Why Most People Hate Their Internet Service Provider

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Most people hate their internet service provider. Distrusting the ISPs we pay for our connectivity has unfortunately become commonplace in America.

“Internet access in America is a failed competitive marketplace,” admits Dane Jasper, CEO of Sonic Internet.

Let’s dig a little deeper into why so many customers find it hard to trust their internet providers.

They treat you poorly because they don’t think you have a choice.

The current climate of internet providers has created a lack of choice for customers. At a glance, it may appear that there are only a few large companies offering you internet services. This creates the appearance that your choice depends solely on the most readily available ISP in your area (and whether you prefer its logo to be blue or red).

The truth is, there are more internet providers to choose from than just the “big ones.” And while the process of dropping one provider and scheduling an installation with another can be a hassle if they don’t buy out your contract or cover installation fees like Sonic does, the benefits are undeniable.

This makes the question of what to do when your ISP raises your bill quite simple. Cancel your service and find a better ISP.

They change your monthly bill for any number of reasons.

The reality is many internet providers have more loopholes and shenanigans for raising your bill than many of us can possibly imagine. Most of the surcharges and small additions to your bill are only discoverable if you ask for a breakdown. And even then, investigating each and every additional increase can be exhausting.

Coming out of a promotional rate? Expect an increase to your bill. Unless you’re keeping track of exactly when that expires, it’s going to be a surprise that prompts an unhealthy cycle of calling to haggle your bill each month. And haggling should not be a solution. It should be grounds for cancellation. If they did it to you once, no amount of haggling is going to magically turn them into a good ISP.

Or maybe your bill has gone up incrementally and in odd amounts? There’s a decent chance the rental fees for your equipment have gone up. They said they wouldn’t change your monthly bill, but they never said that your equipment fees would always be the same.

If they are going to nickel and dime you for the internet that we all need access to, then kick them to the curb and find someone better. That’s why the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) recently voted to pass “broadband nutrition labels” for ISPs to organize their bills. This would allow more bill transparency in an easy-to-understand format for consumers.

Your speeds are often unreliable.

Internet access is not just about price though, it’s about the quality of your connectivity. When your connection is unstable or throttled, the entire purpose of your contract can seem hopeless and frustrating.

Internet throttling is when your ISP deliberately restricts your internet bandwidth or speed without telling you. While the purpose of throttling is to clear up congested networks or regulate Internet traffic, throttling can also be used to control the websites that consumers use on a daily basis.

In 2015 for example, Netflix was reaching a high point in its popularity. The streaming pioneer claimed almost 37 percent of the internet’s bandwidth during peak streaming hours. Cutting the cable cord was slowly becoming less of a fashion statement and more of the status quo as the public saw there was an alternative to outrageous cable costs.

Netflix was quickly singled out and throttled to the point of standstill until it paid Comcast to keep its access open. ISPs were able to functionally blacklist websites.

Since then, federal “net neutrality” regulations have sadly fallen away, but there is still hope. Just this year, California’s net neutrality law was upheld in court, giving states the authority to protect themselves if the Federal Communications Commission chooses not to do so. So, there is still some protection from ISPs throttling your internet.

If you just want to improve your internet connection though, there are also options available to consumers. First off, for your computer and other devices that need to be connected to the internet, get a hardwired connection from your router.

If you don’t have that option though, there are ways to improve just the power of your WiFi. Signal extenders can be utilized to daisy chain your connection throughout your house. They are more consistent than relying on regular WiFi but are not as good as mesh routers like the Amazon Eero.

You can’t trust their data privacy policies.

Back to the topic of net neutrality, ever since Congress voted to eliminate FCC privacy rules in 2017, many ISPs have unfortunately found a new source of income for their business: their customers’ privacy. Your data is invaluable to them, and it’s not just for tracking your tendencies.

If you take a look at privacy policies across the internet, most ISPs make some claim about protecting your privacy. But often the wording is a little suspect. Comcast, for instance, promises, “not to sell information that identifies you.” What this actually means is that your location trends, credit scores, and even basic browsing behavior can be exploited to turn a profit. Many ISPs claim this isn’t the case, but lawsuits by knowledgeable watchdogs allege that some of these assurances are false.

While safeguards do exist to protect your data from being sold directly, consumers should beware of loopholes. Thankfully, there are also ways for consumers to protect themselves from their own internet providers.

A virtual private network (VPN) can give you online privacy and anonymity by creating a private network from a public internet connection. Sonic Internet provides a VPN for all its customers, as well as a dedicated promise to minimize data retention by keeping data from 0–14 days for dynamic IP addresses and other logs. We believe user data should not be retained longer than necessary, and that users deserve to have a clear understanding of their personal data held by other service providers.

Most ISPs do offer some way to opt out of data collection. Customers can go on their respective provider’s websites and find ways to initiate that process. But between slow response time and a lack of transparency, customers don’t really have much to trust.

As we move forward to repair the competitive marketplace that is the internet, price and quality only matter if we can trust our service providers. Sonic understands this. That’s why we are dedicated to honest and reliable service. The internet is for people, not ISPs.

Dirty Cello Debuts Red-Hot Rock Record

Combining virtuosic musicianship and a fiery taste for rock and roll, Marin-based ensemble Dirty Cello is renowned around the world for their energetic live shows and their remarkable ability to reinvent classical and modern music into a one-of-a-kind experience.

Led by classically-trained cellist Rebecca Roudman, the band was one of the busiest live acts in the region until the pandemic closed shop on live shows in the North Bay. Yet, the group played on by finding unexpected venues. Now, Dirty Cello returns to one of their favorite traditional venues, the HopMonk in Sebastopol, for a two-night record release party in celebration of their new album, Dirty Cello Smokes the ’60s.

“When the pandemic hit, we were one of the fortunate bands that performed pretty much every weekend,” Roudman says. “But we had to get super creative with what we did.”

Unable to play for humans, Dirty Cello did the next best thing and performed for animals at the Oakland Zoo. There, they faced some of their toughest crowds.

“We played for the elephants, who did not like us and turned their backs on us,” Roudman says.

One little parrot named Broc did enjoy the show, so much that it began singing along with the group. That led to a viral video, from NBC, of the band at the zoo. The band also played at buffalo ranches, apple orchards and other distanced outdoors venues including a nudist resort in Los Gatos, where the audience wore masks and broke out hula hoops.

Last year, the band went back into its Novato recording studio to lay down new album Dirty Cello Smokes the ’60s. The album features 10 tracks of classic rock songs—by the likes of Jimi Hendrix, the Rolling Stones and Janis Joplin—performed with Dirty Cello’s bluesy, up-tempo style.

The group created the album using a mix of vintage gear from the 1960s, including a reel-to-reel tape recorder, mixed with modern gear such as a recreation of a famous ’60s–era ribbon mic.

“All of our albums are driven by what people ask for, and people have been asking for a 1960s album that’s a lot of fun,” Roudman says. “And we delivered.”

Songs like “Classical Gas” and “Purple Haze” get the Dirty Cello treatment on the record, with Roudman’s strings substituting for guitars, and fans will get their first chance to grab the album when the group performs at HopMonk this week.

“It’s one of our favorite places to play,” Roudman says. “It’s a seated show, but there will be room to dance.”

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Dirty Cello plays Friday and Saturday, March 11–12, at HopMonk Tavern, 230 Petaluma Ave., Sebastopol. 8pm. $15–$25. Dirtycello.com.

Living with Dignity — Letters to the Editor

Living With Integrity

On any given day it’s hard to know how to move in this world with integrity. Something huge has to happen to pierce the veil of overwhelm I often feel, knowing that bad things are going on all the time. 

The invasion of Ukraine is one of those things. I spent time today holding a sign that said PUTIN with an X through his name, at a vigil. Many drivers honked their horns in support, some people flashed the V sign. A few, as always, seemed hostile. Hard to know why this time. 

Seeing photos of explosions, burning and destroyed buildings, corpses lying in torn-up fields, people sheltering in subway stations like Londoners during the Blitz, knowing that regular citizens are asking for guns so they can fight, streams of yet more refugees carrying children and running for their lives, breaks my heart. And maybe that’s how it has to be: for the heart to open, it has to break. To live with integrity means seeing what is real and not turning away. On this day, that is a given.

Moss Henry

Santa Rosa

Trump’s Take

Trump’s take on the Putin-Ukraine issue is that Putin is very smart. That means Putin has the Trump Golden Stream videos in his Nuclear arsenal. A gift that keeps on giving.

Neil Davis

Sebastopol

We Love Nikki

I look forward to articles by Nikki Silverstein. Her writing makes for interesting and informative reading … but I do miss the “boyfriend kvetching” stories.

Mallory Gabriel

Fairfax

For Christine, Who Made Sure We Felt Welcome

By Anonymous

How many more good and kind things would you have done in this life?

A blank canvas framed in sturdy wood now broken and sealed away.

What future inspirations rising from today’s possibilities,

if the uncertain outline of your kindness hadn’t been colored in by spite?

Rays of attention and care that you beamed on those 

who never grew under such light, 

illuminating hopes lying detached in some dark corner of self.

What did it mean to be the recipient of such warmth?

To restrain greed and embrace this light with grace instead. 

Where to hold this joy and know it in the body?

This glow showing him a new way home seemed less certain, 

as if the weather was changing and clouds moving in.

Not wanting to allow another loss, he took her thinning light 

and amplified it, as a laser, exposing, then agitating his nerves until 

there was nothing left but well known suffering.

When the news of your abduction broke into the world,

we reassured ourselves with what we knew about you. 

Your calm power, a core skill in any hostage negotiation. 

We felt so certain this would end okay. 

But you were already murdered, just minutes in.

Weeks of nightly news full of gaping holes 

for us looking out at a media that stepped in 

to explain what it didn’t know to those who knew less. 

There were respectfully appropriated smudge ceremonies, 

heartfelt conversations, and those team debriefings 

like a shove through the door of a public grief I could not join.

Months passed and the memory of the event was still making me ill.

Uncertainty set in of my healing process.

The psychologist I went to said my story triggered him too much,

left me a voicemail to find someone else.

Accepting ‘Don’t Know’ in my mind, there is still grief here.

I have typed all that I know and now this brush falls from my hand.

No canvas or banner or mile-long mural can show 

all the good and kind and neverknown things you would have done.

Visit Christinemloeberfoundation for more information.

Culture Crush — Head West, Irish Comedy Festival and More

Healdsburg & Mill Valley

Lucky Laughs

Just in time for St. Patrick’s Day, The Real Irish Comedy Festival showcases the best of today’s Irish comedic talents and accents. This year’s tour features Dublin comedian Dave Nihill, the first Irish winner of the San Francisco International Comedy Competition; Longford comic Sean Finnerty, the first Irish comedian to perform on the Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon; and “Irish national treasure” Martin Angolo. The comedy comes to the North Bay on Thursday, March 10, at the Raven Theater (115 North St., Healdsburg. 7:30pm. $25–$40. raventheater.org) and Tuesday, March 15, at Throckmorton Theatre (142 Throckmorton Ave., Mill Valley. 8pm. $25–$30. throckmortontheatre.org).

Napa

New View

Award-winning artist and sculptor Marc Foster is interested in changing the viewer’s way of regarding, understanding or interpreting art through use of shapes, color and illusions. This week, art lovers can experience Foster’s latest contemporary sculptures as Acumen Wine Gallery unveils his exhibit, “Perception.” The immersive show works in contrast to many typical exhibits, down to painting the gallery walls black instead of white to enhance Foster’s use of reflection and dimensionality. “Perception” opens with two receptions on Friday and Saturday, March 11–12, at 1315 First St., Napa. Fri, 5pm; Sat, 11am. Free, RSVP required. Black attire requested. acumenwine.com.

Sebastopol

Head Back

In 2018, Bay Area-retailer Jimmy Brower went from creating a brand to creating community when he founded Head West Marketplace. The traveling pop-up show regularly features diverse local purveyors selling their wares like an arts-and-crafts farmers market. After two years of uncertainty and canceled markets, Head West is making a comeback in March, including a two-day extravaganza in the North Bay. Find handmade, locally sourced, small-batch, eco-friendly and socially conscious offerings and products on Saturday and Sunday, March 12–13, at the Barlow, 6770 McKinley St., Sebastopol. 11am to 5pm each day. Free. headwestmarketplace.com.

Santa Rosa

Art Nation

The City of Santa Rosa Public Art Program, in conjunction with the National Arts Program, is currently hosting the 19th annual National Arts Program exhibition and competition, which displays work from Santa Rosa artists and offers $3,450 in awards. This year’s exhibition features 185 works by artists of all ages and levels of experience, available to view Monday to Friday through April 29. This weekend, the exhibition presents its awards ceremony and reception on Sunday, March 13, at the Finley Community Center, 2060 West College Ave., Santa Rosa. 3pm. Free. Registration required. Find more information and register at srcity.org/NAP.

—Charlie Swanson

Girl Power — Nostalgia is Queen in Napa

Napa’s Lucky Penny Community Arts Center has been transformed into a high school gymnasium dolled up for the prom for their presentation of Roger Bean’s The Marvelous Wonderettes. The nostalgic jukebox musical runs through March 13.

It’s 1958, and Springfield High’s Songleader Squad has been asked to entertain at the Senior Prom. The four perky squad members (Vida Mae Fernandez, Jenny Veilleux, Andrea Dennison-Laufer, Kirsten Pieschke) have dubbed themselves “The Marvelous Wonderettes” and are prepared to sing a plethora of ’50s hits for their classmates’ entertainment.

They’ll also musically deal with young love (“Dream Lover,” “Stupid Cupid”), cheating boyfriends (“Lipstick on Your Collar”) and clandestine crushes (“Secret Love”), especially the ones that involve a member of the teaching staff (“Born Too Late,” “Teacher’s Pet”).

The Wonderettes return to the Springfield gymnasium in the second act to entertain at the class of ’58s 10-year reunion. They’re older, somewhat wiser, married and in one case, pregnant.

While it’s 1968, song-wise it’s the early ’60s as the girls musically relate the changes in their lives. Missy (Veilleux) has been dating the teacher of her dreams—it’s OK, they waited till she was out of college—and has expectations of an engagement (“With This Ring”). Betty Jean (Dennison-Laufer) is having relationship problems (“It’s My Party”), Cindy Lou (Fernandez) snagged the “Son of a Preacher Man” but ended up losing the “Leader of the Pack,” and all is not well with Suzy (Pieschke) and her high school sweetheart as she demands a little “Respect.”

Director/Choreographer Scottie Woodard, having recently performed in a similarly constructed show about a male singing group (Plaid Tidings), no doubt brought that experience and an appreciation for the material to this production. He also brought one performer (Veilleux) over from Bean’s holiday extension of the show (Winter Wonderettes) that ran in rep with Tidings to reprise her character.

The ladies are in good voice and complement each other well. Music Director Ellen Patterson leads a jaunty three-piece band through the classic-pop score. Barbara McFadden drapes the ladies in era-appropriate attire, from colorful prom gowns to vinyl go-go boots. Brian Watson’s set manages to squeeze all the elements of a cavernous high school gymnasium into the small Lucky Penny space.

Yes, the story is slight, but that’s not the point. It’s all about the songs, and the overwhelmingly baby-boomerish audience bopped along with each tune. A good time was had by all.

‘The Marvelous Wonderettes’ runs through March 13 at the Lucky Penny Community Arts Center. 1758 Industrial Way, Napa. Thurs, 7pm; Fri–Sat, 8pm; Sun, 2pm. $25–$42. 707.266.6305. Proof of vaccination and masking are required to attend. luckypennynapa.com

Big Look — One-of-a-Kind Fashion

Good morrow and happy Wednesday, my Looksters! How was everyone’s week? I hope the lifted mask mandate meant that some of us put lipstick on and topped our look off with a smile—we’re never fully dressed, as a certain red-headed orphan would say.

This week I’m excited to highlight an amazing style duo, local to Sonoma County and found in markets throughout the Bay Area all year round: BigMouthUnique.

BigMouthUnique specializes in one-of-a-kind handmade items, from clothing—anything from a renaissance-style page jacket to ’60s sailor pants to pink rompers with blue pockets—to wall art, pillows, ceramics, sculpture and jewelry. Everything is colorful, eye-catching and one of a kind. These are statement pieces and we will all want one—or two or three—in our closets.

The brainchild of dynamic duo Mathilde and Joshua, who have always loved making things and have sewed their whole lives, BigMouthUnique became manifest five years ago. Mathilde and Joshua love to use discarded items, like trash and donations, when creating—as opposed to buying new material—and they ride their bikes for transportation as much as possible. They’re a creative and conscious duo, making fashionable, ethical work. They also paint cars, so to anyone who sees a Merry Pranksters-esque prius cruising around town, it might be the work of BigMouthUnique.

Joshua and Mathilde, the humans behind BigMouthUnique (photo courtesy of BigMouthUnique.)

This weekend BigMouthUnique will be at the HEAD WEST Marketplace in the Barlow. Say hi, learn more about their inimitable fashion and buy a BigMouthUnique piece.

Follow Mathilde and Joshua on Instagram @bigmouthunique for an updated events calendar and fresh creations. Shop their Etsy BigMouthUnique anytime, anywhere. Email them at bi************@***il.com for custom work.

This is the kind of local fashion I live for. Power to BigMouthUnique!

Looking good, everyone. See you next week.

Love,

Jane


Jane Vick is an artist and journalist who has spent time in Europe, New York and New Mexico. She is currently based in Oakland. View her work at janevick.com.

Holy Cripes — Coffee Confessions

Confession: I drink cold coffee. Not the expensive hipster cold-pressed stuff, either—that isn’t confession-worthy. No, I make my own pourover in the morning and forget about it after a few sips and get back to it hours later, after the cream in it has languished for half the day. It tastes just as good to me that way. No, it tastes better, because I thought I’d drinken it all, but suddenly there’s more. Is there something wrong with me for liking this? Wait, don’t answer. Every time one of my witch friends tells me some great truth about myself, I recoil in horror and wind up rebuilding my self-esteem with a new set of lies.

Also, I prefer my coffee with a generous amount of cream or half-and-half, and it must remain cloudy, never stirred. Why does that make a difference, not stirring it, and why does it taste better that way? Don’t look to me for the answer, I’m just confessing.

Here is one of my favorite bits of forbidden trivia: In old-school prison lingo, a coffee with cream and sugar was known as a Cadillac. If I ever own any type of eating establishment, Cadillacs will be on the menu. But also, I will need to invent a name for a coffee with cream only—an Oldsmobile?—and names for stirred and unstirred options—stick and standard?

Apparently I am a budding social anarchist, or so I’m told, even though I mostly vote Democrat. To wit: I spend a lot of time daydreaming about my project cafe, of which there are two versions. The “town” version is a free cafe for kids 18 and under—a phone-free neutral zone. Its offerings are very simple, possibly relegated to a Mr. Coffee and donated books. Maybe it hosts a Penny University and game nights, to get young minds engaged. For some reason I imagine opening it in downtown Willits. There is logic there that I don’t have space for right now. Now the whole world knows.

The secret-hippie-village version of my dream cafe is a shed in a meadow with folding bunks against one wall, self-serve coffee, a couch, wifi and a covered porch with a projection screen for film nights. Or maybe it’s in a treehouse in a Redwood forest. It’s there for people in the know. It’s not free, per se, but rather operates on a “suggested donation” basis, because the thought of selling things out of a cafe that doesn’t officially exist gives me giddy goosebumps.

Do I have more to say? Hmmm, not sure. I’m out of space, yet I feel cleansed.

These are my secrets. Shhhhh … please don’t tell.

Mark Fernquest lives in West County. He imagines he is vastly wealthy but in a kind, highly creative, sub-billionaire, non-1% kind of way.

Homeward Bound — Working to Empower Marin Citizens and End Homelessness

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For all its beauty and opportunity, living in Marin County is a challenge. In fact, it’s that same beauty and opportunity that make it so challenging to be a resident here—the feelings of privilege and pleasure are mixed with the awareness of economic, racial and resource disparity and a general lack of equity that Marin County is still working to correct. The wealth disparity alone is enough to incite righteous anger and grief. Displays of extreme excess and extreme poverty are too common, and the scales need balancing.

One major issue Marin County faces is homelessness. One of the wealthiest counties in California, a 2019 census showed an estimate of 1,034 homeless people (“Marin’s Homeless Face Severe Lack of Shelter Beds, Supportive Housing,” Pacific Sun, July 21, 2021). The great news is that, for all the indulgent, willfully ignorant citizens who choose to eat caviar and ignore the struggles of their fellow humans, there are those who care deeply and who balance their appreciation for the beauty of Marin County with selfless effort to support those who need it. 

One such group of individuals is found at Homeward Bound of Marin.

Homeward Bound’s motto is, “Opening doors to safety, dignity, hope and independence.” Their goal is to support those experiencing homelessness as they move from crisis to stability to thriving, to help them develop a sense of self-respect and agency that lasts beyond the initial experience of shelter.

Homeward Bound’s first iteration manifested in 1974, when an emergency shelter was opened, with interfaith backing, to house four Marin families. At that time it was known as Marin Housing Center, but in 1996 it reimagined itself as Homeward Bound Marin, adopting its aforementioned motto and the mission of empowering individuals as well as providing them with shelter.

“What we do is approach each individual separately, and try to work with them to figure out what is the appropriate response to their situation of being unhoused,” said Paul Fordham, Homeward Bound’s deputy director and co-leader. “What I mean by that is that everyone is different, and at different stages of their life. Hopefully their experience of homelessness has been brief and is solvable, but sometimes it’s been much longer, and is still solvable, so we meet people where they are, see what resources they are—or need to be—connected to and what sort of support they need.”

Homeward Bound offers different methods of care for people in different situations. Programs that help people clean up their credit scores, save money and secure employment are built to help those individuals for whom it’s possible to return to the operating economy as renters and employees. For others, who struggle with mental health issues, mental health support and a long-term housing subsidy are sought.

“It might be helping them get a diagnosis for their condition and wraparound support regarding counseling and medication, getting them on certain waitlists and getting the appropriate assessments done,” Fordham said. “It’s a different set of needs, that we address specifically.”

Homeward Bound works to understand the history of each resident, from their previous experiences with homelessness to their personal story. For example, Homeward Bound has 12 beds in the shelter designated for veterans.

“We can get someone right into those veteran beds, and we have someone on staff who can connect people with the Veterans Administration and healthcare system—we give the VA an office in our building,” Fordham said. “So, if we find out someone is a veteran, we fastrack them to the veteran’s program and try to get them that support as soon as possible. Similarly, if someone is a senior or disabled, we try to get them on the pertinent lists right away, because some of those lists take a long time. One of the first things we do is connect them with the appropriate resources.”

Homeward Bound is designed to provide each resident with a 28-day stay, with the option of renewal. The goal of the “housing-focused” shelters is to work together to move residents toward long-term housing while they are staying in the shelter. Each shelter resident meets with Homeward Bound staff once a week to review and strategize the necessary steps to move towards permanent housing.

“As long as they are working with us and cohabitating well at the shelter, at the end of 28 days they’re given the option to extend for another 28 days and another 28 days, for as long as they need it,” Fordham said. “Conflict, ignoring goals, etc. might result in a resident being asked to leave, but they are welcome to come back and try again, now that they understand the requirements.”

A particularly phenomenal feature of Homeward Bound is its culinary program, Fresh Starts Culinary Academy, an American Culinary Federation-certified flagship job-training program built to serve low-income students from the community as well as Homeward Bound residents.

“We’ve been offering culinary training since 2001,” Fordham said. “When we opened our 80-bed shelter, New Beginnings, in Novato in 2000, we were looking to start a cafeteria to provide three meals a day. As we were looking to run the cafeteria we saw people on the other side of the line trying to get a job, so we started the training program. It’s evolved and is now industry-certified and recognized. It’s a 10-week program, five days a week from 9 to 3, much like a job, and it’s offered totally free of charge to those experiencing homlessness and low-income residents in the community. At the end of 10 weeks we help our graduates find their next job outside of Homeward Bound, or they’re placed in jobs in our shelters.”

Homeward Bound also produces a line of dog treats called Wagster Treats—sold in places like Whole Foods—and Halo Truffles, as well as Halo Homemades—a line of jams and salsas. A third of their staff of 100 are formerly homeless citizens. Their CEO, Mary Kay, has been at the helm for 29 years, and was inducted into the Marin Women’s Hall of Fame in 2016.

There are big-time, pulsing, lights in the darkness. Homeward Bound is one of those lights—a lighthouse for Marin.
If you are experiencing homelessness or struggling financially, help is available. Homeward Bound of Marin has shelters in Novato, San Rafael and Sausalito. Call 1.866.660.4288 TTY English / 1.866.288.1677 TTY Spanish or email in**@***fm.org. http://hbofm.org.

Marin County LGBTQ Center Names New Executive Director

Almost 100 years after a military veteran founded the Society for Human Rights, the first gay rights organization in America, the LGBTQ community still fights for equality and acceptance.

In 2021, a record number of anti-LGBTQ laws were passed in states across the country. Of the 268 bills introduced, 27 passed and 13 were directed at transgender youth, according to the Human Rights Campaign Foundation. Unfortunately, 2022 is ushering in a new round of legislation to limit the rights of LGBTQ people.

California has some of the strongest policies and laws in the country to advance equality for its LGBTQ citizens, reports the Movement Advancement Project, an independent, nonprofit think tank. Still, more work lies ahead.

The Spahr Center, a nonprofit organization serving Marin’s LGBTQ and HIV-affected communities, is poised to achieve some lofty goals during the next four years. The organization’s 2021–2025 strategic plan calls for ensuring a comprehensive safety net of services, increasing community connection and getting to zero on HIV by preventing new cases of infection.

Adrian Shanker will steer The Spahr Center’s efforts to accomplish its objectives when he begins his role as the new executive director on April 1. An experienced LGBTQ community leader, Shanker founded the Bradbury-Sullivan LGBT Community Center in Allentown, Pa., and served as the executive director for the last seven-and-a-half years. He also currently serves on the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS in the Biden-Harris Administration.

The opportunity to move to the West Coast appealed to Shanker for many reasons, including the desire to be in a state with stronger LGBTQ protections.

“California has a better social and political climate to do this work,” Shanker said. “There are restrictive laws in Pennsylvania that make it challenging sometimes for an LGBTQ agency to focus only on our programs and services when we also need to address the political realities. There’s not a state law in Pennsylvania protecting LGBTQ people from discrimination, for example. Conversion therapy is legal in Pennsylvania.”

Adrian Shanker/The Spahr Center
Adrian Shanker, The Spahr Center’s new executive director.

Although the LGBTQ social and political climate is friendlier in California, Shanker realizes challenges still exist. The Spahr Center interviewed 150 people last year during its five-year planning process and found that lack of acceptance is a major issue.

“LGBTQ+ youth in Marin continue to face rejection, discrimination, and even suicide because of who they are and who they love. Our LGBTQ+ seniors experience higher rates of isolation and depression. People living with HIV feel shunned, and many still face significant health challenges,” The Spahr Center’s 2021–2025 strategic plan states.

During the past three years, The Spahr Center, which serves 600 people, made great strides under the leadership of Executive Director Dana Van Gorder, who retired last month. The budget more than doubled, increasing from $995,000 to $2.4 million and paving the way for significant growth in the programs and services offered by The Spahr Center—a minor miracle during the pandemic.

The agency expanded its mental health services for youth, which now include providing a safe and inclusive space to get support from peers and professionals. Extensive work was conducted in Marin schools, helping teachers and administrators become better allies for LGBTQ students.

More discussion groups and social activities for seniors were added. A “Friendly Visitor” program was started to ensure seniors living in retirement facilities are connected to the LGBTQ community.

The Spahr Center, which is the County’s provider for sterile syringe access for people who inject drugs, also greatly increased its harm reduction services. The center offers HIV and hepatitis C testing in locations where syringes are distributed, such as homeless encampments throughout Marin.

“We’ve become a major distributor of naloxone, the drug that will reverse opioid overdoses,” Van Gorder said. “And we train people how to use it. This program has clearly saved a lot of people from overdosing.”

The center’s HIV program focuses on keeping people with HIV healthy and enjoying a good quality of life. It now serves 220 low-income Marin residents with HIV. During Van Gorder’s tenure, the center began a program to provide HIV medications directly to some clients, which is also a revenue source. It has helped provide more housing for people with HIV and more financial assistance with rent, utility bills and other key expenses.

A pre-exposure prophylaxis, PrEP, is a daily pill that HIV negative people can take to prevent infection. The Spahr Center established a PrEP navigation program to help people through the system to get started on the medication. In Marin, approximately 12 to 16 people become infected with HIV every year. Young gay men of color account for about half of the new cases, which prompted the agency to create a PrEP outreach program for the Black and Latinx communities.

“New HIV infections are still a concern and needlessly high,” Van Gorder said. “We hired a bilingual PrEP navigator six months ago to take responsibility for reducing that number.”

The Spahr Center also increased visibility in public policy circles by regularly meeting with members of the Marin County Board of Supervisors, school boards and other officials. The goal is to inform them of the needs of the LBGTQ community and engage them in the effort.

When Van Gorder was hired by The Spahr Center three years ago, he told the organization that he would be departing when he hit retirement age. Although Covid waylaid some of his plans, Van Gorder successfully built a more cohesive and visible LGBTQ community in Marin.

“We are deeply grateful for his leadership at The Spahr Center over the past three years as well as his decades of service to the LGBTQ+ community,” the organization said in a statement. “Dana brought a wealth of experience in HIV and LGBTQ+ advocacy and services that allowed us to grow our organization to new heights. His resolute leadership through the uncertainty of the COVID-19 pandemic ensured that our Center remained stable, that our clients remained supported, that we launched our Strategic Plan, grew our budget, and established new programs. We congratulate Dana on his lifelong career of serving our community, and wish him all the best in his retirement.” 

Now, it’s Shanker’s time to shepherd The Spahr’s Center’s agenda forward. There are more than 250 LGBTQ centers across America and Canada, and each one serves a unique community, according to Shanker. He plans on identifying the gaps in the center’s offerings and finding new ways of supporting Marin’s LGBTQ community.     

“I’m filling very big shoes,” Shanker said. “Dana has been a long-time leader in the LGBTQ community and an incredible leader at the Spahr Center. I’m aware of the long history at Spahr and will work with the entire team to grow the organization to benefit the LBGTQ and HIV communities across Marin.”

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