This Week in the Pacific Sun

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This week’s issue of the Pacific Sun is dedicated to our annual Summer Guide, which lists the biggest and best summer happenings in Marin and beyond. We’ve compiled events by month, so you can start marking up your calendar and planning a summer of fun with family and friends. In addition to the summer guide, you’ll find a story by Peter Seidman on opposing views of Marin’s future development, a piece by Mal Karman on Marin native Nicole Boxer’s documentary, How I Got Over, a review by Charles Brousse of the Ross Valley Players’ production of The Clean House and a story by David Templeton, who interviews actor-director David Yen about reimagining classic movies and plays. All that and more online and on stands today.

Horoscope: What’s Your Sign?

by Leona Moon

Aries (March 21 – April 19) Trying to hit the road, Aries? If you’re OK with flat tires and side-swipes, then go for it. Saturn is opposing the Sun on May 22, and will bring with it a handful of traveling hellfire. It’s best to stay off the road—ask your boss if you can work from home.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20) Finally going to get your wisdom teeth removed, Taurus? This weekend might not be the best time to channel a chipmunk. Looks like any health procedures that you’ve been putting off—the non-life-threatening ones, of course—won’t be going your way. If you go in for wisdom teeth removal, the dentist might end up sharpening your canines. And the vampire fetish is so 2008.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20) Take a hike, Gemini! No, literally, try hitchhiking. A short trip has your name all over it this weekend, and on May 23 you might find your perfect travel buddy on the side of 101 South. Download a background check app before you hop in the back of anyone’s 1979 Chevy—yes, there’s an app for that.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22) Skipping town, Cancer? You’re overdue for a little luxury. Head up to Calistoga for a mud bath on May 24—there’s nothing like a spa day to remind you of how hard you’ve been working. Soak it up and sink down into that pile of mud for a little R & R and necessary reflecting.

Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22) Head on down to couple’s therapy, Leo. You like to keep the avocados and bread in the fridge and your partner always leaves them on the counter—a recipe for disaster (literally). You two have got to get on the same page. Saturn will oppose the Sun, your ruling star, on May 22, so watch out for nagging. You’re likely to be sent over the edge.

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22) Rethinking your professional career, Virgo? Sure, being a professional dog walker sounds great on paper, but think of all of the piles of work that you’ll be picking up. You’re craving a little more leisure with your work on May 22, but weigh all of the pros and cons before making a decision.

Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22) Put the pen down, Libra! Signing papers will be the end of you on May 23. There’s no need to rush to cut a deal on a car loan, refinancing or new health insurance. Take your time to investigate a few other avenues before committing to the easiest one that landed in your mailbox.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21) Don’t add that extra shot to your latte or upgrade your gasoline on May 22, Scorpio. Finances are tight, and you’re going to need to cut all the corners you can. Sure, that taco truck from across the street may be calling your name at lunchtime, but wise up and bring that can of tuna and microwaveable oatmeal to work for lunch.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21) Don’t Tinder on May 22, Sagittarius! You’ll accidently swipe away Prince or Princess Charming! Any move you make when it comes to a potential lover will be the wrong one. It’s best to avoid your flame altogether. Just say that your phone died, or that you forgot to pay your phone bill.

Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19) Is that ankle acting up again, Capricorn? Take care of yourself! On May 23 it looks like an old injury will flare up. If you have plans to hike the Dipsea or stroll down the Sausalito shoreline, think again. Ditch the outdoors—park yourself on the couch and grab a bag of frozen peas.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18) Not the time to add any extra pressure, Aquarius. If you’re wanting a definite yay or nay out of your beloved, May 24 isn’t the day to demand it. No one likes to hear, “Put a ring on it” first thing after the alarm goes off. So maybe wait a day or two and figure out how to tactfully propose that it’s time to pop the question.

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20) Your kid might be sick, but your quarter review is also scheduled on May 22, Pisces! The stars will make you pick and choose between work and family. It’s not always as easy of a choice as it sounds—especially when your kid ate the rest of the Goldfish and left the cap to the salt unscrewed.

Advice Goddess

by Amy Alkon

Q: My girlfriend of a year is 51 and lovely in most areas—except one: She often passes gas and recently started belching audibly. She is a psychotherapist, dresses nicely and has a great figure. However, she grew up in a male-dominated, military home. She thinks I’m “weird” and “overly sensitive” to be disturbed by these behaviors, but I, like most men, like the whole “feminine” thing. I now feel less attracted to her, and our sex life has diminished somewhat. I wonder whether I’m being tested in some way.—Bummed

A: “Audible” is an audiobook producer; it shouldn’t describe your girlfriend’s butt.

OK, so she grew up in a military family—the lone sister trying to fit in with the “band of brothers.” (Semper fffffffffft!) But that was then, and this is now. These days, if she spots some lady with 11 items in the “10 items or less” lane, I’m guessing that she doesn’t whip out the sat phone to order a drone strike on the woman’s minivan. Likewise, you aren’t unreasonable in asking her to respect the difference between free expression and too-free expression. (Your role in the relationship shouldn’t be “Courage Under Fire.”)

Some couples do view being gross in front of each other as an endurance test for love—a sort of “Survivor: El Baño”—as if they’ve got something so special that it transcends their seeing their beloved straining on the throne. And, sure, if you love someone and they get sick, you don’t stop loving them because you’re holding their hair back while they’re puking their guts out. But the reality is, it’s hard enough to keep the sexy alive over time even when you really make an effort. As for your girlfriend’s insistence on crop-dusting her way across the bedroom: Way to clear a room, lady—of all sexual attraction.

Explain to your girlfriend that of course there’ll be the occasional accidental toot in yoga class. (To air is human!) But love involves treating someone as if they matter. Even when you think their concerns are “weird.” (Crazy that you don’t find it the height of femininity when your girlfriend interrupts sexy time with, “Come on, pull my finger!”)

Tell her that you’re hurt that your feelings don’t seem to mean enough for her to curtail her behavior in the most minor way—the way that she surely does at cocktail parties and around her patients. (Please tell me that as some tearful guy tells her about his traumatic childhood, she isn’t lifting a leg and letting one rip: “Wow, those nightshade vegetables really don’t agree with me!”)

If she keeps on keeping on, give some thought to whether she’s loving enough for you to continue seeing her. When you have a girlfriend who blows you away, it should probably be with her kindness, intelligence and beauty—and not the chimichangas she had for lunch.

Q: I’d really like the guy I’m dating to compliment me more. I know he’s super-attracted to me, but he’s not very complimentary, and it makes me feel that he doesn’t think I’m pretty. How do I get him to compliment me without the awkward, “Don’t you think I look hot?”—Insecure

A: Unfortunately, men tend to do poorly at hint-taking. So, no, you can’t just stand next to the kitchen table in your cute new skirt after laying out Doritos in the shape of a question mark. But because male sexuality is visual, it’s comforting to know that your boyfriend’s looking across a party at you and thinking, “I want you” and not, “I want you to move over so I can see that hot woman behind you.” And it turns out that complimenting you is actually good for him, too. Research on gratitude by psychologist Sara Algoe suggests that the stock-taking that goes into a person’s expressing appreciation for their partner works as a sort of emotional Post-it note, reminding them of how good they have it. And the appreciation itself tends to leave both partners feeling more bonded and satisfied with the relationship.

Instead of fishing for a compliment in the moment—yicky and humiliating—take advantage of how men like to know that they’re making their woman happy and tell him (and remind him, if necessary) that you love hearing it when he thinks you look good. But you might also recognize that he’s been complimenting you, just not in a chatty way. (As you noted, “I know he’s super-attracted to me.”) And sure, there are men out there who’d be far more naturally verbal about their feelings—men who haven’t exactly walked a mile in your stilettos but have a pair that looks a lot like them in size 14 extra-extra-wide.

Upfront: Sharing the path

by Peter Seidman

Along with the launch of a program called Share the Path, aimed at raising awareness on the Mill Valley multi-use path, came news that a bicyclist hit an 80-year-old woman who was walking on the route.

The accident shines a light, not entirely flattering, on how Marin residents and visitors are sharing the popular route, officially called the Mill Valley-Sausalito Multiuse Bike Path (MVBP), which runs from Vasco Court in Mill Valley along a 3.1-mile route to Gate 6 Road in Sausalito. In an accident last year, a cyclist collided with pedestrians on the path, seriously injuring a 9-year-old boy.

The county oversees use of the path, which runs through the jurisdictions of Mill Valley, Sausalito and the county. After the accident last year, the county started work on a roundabout to slow cycle traffic. The $400,000 project, recently completed, may be slowing most cyclists, but problems still exist on the route. In addition to the roundabout, county supervisors approved reducing the speed limit on a section of the path.

From north of Sycamore Avenue to a spot where an ancillary path leading to The Redwoods enters the main path, supervisors instituted a 10-mph speed limit. That limit was in effect when the latest accident occurred on a section of the route south of Almonte and Miller Avenue. That’s on a section of the path in unincorporated Marin.

The popularity of the path is, in part, responsible for the accidents. The more people using the path, the more the chance exists for collisions and accidents. But something else is at work in the incidents. And that something is the manner in which people use a public right of way, on bikes and on foot. The collisions highlight a need for Marin residents to become more aware of those around them on multi-use paths.

It’s too easy to blame cyclists for collisions. Certainly reckless riding is not unheard of in Marin. Encounters between hikers and cyclists in county open spaces have been a hot topic for decades. The popularity of the MVBP and the accidents that have occurred show that the same tensions exhibited on county open space trails have transferred to this pathway, too.

It’s too easy to blame cyclists, but physics tells us that when a cyclist collides with an auto, the cyclist will lose. Likewise, when a cyclist collides with a pedestrian, the pedestrian will lose. But sometimes the fault that resulted in the collision lies with the auto or the pedestrian. In the case of the path, people who regularly use the route say that pedestrians often fail to keep to the side of the path, where they are supposed to walk, allowing cyclists a clear run down the middle. Users also say that pedestrians sometimes walk on the path at night without any kind of light to alert cyclists.

On the other hand, cyclists have been riding the path too fast, say others who want to keep the path safe for all users. Just as on the trails in the open spaces, cyclists should slow down when pedestrians are present, say those calling for a bit of common sense. They also say that a cyclist calling out, “On the left” is confusing to some pedestrians who become nervous and react too slowly for a fast-moving cyclist. Using a bell to alert pedestrians is more effective, they add.

The cyclist who collided with the women recently was riding at about 15 mph to 17 mph, according to reports. That may be too fast for the path when pedestrians are present. Even 10 mph can be dangerous. It takes responsibility to ride safely among pedestrians. Likewise, pedestrians should understand the physics of the bicycle.

The issues surrounding safety on the path become magnified when considering that the north-south path running along the SMART train route has the potential to become a popular route for cyclists and pedestrians. It also holds the potential for increased encounters and incidents.

The sheer popularity of the MVBP means encounters will happen—unless users pay more attention to etiquette and simple safety measures. That’s the message that the Share the Path effort is working to spread:

Everyone can use this path—and other paths in the county—keeping safety in mind.

Part of the problem on the MVBP, and on other paths in the county, is a disparity of users. Pedestrians encompass slow amblers, social walkers and runners. They each move at different speeds and require different safety concerns, for them and for cyclists. Also on the paths are the slower recreational riders out for a jaunt, sometimes with the family; bike-riding commuters are focused on getting home or to work. They can become distracted, just as drivers on the freeway can become distracted. Then there are the racers. A minority, to be sure, but reaching a top speed on a multi-use path when pedestrians and other riders are present probably isn’t the wisest safety maneuver.

The Share the Path campaign began on May 6, during a month of bicycle awareness. Bike to School Day was on May 6; Bike to Work Day was on May 14. The campaign is a partnership between the county, the Marin County Bicycle Coalition and the city of Mill Valley. After the boy was hurt last year, the city called for safety measures on the path.

“The campaign is funded through Measure A,” says Alisha Oloughlin, planning director at the Marin County Bicycle Coalition. County Parks and Marin County Open Space District have also contributed to the funding while the three entities “are all equal partners on the development and implementation” of the campaign.

The coalition is staffing information tables on the path, “as well as getting the information out to the cycling community.” The coalition will set up the information tables on peak weekends through the summer to disseminate the safety message. “We’re also working with the county and the city to get some physical infrastructure improvements in place, including better signage, more clear and designated pedestrian crossings.”

The message on the sharethepathmarin.org website is clear: “If all path users follow a few simple ground rules, pay attention and communicate with each other, we can all use the path to have fun and get where we’re going safely.”

The website lists three key points that seem self-explanatory and should be part of the vocabulary of every pedestrian and cyclist: Don’t block the path; use safe speeds; look and listen. Those admonitions may seem self-explanatory, but history says that they’re not so easy to implement. The three points have been raised innumerable times in discussions, debates and arguments about trail use in the open space. (It may be an immutable fact of life that there always will be contingents of riders and walkers who refuse to play nice and follow the simple safety procedures.)

But as the popularity of multi-use paths in the county increases, along with the rise of bicycle use, those safety measures cannot be ignored, say safety advocates. Part of that recognition by the county will manifest in speed alert panels like the ones police use on roads. They will answer the question, “How can cyclists know how fast they are riding if they lack speedometers on their bikes?” And it may come down to stricter public safety enforcement, not impossible on a route like the MVBP, including bike-riding police patrols.

Many critics of the minority of bike riders who exceed safe speeds say public safety officials should be issuing more tickets, in and out of county open space.

That’s certainly a possibility, but common courtesy also could meet the challenge of the trails and paths, without the heavy hand of law enforcement. The operative word there is “could.” The Marin County Bicycle Coalition, the county and the city are doing what they can to calm the situation and institute a safety-first protocol that everyone can follow with as little effort as possible.

The popularity of the MVBP is clear and points to a similar potential popularity on the SMART train north-south route, which could link with the MVBP if and when the Alto Tunnel is rehabilitated and reopened. Connecting Corte Madera and Mill Valley through the tunnel has been a dream of bike transportation advocates for decades. But whenever the subject arises, stiff opposition forms for a variety of reasons ranging from cost/benefits to negative effects on the neighborhoods on each side of the tunnel.

During one of the last rounds of the Alto Tunnel debate, the county commissioned a study to determine how many bikers and pedestrians would use a reopened tunnel. Part of that study, conducted by San Rafael’s Alta Planning + Design in 2010, looked at use of the MVBP. It was the first time that many people realized how well traveled the path is and that its use could be a predictor of the use the tunnel could receive.

The study determined that 3,209 average daily trips occurred on the path. Of the total, 2,567 of the trips were bikers and 624 were pedestrians. The study also extrapolated what would happen if bike use in the county continued to increase, as it has. “The projected volume on the Mill Valley-Sausalito Path” could reach 1,650,000 trips per year. The numbers, it should be remembered, represent one-way trips. Even if the estimates include a measure of inexactness, they accurately reflect the increasing popularity of bicycle use on trails and paths as well as increased pedestrian use.

Along with the increased popularity of traditional bicycles for utilitarian transportation, recreation and commuting, a new breed of bicycle is entering the market in increasing numbers—the electric bike is making a splash on the scene. A growing number of models are showing up in bike stores, and the number will increase as better batteries and more efficient motors become possible, say industry analysts.

Electric bikes come in two flavors: pedal-assisted and throttle. Bikes with a throttle are similar in most respects to a moped and can legitimately be called motorized vehicles. Less clear, however, is the description for pedal-assist electric bikes. They need a rider to pedal before an electric motor kicks in and gives them the assist that accounts for the name. To complicate matters, some pedal-assist electric bikes also have a throttle mode. But not all do, and if a rider is traveling on a peddle-assist electric bike, is that rider on a motorized vehicle? And must that rider abide by rules that prohibit motorized vehicles on a path or trail?

The rules are a work in progress at many agencies. One Marin official, when asked whether electric pedal-assist bikes were allowed in a jurisdiction, said, “Oh God, don’t ask me that!” The exclamation came from participating in what is a difficult decision for many officials. If a rider turns off pedal-assist on a bike, it becomes like any other bike—non-motorized.

Electric bikes, even peddle-assist, are not allowed on the MVBP, according to Brian Sanford, superintendent with Marin County Parks, which oversees the path for the county. But it’s a bit confusing. Sanford says electric bikes are not allowed on the path in Mill Valley but they are allowed on a portion of the path in Sausalito.

Sanford says that the county is watching San Francisco and other cites and entities deal with rules for electric bikes, and may alter the rules in Marin.

So far no one has been ticketed riding an electric bike on the path. Perhaps if electric bike riders heed the safety tips in the Share the Path program, no electric bike rider will receive a ticket for riding a motorized vehicle on the Mill Valley section.

The behavior exhibited on the county’s paths and trails is a mirror of the behavior motorists exhibit on county roads and freeways. And it’s not always pretty.

Contact the writer at pe***@******an.com.

Food & Drink: May: Time to play

by Tanya Henry

As the days get longer and summer beckons, there are cool happenings around the corner that shouldn’t be missed. Here’s a small taste …

TIBURON SPICES IT UP For the past three years, Evelyn Wood and Nick Davoren have been selling their unique and regionally titled spice blends at the Civic Center Farmers’ Market. On May 15 they plan to open Local Spicery, their new brick-and-mortar store on toney Main Street in Tiburon’s Ark Row. The Novato-based producer of all-natural artisanal, non-irradiated or chemically treated spice blends will offer a comprehensive selection of more than 200 locally-milled spices, herbs and spice blends, in addition to spice-related books, utensils and gifts. I’ve sampled a few of the blends and favorites include Stinson, the firm’s flagship dry rub; Limantour, a salty, aromatic pork rub; and Boot Jack, a smoky, sweet and hot barbecue rub. If you’re looking to spice up your meals, these guys have you covered. The store will be open Tuesday through Sunday from 11am to 6pm, and is located at 80 Main Street in Tiburon.

TRADING TIME For everyone who actually planted their gardens in a timely fashion this year—you will be ready for Sustainable San Anselmo’s first garden exchange of the season. The get-together kicks off on Saturday, June 6 and will be held on the San Anselmo Town Hall lawn (525 San Anselmo Ave.) from 9am to 10am. Bring your excess produce, plant starts, flowers and more.

EAT YOUR HEART OUT Dinner and stories and edible metaphors, oh my! Now this looks like fun. A unique and only-in-Bolinas event Eat My Heart Out, founded by writer and producer Eugene Ashton-Gonzalez in New York, returns for its second annual dinner and theater event to celebrate KWMR Community Radio. Eat My Heart Out is a storytelling dinner theater that includes an original menu of courses whose ingredients and plating are edible metaphors of the performers’ stories. The lineup includes Geoff Hoyle, Joyce Lee, Vivien Straus, Marshall Payne and Emily Epstein White, and the event is scheduled for Saturday, May 16 at The Peace Barn on Olema-Bolinas Road in Bolinas. Tickets are $195 and the doors open at 6:30pm; dinner and stories begin at 7pm. To learn more or to buy tickets, visit https://kwmr.givezooks.com/events/eat-my-heart-out-supper-club-2015.

CELEBRATE CHEESE After 150 years of making distinctive, soft-ripening cheeses, Marin French Cheese, or more affectionately known simply as, “the Cheese Factory,” is having a party. More accurately, they are having an Appreciation Picnic Party that will take place outdoors on their lawn from 11am to 4pm on June 14 at the original Hicks Valley Ranch location. Along with celebrating loyal customers, friends and family, Marin French is inviting folks to join their community conversation by collecting stories reflecting the generations of family traditions of working, playing, romancing and hanging out at the “Cheese Factory.” During the event, Marin historian and author Dewey Livingston will emcee the storytelling on stage, interspersed with performances by the Dixie Giants, a local band.

The day’s activities include cheesemaking demos by the Marin French team and a close-up look at beekeeping by Bonnie Morse of Bonnie Bee Company, with a sampling of honey from the Marin French hives. Sparkling mead, beer, cider, breads, baked goods, pickles and preserves, and cheeses from the California Artisan Cheese Guild will also be on hand. If you have a story, go ahead and send it to st*****@***************se.com. If you have questions, contact ly***@*********el.com. Happy 150th, Marin French!

Share your hunger pains with Tanya at th****@********un.com.

Letter: ‘Nails done … You poor things.’

Entitlement wars

I enjoyed your interview with Peter Coyote [“Looking Back and Moving On,” April 24]. I understand why he is leaving. I’ve been in Marin County for two months helping a friend. In that time I can easily see how young people think we from the ’60s have been an utter failure in living up to our ideals. I’m not pointing fingers—it’s simply a general observation. Your problems are your own and I can’t claim any expertise whatsoever. I’m just looking forward to going home to Mendocino.

Perhaps a solution to your imaginary problem, Effie [“Exercise might do you good,” Letters, May 1], would be to drop your daughter off, park the car and then you walk to have your nails done. Then you wouldn’t have to be mad and betray yourself for the self-righteous, petty and entitled person you presented yourself to be.

What about people who have a severely debilitating injury or chronic pain who can’t afford to see a doctor for a handicap placard, and have to park out of their way because of all the unfilled handicap spots that they can’t use without a huge fine? This is what I see more often than not.

Sometimes it’s not easy to get takeout and carry a bunch of boxes to your car, so these businesses arrange to have spots for their customers. They’re the ones paying the rent; wouldn’t they be as entitled as you for a convenience that can be an inconvenience to the rest of us? I’m not pro-business; I’m anti-people who think their idea of how things should be is the right idea.

If your daughter can’t walk a “few more feet,” how’s she going to walk into the store to get her nails done?

Nails done … You poor things. Hopefully we are moving backward Effie, if moving forward means accommodating people like you.

G. Aylen

Letter: ‘Why doesn’t anyone care about how this state is run?’

Where’s the outcry?

The Golden Gate Bridge was completed in 1937 after seven years of construction. The Empire State Building (102 stories) was completed in 1931 after a year and a half of construction. Now … A decade to build the 101/580 connectors in San Rafael. A decade to widen a mile of 101 in Santa Rosa.

The remodeling of the Bay Bridge has been 30 years in the making, way over budget and constructed with known faulty materials.

And yet again (again?) this has become a topic of discussion. Anyone get their hand slapped? Fired? Any outcry about any of this?

With people in the streets for all kinds of causes, I see no one demonstrated to save their own lives as well as the lives of those who will also eventually be lost.

This is absolutely crazy, people. Why doesn’t anyone care about how this state is run?

LR Waldman Ph.D., San Rafael

Letter: ‘There is so much I cherish about this formerly wonderful town…’

Sorry, not sorry

If you will kindly allow me to do so, I would like to explain my rant of last week [“Self-assuming assholes,” Letters, May 8] without using unnecessary curse words. I wrote the previous letter after a week of trying to negotiate Mill Valley traffic with its now maddening, aggressive behavior. Middle fingers and honky soccer moms abide. Twice I had to give up my chores halfway down Blithedale and head back home. I cannot imagine any REAL Mill Valley residents not being fed up with this shit—I mean crap. I mean untoward behavior.

(PLEASE TAKE NOTE: If you’ve been here less than 15 years, you are not a real resident and are therefore excluded from comment. You may be the enemy. Shut up).

I remember Peter Coyote’s relentless efforts to save the devastation he saw coming. I also recall policy-makers at that time feigning concern and reacting by promising to tackle the problem with $300,000 ‘study groups.’ Study this, you son of a …

Oops. Sorry.

I ended my previous rant with “Good Riddance, Mill Valley” and I am sorry I did. There is so much I cherish about this formerly wonderful town and there are still those amazingly special folks that made the magic happen to begin with and are still holding the threads together. I can’t name them all, so I will just refer to them, if I may, as the deLones. No other family exemplifies the spirit better.

NOTE TO PLANNING COMMISSION: I have just concluded a personally funded $22.67 study group and have determined that your self-important body is unnecessary, detrimental to society and no longer welcome. Good riddance to that!

John Cross, Marin County

Hero and Zero: WildCare heroes and self-entitled behavior

by Nikki Silverstein

Hero: The first orphaned baby songbirds arrived at WildCare in San Rafael recently and up to 1,000 needy fledglings are expected during spring and summer. WildCare is seeking heroes to help. Grab your knitting needles and start building nests for these tiny patients to inhabit until they are healthy enough to be released back into the wild. Fabric nests provide a warm, soft home resembling a wild bird’s nest. Rescuers feed the babies approximately every 45 minutes from dawn to dusk, creating poop galore, which means hundreds of washable knitted and crocheted nests are needed. The Birdroom director at WildCare likens fabric nests to towels in a nursery; you can’t have too many. Patterns that fit the bill are available at no charge at wildcarebayarea.org.

Zero: The coming of senior citizen age confers certain privileges, including Social Security benefits, discounted entry into Muir Woods and a seat on a crowded bus. We even excuse cranky golden-agers with no patience for the young and foolish; however, we draw the line at self-entitled behavior. Last Sunday, an able-bodied, obnoxious older woman approached a couple in a booth at the Bayside Café in Sausalito and ordered them to leave. “I’m in an uncomfortable chair,” she growled. Although the couple still had their beverages and the woman had been seated at a table with her party, they began to gather their belongings. Apparently, not quick enough for Zero Citizen, who sat down with them and threw the man’s baseball cap at him. Grow up, lady. You’re old enough to know better.

Got a Hero or a Zero? Please send submissions to ni***************@***oo.com.

Trivia: Give the title of the love theme—with a body part in the name—from the movie Titanic, and name the singer who recorded this world musical hit.

For more trivia questions (and answers!) see Howard Rachelson’s Trivia Café every week in the Pacific Sun.

 

Answer: “My Heart Will Go On,” recorded by Celine Dion.

This Week in the Pacific Sun

This week's issue of the Pacific Sun is dedicated to our annual Summer Guide, which lists the biggest and best summer happenings in Marin and beyond. We've compiled events by month, so you can start marking up your calendar and planning a summer of fun with family and friends. In addition to the summer guide, you'll find a story by Peter...

Horoscope: What’s Your Sign?

All signs look to the 'Sun'
by Leona Moon Aries (March 21 - April 19) Trying to hit the road, Aries? If you’re OK with flat tires and side-swipes, then go for it. Saturn is opposing the Sun on May 22, and will bring with it a handful of traveling hellfire. It’s best to stay off the road—ask your boss if you can work from home. Taurus...

Advice Goddess

advice goddess
by Amy Alkon Q: My girlfriend of a year is 51 and lovely in most areas—except one: She often passes gas and recently started belching audibly. She is a psychotherapist, dresses nicely and has a great figure. However, she grew up in a male-dominated, military home. She thinks I’m “weird” and “overly sensitive” to be disturbed by these behaviors, but...

Upfront: Sharing the path

by Peter Seidman Along with the launch of a program called Share the Path, aimed at raising awareness on the Mill Valley multi-use path, came news that a bicyclist hit an 80-year-old woman who was walking on the route. The accident shines a light, not entirely flattering, on how Marin residents and visitors are sharing the popular route, officially called the...

Food & Drink: May: Time to play

by Tanya Henry As the days get longer and summer beckons, there are cool happenings around the corner that shouldn’t be missed. Here’s a small taste ... TIBURON SPICES IT UP For the past three years, Evelyn Wood and Nick Davoren have been selling their unique and regionally titled spice blends at the Civic Center Farmers’ Market. On May 15 they...

Letter: ‘Nails done … You poor things.’

Entitlement wars I enjoyed your interview with Peter Coyote . I understand why he is leaving. I’ve been in Marin County for two months helping a friend. In that time I can easily see how young people think we from the ’60s have been an utter failure in living up to our ideals. I’m not pointing fingers—it’s simply a general...

Letter: ‘Why doesn’t anyone care about how this state is run?’

Where’s the outcry? The Golden Gate Bridge was completed in 1937 after seven years of construction. The Empire State Building (102 stories) was completed in 1931 after a year and a half of construction. Now ... A decade to build the 101/580 connectors in San Rafael. A decade to widen a mile of 101 in Santa Rosa. The remodeling of the...

Letter: ‘There is so much I cherish about this formerly wonderful town…’

Sorry, not sorry If you will kindly allow me to do so, I would like to explain my rant of last week without using unnecessary curse words. I wrote the previous letter after a week of trying to negotiate Mill Valley traffic with its now maddening, aggressive behavior. Middle fingers and honky soccer moms abide. Twice I had to...

Hero and Zero: WildCare heroes and self-entitled behavior

hero and zero
by Nikki Silverstein Hero: The first orphaned baby songbirds arrived at WildCare in San Rafael recently and up to 1,000 needy fledglings are expected during spring and summer. WildCare is seeking heroes to help. Grab your knitting needles and start building nests for these tiny patients to inhabit until they are healthy enough to be released back into the wild....

Trivia: Give the title of the love theme—with a body part in the name—from the movie Titanic, and name the singer who recorded this world musical hit.

For more trivia questions (and answers!) see Howard Rachelson’s Trivia Café every week in the Pacific Sun.   Answer: “My Heart Will Go On,” recorded by Celine Dion.
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