined here, and the compromises or sacrifices made (or not made) by one in pursuit of the other provides the drama. That drama is laced with a lot of comedy, as the company members do whatever it takes to get the show up and running. Parks perfectly captures the theater environment, a place where everyone wears three-or-more hats and relationships begin and end.     

Gardner has a great cast at work here, each doing double duty as the actors and the roles they play in the play-within-the-play. Newsome and KuveNiemann are outstanding in the lead roles, and they get excellent support from the entire cast.

The design work is superb, and the transitions from show to “show” are really well handled. The show is long (two and a half hours), but it flows.  

History aside, Sally & Tom merits a view on its own terms. ‘Sally & Tom’ runs through Nov. 23 at Marin Theatre, 397 Miller Ave., Mill Valley. Weds–Sat, 7:30pm; Sat & Sun, 2pm. $15-$79. 415.388.5208. marintheatre.org.

Lineage of Light: Inside Sausalito’s ICB/ART Open Studios Tradition

Scroll down for an on-air interview re: ICB/ART on The Drive 95.5 FM.

Every November, the vast, sun-washed expanse of the ICB Building on Sausalito’s waterfront hums like a beehive. For two days, its 100-plus studios are open to the public for ICB/ART Open Studios—a half-century-old tradition that’s part pilgrimage, part art fair and part family reunion for the Bay Area’s creative class.

This year’s edition, taking place Saturday and Sunday, Nov. 15–16, from 11am to 5pm, comes with a small but meaningful shift: It’s happening earlier than usual. The move from December to mid-November keeps visitors (and their shoes) safe from the seasonal king tides that periodically flood the building’s parking lot, while also giving collectors and gift-seekers a head start before the holidays.

Housed in a World War II-era shipbuilding warehouse at 480 Gate 5 Rd., the “Industrial Center Building,” aka “ICB,” has long been a crucible for Bay Area creativity. Just down the waterfront, painter Richard Diebenkorn was transitioning from abstract expressionism to what would become the Bay Area figurative movement. Nearby, Jean Varda threw parties on his floating studio; Ruth Asawa twisted wire into wonder; Alan Watts pondered enlightenment; and Jerry Garcia tuned up between gigs. Their ghosts linger, and the spirit is very much alive—embodied by more than 180 artists who now occupy the building’s three floors.

“The first time I walked the hallways, I felt the residue of decades of searching—paint scraped back, risks taken, ideas tried and abandoned,” says ICB artist Rachel Davis, one of more than a hundred participants in this year’s event. “You can almost hear it humming in the walls. Working here is a daily reminder that I’m part of a lineage of artists who took their work seriously enough to show up for it, over and over. That atmosphere matters. It keeps you honest. It gives you permission to make the next bold mark, not the safe one.”

That sense of lineage is precisely what draws visitors back year after year. The weekend-long celebration offers a rare chance to step inside the creative process itself—to see what’s beneath the varnish, both literally and metaphorically. 

“The finished painting is only the visible tip of the work,” Davis explains. “Under every surface are erased lines, failed passages and choices that got painted over but still influence the final piece. When people see the charcoal transfers, taped fragments and scraped panels on my floor, they understand that art is built, not conjured. I want them to feel the aliveness of process—and maybe walk away less afraid of their own imperfect beginnings.”

It’s a theme that resonates throughout the building. Each hallway is a corridor of contrasts—ceramicists next to photographers, sculptors beside designers, painters sharing air with architects. “It’s like a hive—100 doors, each opening onto a different universe,” Davis says. “One moment you’re inside a serene textile studio; the next you’re watching someone weld steel or pour resin. The energy is generous and cross-pollinating. Ideas travel through the building faster than the elevator does. And during Open Studios, that private hum becomes fully public—visitors get to feel what we feel every day.”

Though many of the ICB artists exhibit nationally and internationally, the weekend maintains a refreshingly local intimacy. 

“The wider art world is important, of course,” Davis adds. “But there’s something grounding about opening the actual studio door and saying, ‘This is where it happens—come in.’ People see the taped reference photos, the drying racks, the bad brushes I refuse to throw away. The work becomes less mythic and more human. I hope visitors leave knowing that collecting art isn’t just about owning an object—it’s about forming a relationship with the maker, the story, the room it was born in. That’s what a building like this makes possible.”

ICB/ART Open Studios runs 11am–5pm, Saturday–Sunday, Nov. 15–16, at the ICB Building, 480 Gate 5 Rd., Sausalito. More information at icbart.com.

Lauded Legacy: Courtney Benham Reignites a Wine Icon

Courtney Benham is founder and president of the vast CMB Family of Wines, including Martin Ray, Angeline, Synthesis, his own label, plus Vina Robles and Foppiano. His days bounce between vineyards, blending sessions, site visits and strategy meetings; never the same day twice. It’s why he says it is “probably why I still love it after more than 40 years.”

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Courtney Benham: I grew up on a farm in Bakersfield; it was a childhood filled with adventure—and almonds, pistachios and long hot summers. Agriculture was part of life. After college, I gave professional tennis a go, but it turns out I was more wired for soft dirt than hard courts. My family started Lost Hills Winery, and that was my entry point into wine. I learned all sides of the business, from hauling hoses to running numbers. A few years later, I started Blackstone which, luckily, ended up being a big success and helped catapult my wine career even further.

In 1990, while looking for warehouse space in San Jose and while still working on Blackstone, I stumbled upon 1,500 cases of library wine from pioneering winemaker Martin Ray. I was very impressed. I bought the wine and the name, and eventually the historic Martini & Prati winery in the Russian River Valley, ultimately turning it into what today is Martin Ray Vineyards & Winery.

Did you ever have an ‘aha’ moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

That Martin Ray discovery was it. I opened those old bottles and realized how alive they still were—complex, expressive, totally unexpected. It hit me that wine could outlast all of us if made right. That moment changed my whole perspective on winemaking—I stopped thinking in terms of vintages and started thinking in terms of legacy.

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

Depends on the day and what’s on the table. If I’m grilling or cooking something simple, I’ll reach for a pinot. I love the balance and earthiness, especially from the Russian River or Santa Cruz Mountains. If it’s a warm afternoon, a chardonnay with good acidity hits the spot. 

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

I like places that feel personal and that have food and wine because you can’t have one without the other. Around Marin, there are a few tucked-away spots where the list is thoughtful without trying too hard, like Buckeye, Bungalow and Poggio. 

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

Aged pinot, no question. Something with history and a little mystery. But I’d take a dry rosé, too because it’s probably going to be hot…CMB Family of Wines, 2191 Laguna Rd., Santa Rosa. 707.823.2404. courtneybenhamwines.com.

Timeless Swagger, Genre-Defying Music & KWMR Benefit

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Larkspur

Swing Thing

It’s time to get ready to swing as the Fil Lorenz Big Band Orchestra hits the Lark Theater with guest vocalist Jonathan Poretz, channeling the golden age of cool with hits from Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bobby Darin and more. Led by saxophonist and arranger Fil Lorenz, this powerhouse 1940s–50s-style orchestra ignites the stage with blistering horn lines, rich harmonies and timeless swagger. 7:30–9:30pm, Saturday, Nov. 22, Lark Theater, 549 Magnolia Ave., Larkspur. GA $60, VIP $75. Tickets: larktheater.net.

Tiburon

Jazz Fusion

The Landmarks Society’s Music at Old St. Hilary’s series continues with a performance by Michael Manring, Larry Kassin and John R. Burr, three Bay Area musicians who blur the lines between jazz, rock, folk and world music. Expect extemporaneous, genre-defying chamber-fusion from this trio of masters: Manring, a virtuoso of the electric bass; Kassin, a resourceful jazz flutist; and Burr, a rollicking pianist fluent in jazz, blues and pop idioms. 4pm, Sunday, Nov. 16, Old St. Hilary’s, 201 Esperanza, Tiburon. $25 ($20 seniors and under 18). Tickets: ticketleap or landmarkssociety.com. Free shuttle from Rustic Bakery, 1550 Tiburon Blvd., starting 30 minutes before showtime.

Petaluma

Feed the Frequency

Griffo Distillery opens its doors for Feed the Frequency—a benefit concert supporting KWMR West Marin Community Radio—on Saturday, Nov. 15. Local band The Space Orchestra headlines the night with a full live recreation of Joe Cocker’s Mad Dogs and Englishmen concert album, backed by a 13-member band and powerhouse vocals by Sebastian Saint James. The evening also features live painting by The Art of Johnny and Random Art Studio, plus seasonal cocktails and pies by Nomad Provisions. 5pm, Saturday, Nov. 15, Griffo Distillery, 1320 Scott St., Petaluma. GA $40; VIP tables $250–$450. Tickets: eventbrite.com. Proceeds benefit KWMR; kwmr.org.

Sebastopol

What’s Cooking?

Cinema buffs can feast with their eyes and appetites at Rialto Cinemas’ Dinner & a Movie Series: “What’s Cooking?”, a multicultural Thanksgiving romp pairing tamales, turkey and samosas both on screen and on the menu. Chef Michele Anna Jordan crafts a six-course meal inspired by the film’s blend of family traditions: a mac ’n’ cheese ball amuse-bouche, fresh prawn spring roll, turkey and sweet potato larb, Puerto Rican-style pernil with green beans and polenta, seasonal greens with cranberry vinaigrette and a cranberry-apple tart with espresso whipped cream. 5:30pm dinner, 7pm film, Sunday, Nov. 16, Rialto Cinemas, 6868 McKinley St., Sebastopol. $9 film-only / $75 dinner & movie. rialtocinemas.com.

Your Letters, Nov. 12

Café Conundrum

Remember when night owls had somewhere to go that wasn’t a gas station or holding cell? In the ’80s and ’90s, Petaluma’s Christine’s Café kept its lights on till midnight, and San Anselmo’s Caffè Nuvo served espresso with a free side of existentialism until, like, late, daddy-o.

Now? The North Bay rolls up its sidewalks at 9pm sharp, which is bad for creative types who are only just coming into full consciousness at that point.

We talk endlessly about “supporting the arts,” yet we’ve eliminated the very habitats where art hatches—those over-caffeinated, late-night crossroads where poets, painters and musicians plotted their next beautiful mistakes.

If we truly want a thriving arts scene, we need more than fancy gastropubs and wine bars. We need late night coffee houses again.

Cassady Caution
Nowheresville

Après Nous, Le Déluge

While millions of Americans are fighting starvation, the message from Mar-a-Lago was a giddy, “Let them sip champagne.”

I have two words for those “Great Gatsby” revelers and their horrible host: “Drink bleach.”

Bob Canning
Petaluma

SMS SOS

In England, it is customary to receive a royal letter from the king or queen when you turn 100 years old. And when you turn 14, you get a text from Andrew.

Craig J. Corsini
San Rafael

Sonomazon Arrives, Driven by Adam Haber of Trellus

Adam Haber is not a local. Unmistakably, Haber is from Long Island. But if his new partnership with SoCo “buy local” champ Go Local realizes just one tenth of its potential, Haber should be allowed to bypass our 25 year naturalization process to become an honorary Sonoma County citizen.

Driven by a mission to save local economies (read communities), Haber and his New York partners have constructed Trellus—an ecommerce platform that reproduces most of the functions of Amazon or Walmart but is exclusive to our beloved local businesses. 

Imagine a quick and easy Amazon experience but with no transnationals, no chains, just our friends and entrepreneurial neighbors. With full buy-in, our beloved local businesses combined could just approximate a one-stop everything store and become our first stop. That’s where their partnership with “trusted local messager” Go Local comes in—in a dual thrust campaign to create critical mass buy-in among local businesses and local consumers.

Despite the fear of the new (York), it’s not a hard sell. By eliminating warehousing and shortening shipping distances, Trellus has lower fees than Amazon or Walmart and vastly faster  shipping times—typically less than a couple hours—even if one is ordering from Cloverdale to Novato, or Bodega to Calistoga. 

Trellus is faster and cheaper than Amazon—and vastly more virtuous. One can see the potential for a local boom. Ecommerce now captures a rising 25% of our sales. That’s 25% of our dollars simply leaving the region instead of recirculating locally via “the multiplier effect.” 

If the Trellus-Go Local partnership realizes even half of its potential, Haber should receive a bronze equestrian statue in front of the mall—for the app that launched on Tuesday, Nov. 11 could be a turning point in our battle with corporations. A battle we have steadily been losing (see bazillionaires and “the death of the middle class” and “the buy out of American democracy”).

Cincinnatus Hibbard: Adam Haber, How many small local Sonoma County businesses were included in yesterday’s launch?

Adam Haber: 87.

Wow. How has recruitment been?

People think the idea is terrific. The biggest pushback is that people fear change. But you have to adapt to the times. Our tool helps mom and pop shops that have been getting their butts kicked for years.

Now that the bandwagon is rolling, I expect there will be many more. You have over 700 businesses in Nassau County, NY. I understand your drivers get 80% of the delivery fee and all the tips… Adam, so much of this partnership depends on trust. Tell us a bit about your motivations.

Google me; check my background. Do a background check. See what I have been involved in—public service, charities, entrepreneurialism. I sell. But I can only sell what I believe in. I don’t oversell; I’m not a BSer. I’m 60, and this is the most exciting thing I have ever been a part of. 

I’m here to show you that I will show up, be responsive, and that I care. That’s all that I can promise. Trust is built over time.

The Trellus app is now available for download at the app store. Visit the website bytrellus.com if interested in signing a local business up. Scan the QR code or type linktr.ee/TrellusLINKS for all of these links plus links to our past cover story, ‘Sonomazon,’ or to hear the full podcast interview with Adam Haber.

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Your Letters, Nov. 12

Café Conundrum Remember when night owls had somewhere to go that wasn’t a gas station or holding cell? In the ’80s and ’90s, Petaluma’s Christine’s Café kept its lights on till midnight, and San Anselmo’s Caffè Nuvo served espresso with a free side of existentialism until, like, late, daddy-o. Now? The North Bay rolls up its sidewalks at 9pm sharp, which...

Sonomazon Arrives, Driven by Adam Haber of Trellus

Scores of local Sonoma businesses sell their wares online with new Trellus app launch.
Adam Haber is not a local. Unmistakably, Haber is from Long Island. But if his new partnership with SoCo “buy local” champ Go Local realizes just one tenth of its potential, Haber should be allowed to bypass our 25 year naturalization process to become an honorary Sonoma County citizen. Driven by a mission to save local economies (read communities), Haber...
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