Turtle Time: How to Save an Amphibian

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The culture in Marin County has been called all sorts of things, from eco-friendly to aggressively sustainable to “so progressively green it would make a Ninja Turtle look kinda purple.”

Being in the Bay Area means living on the very forefront of the environmental movements that help shape the future narrative of nature conservation, clean living and a whole bunch of other hippie-dippie stuff too. But let’s not get distracted from the main point of this piece: turtles.

More specifically, one three-legged turtle affectionately called Captain Hook. This local celebrity turtle has a compelling story, starting with an injury and subsequent rescue mission that took him all the way from his home (a pond in West Marin) to the local wildlife rescue nonprofit WildCare, to the Oakland Zoo and finally back home once more to swim free and happy in his natural environment and far, far away from people.

This traveling superstar of a rescue reptile is a western pond turtle, a species of special concern in California. Alison Hermance, WildCare’s director of communications and all-around lover of turtles, provided a little background info as to what makes this particular species so special.

“Western pond turtles are our area’s only native [aquatic freshwater] turtle species,” explained Hermance. “The other turtles people see in ponds are the ones people released because they kept them as pets. Red-eared sliders are common examples of this. But releasing non-native species like the red-eared slider is invasive, and they outcompete the native turtle; they take the best pond spaces, nesting places, the best food sources and even the best basking spots… They’ll actually push the western pond turtles off a log or bank to take their basking spot.”

Apart from being incredibly rude, the behavior of invasive species like the red-eared slider poses a real threat to the natural, native ecosystem in which species like the western pond turtle thrive. Like many Californians, western pond turtles are just trying to vibe, stay in their lane and soak up some sun in peace and quiet. Quite relatable.

“Introduced species caused so many problems for our California native animals,” said Hermance. “Native species to our area tend to be more laid back … plus, western pond turtles are really shy. And the red-eared sliders are much more capable of dealing with people and generally have lower stress levels, while the western pond turtle is a high-stress little guy.”

Being called a high-stress little guy is also pretty relatable. And even in a place as green and eco-friendly as Marin, it’s easy to see why species like the western pond turtle are feeling less than perfectly relaxed. Especially considering the simple fact that unbearably rude red-eared sliders are far from the western pond turtle’s only concern.

“Western pond turtles are also very susceptible to habitat destruction, to drought and changes in water flow and certainly to water quality,” explained Hermance. “Think fertilizer runoff, any of the toxins people use in their yards, attempts to try to kill algae and a lot of other various things can kill lots of wildlife that lives in or around the contaminated water source. The more you mess with a habitat, the less habitable it is for a sensitive little guy like a pond turtle. So, let the environment be what it is and be responsible by staying aware of the importance of maintaining the local water and wilderness areas.”

“Another huge problem for western pond turtles and local wildlife in general has to do with run-ins with people,” she added. “One western pond turtle that came in last year was used as a chew toy by a dog—contact with us, our pets, our cars … those are all going to be major challenges.”

Which brings us back to our local western pond turtle representative, Captain Hook, who faced a challenge of his own. Due to unknown causes, Captain Hook lost his right front leg. While this native turtle species is often so shy that one cannot get within 50 feet without them diving for cover, Captain Hook allowed himself to be caught easily by hand. That alone was an indication enough that he was in dire need of medical attention. And, with a fantastic Marin institution like WildCare, it was easy to know where to take Captain Hook for immediate expert help.

“Since 2017, we’ve treated 34 western pond turtles; we usually get four to five a year,” explained Hermance. “The primary reason we tend to get them is that they’ve been hit by cars. Especially during mating season when males are looking for females or when their seasonal pond dries up, they’ll get hit by cars while crossing the road. They come in with broken shells, which need a lot of time to heal.”

“[Captain Hook] is such a good example of the value WildCare adds to the community, because if you find an injured wild animal like that, we’re the resource that’s here to help you,” she added. “You can have that experience of rescuing an animal, bringing them in to us, then … four or five weeks later, be able to return them to their natural environment. It’s lifesaving for the animal and an amazing experience for the people too.”

After taking Captain Hook under their wing, so to speak, WildCare did what they do best, which means they did everything in their power to make sure he could heal and then return home. In this particular case, proper care meant calling in another part of the Bay Area wildlife welfare community at the Oakland Zoo.

The zoo is working on a special western pond turtle conservation effort in the hope of preventing the continued population decline of this beloved local reptile. They even have a project to help repopulate the western pond turtle thanks to another North Bay local: Dr. Nick Geist, a professor at Sonoma State University, who saw the population decline and asked the Oakland Zoo and San Francisco Zoo for help. 

Together, these people and organizations are raising baby western pond turtles, feeding them to grow too big for invasive species like bullfrogs to eat and releasing them back into good-quality local ponds that don’t have any of those rude red-eared sliders around to bogart the best basking spots.

Captain Hook is one of many western pond turtles that the Oakland Zoo, WildCare and other nature-loving local movements have worked to save. And his rescue highlights an epic collaboration that’s been happening between local wildlife advocates. His journey is a reminder of what’s possible when communities care enough to act—not just for turtles, but for every fragile thread in the local ecosystem.

For help with wild animal injury and other emergencies, call the WildCare hotline at 415.456.7283. Rescued animals may also be brought to the WildCare Transition facility on Schmidt Lane off North San Pedro Road in San Rafael, which is open from 9am to 5pm, seven days a week. To learn more about WildCare and the services they offer, visit discoverwildcare.org.

Lunatics, Lovers & Poets: Marin Shakes’ ‘Midsummer’

The Marin Shakespeare Company opens its 35th season in the Forest Meadows Amphitheater with a new adaptation of William Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream

This tale of young lovers and troublesome fairies runs on the campus of Dominican University in San Rafael through July 13.

The production was adapted, directed and choreographed by Bridgette Loriaux and set in 3000 AD. Like some postmodernism, this choice creates a somewhat disjointed show.

There are powerful performances here. Richard Pallaziol’s Quince is unexpectedly endearing. Charisse Lariaux is a strong Hippolyta and a flexible Titania. Jonny Moreno makes the interesting choice to play Oberon and Theseus as almost the same character, which works well to tie the two worlds together.

The set by Nina Ball is a beautiful Art Nouveau wonderland with delicate lines that make it look like a strong wind will tear it apart. It is paired with an almost brutalist Athens, creating an interesting dichotomy between the city and the forest.

And the music (sound design by Ray Archie, original music composition by David Warner) runs the gamut from gothic to modern. While excellent, it doesn’t blend well enough, creating moments that pull the audience out of the show.

Costumes by Bethany Deal Flores are bright and imaginative. Still, as the only element hinting at the hope-punk futurism the director aims for, the costuming is disjointed from the set and story. 

There are other odd choices here as well. Loriaux has replaced half of Bottom’s famous “Bottom’s Speech” with sonnets. There are many dance moments that, while beautiful, don’t further the story, and Titania’s skirt is unsettling at best.

Loriaux makes the admirable choice of making Hippolyta and Theseus equals, but allows Oberon to have more power than Titania. It’s an unusual choice considering that the entire plot hinges on Oberon having to trick Titania to get what he wants. 

Of course, the real question with any production of Midsummer is, did the audience laugh? 

Yes, they did. There are some hilarious moments. This cast has excellent comedic timing, and Steve Price is perfectly cast as the bumbling Bottom.

Overall, however, this production is more hit than miss. If one just wants to grab a glass of wine, a warm blanket and sit back to enjoy a show, this Midsummer is just the ticket.

‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream’ runs Thurs-Sun through July 13 at the Forest Meadows Amphitheatre at Dominican University of California, 890 Belle Ave., San Rafael. Thurs-Sat, 7:30pm; Sun, 5pm. $15-$49. 415.388.5208. marinshakespeare.org.

Living By One’s Wits, Luka Kalinic’s Hospitality Journey

Luka Kalinic is general manager of Wit & Wisdom restaurant, located at The Lodge in Sonoma. 

And while he didn’t go straight into the hospitality industry, the ethos behind it has always been something he’s been drawn to. He feels that there’s something special about being part of someone’s memorable experience, finding this well-loved quote a favorite: “At the end of the day, people won’t remember what you said or did; they will remember how you made them feel.” 

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Luka Kalinic: From a young age, I was surrounded by food and the hospitality culture. I grew up in the coastal city of Split, Croatia, right on the beautiful Adriatic Sea. Our close family friends owned a well-known fish restaurant where I spent a lot of my childhood. That early exposure sparked a deep appreciation for food, service and the communal spirit of dining.

When I moved to the Bay Area in 2014, I began my journey in hospitality. My professional background was actually in finance, and I had never worked in restaurants before. My first job was as a barback, and from there, I worked my way up—host, server, captain, restaurant manager, assistant general manager and eventually general manager.

Did you ever have an “aha” moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

Absolutely. I was working at Pabu, a restaurant by Michael Mina and the late Ken Tominaga, which specializes in Japanese cuisine. That’s where I was first introduced to Japanese whiskeys, and the one that stood out was Yamazaki 12.

I had never tasted anything like it before—so smooth, elegant and incredibly well-balanced. It had the right amount of sweetness and fruitiness, with just a touch of spice. That moment really opened my eyes to the depth and craft of Japanese spirits, and I’ve been a fan ever since.

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

During the spring and summer months, I love sipping on white burgundy or chablis—something crisp and mineral-driven. In the cooler winter months, I usually reach for syrah or pinot noir. I’ve been drinking less frequently lately, but a thoughtfully chosen glass of wine is still one of life’s simple pleasures.

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

When I go out, it’s usually in San Francisco. I enjoy bars like Peacekeeper and PCH (Pacific Cocktail Haven)—they have great vibes, creative cocktails and talented bartenders who take their craft seriously. 

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

I’d probably want something refreshing and light—maybe a perfectly chilled glass of chablis or an ice-cold gin and tonic with a twist of lime. 

Wit & Wisdom, 1325 Broadway, Sonoma, 707.931.3405. witandwisdomsonoma.com.

Fast and Slow, Jennifer York and Joe Ruffatto of Bamboo Sourcery

For sheer speed of growth, bamboo, that terrestrial family of jointed and woody grasses, takes the silver, seconded in that race only by giant sea kelp.

For that, and for fact that it grows happily in the narrow margins of houses, many landscapers favor bamboo as an elegant green privacy screen or living fence. Its wood and its gently rustling and knocking music screen out sound as well as sight.

Gerald Bol, the founder of Bamboo Sourcery, claimed that, with sharp ears, one could even hear the restless bamboo growing at their spear-like top point. In peak heat, they can grow two feet a day. Jennifer York, his daughter, and current co-steward of Bamboo Sourcery, claimed she can hear it grow—it’s like a crackling sound. 

Joe Ruffatto, husband of Jennifer York, and the other co-owner, wryly admitted that he can’t hear it. But then again, he “had listened to a lot of amplified rock and roll.” For me, I couldn’t find an easy scientific reference to the phenomenon, but it is a poetic truth if not a literal one. Indeed, it evokes several famous Buddhist koans.

Our interview was conducted as a walk and talk, as my two hosts toured me up and down their 7.5 acre hillside home and nursery. Stopping frequently, we passed bamboo demonstration gardens and potting sheds, shrines, storehouses, greenhouses, rentals, homes and offices, a barn, an orchard, a reservoir, a newt pond and solar arrays, all along rambling paths lined with hundreds of potted bamboo ready for sale. 

Reading off displays as we passed, there were “silver-stripe” bamboo, “golden vivax,” “green temple” bamboo, variegated “walking stick” bamboo, “old hamii” giant timber bamboo and “Jiuzhaigon”—names that evoke the range through which bamboo species vary.

Cincinnatus Hibbard: How many plants do you have in your stock?

Joe Ruffatto: Maybe 30,000.

Divided into how many species?

About 250 species. Not all are for sale. We have 100 for common sale and the rest as part of our bamboo collection. All of them are temperate species, meaning that they grow well in Northern California.

Wow, 250 species. And you propagate them all here?

Jennifer York: Yes. My father was given some bamboo seed which he successfully propagated. He then traded some of those babies for other species of bamboo, and that is how this collection started… He later got very involved in the Bamboo Society and traveled all over the world collecting temperate species and putting them through the two-year plant quarantine process.

That travel sounds romantic. Tell me about bamboo’s charm and magic.

Well, how do you feel walking through these bamboo groves? It’s evocative. There is a vibe to it. I love to have people come in to visit from urban environments. They sigh and say, I want my garden to feel like this. They pretty much fall in love…

I understand you are looking to sell your business … but not your land.

Bamboo Sourcery is a great jewel, and we don’t want it to end.

Joe Ruffatto: We are selling the name brand, the client base, all our stock and the knowhow. We have spent a lot of time putting our business and propagation procedures into binders full of information. …This business has afforded us a wonderful quality of life and lifestyle.

Having walked the line and circumference of your bamboo kingdom, I could not but agree.

Learn more: Go to linktr.ee/bamboosourceryLINKS.

Your Letters, June 18

Measly Measles

When I was a child 75 years ago, all the kids got measles. No one was afraid of it. Most mothers stayed at home and were comfortable caring for sick children. There was no “Big Pharma” as we know it today—just common sense and generational wisdom when it came to childhood illnesses.

In fact, these illnesses were considered strengthening for children. Some parents even hosted “measles parties” to deliberately expose their kids. If fevers ran high, lemon slices were placed on the feet with socks over them—a folk remedy meant to help the fever do its work safely.

Back then, parents believed childhood diseases had a purpose in building resilience. That wisdom has been replaced by fear—unfounded and unnecessary fear. It’s a sad and unhealthy shift.

Look back, America—and wise up.

Theresa Melia
Graton

Editor’s Note: Well, that’s some old-timey craziness, um, thanks?

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Free Will Astrology: June 18-24

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): Aries writer Joseph Campbell was a world-renowned mythologist. His theories about the classic hero archetype have inspired many writers and filmmakers, including Star Wars creator George Lucas. As a young man, Campbell crafted the blueprint for his influential work during a five-year period when he lived in a rustic shack and read books for nine hours a day. He was supremely dedicated and focused. I recommend that you consider a similar foundation-building project, Aries. The coming months will be an excellent time for you to establish the groundwork for whatever it is you want to do for the rest of your long life.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): In Japan, komorebi refers to the dappled sunlight that streams through tree leaves. It names a subtle, ephemeral beauty that busy people might be oblivious to. Not you, I hope, Taurus. In the coming weeks, I invite you to draw on komorebi as an inspirational metaphor. Tune in to the soft illumination glimmering in the background. Be alert for flickers and flashes that reveal useful clues. Trust in the indirect path, the sideways glance, the half-remembered dream and the overheard conversation. Anything blatant and loud is probably not relevant to your interests. P.S.: Be keen to notice what’s not being said. 

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): In Finnish folklore, the Sampo is a magic artifact that generates unending wealth and good fortune. Here’s the catch: It can’t be hoarded. Its power only works when shared, passed around or made communal. I believe you are close to acquiring a less potent but still wonderful equivalent of a Sampo, Gemini. It may be an idea, a project or a way of living that radiates generosity and sustainable joy. But remember that it doesn’t thrive in isolation. It’s not a treasure to be stored up and saved for later. Share the wealth.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Tides don’t ask for permission. They ebb and flow in accordance with an ancient gravitational intelligence that obeys its own elegant laws. Entire ecosystems rely on their steady cyclical rhythms. You, too, harbor tidal forces, Cancerian. They are partially synced up with the Earth’s rivers, lakes and seas, and are partially under the sway of your deep emotional power. It’s always crucial for you to be intimately aware of your tides’ flows and patterns, but even more than usual right now. I hope you will trust their timing and harness their tremendous energy.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Some jewelers practice an ancient Korean art called keum-boo, in which they fuse pure gold to silver by heat and pressure. The result is gold that seems to bloom from within silver’s body, not just be juxtaposed on top of it. Let’s make this your metaphor for the coming weeks, Leo. I believe you will have the skill to blend two beautiful and valuable things into an asset that has the beauty and value of both—plus an extra added synergy of valuable beauty. The only problem that could possibly derail your unprecedented accomplishment might be your worry that you don’t have the power to do that. Expunge that worry, please.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Some Indigenous cultures keep track of time not by clocks but by natural events: “the moon when the salmon return,” “the season when shadows shorten,” “the return of the rain birds.” I encourage you to try that approach, Virgo. Your customary rigor will benefit from blending with an influx of more intuitive choices. You will be wise to explore the joys of organic timing. So just for now, I invite you to tune out the relentless tick-tock. Listen instead for the hush before a threshold cracks open. Meditate on the ancient Greek concept of kairos: the prime moment to act or a potential turning point that’s ripe for activation.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Botanists speak of “serotiny,” a plant’s ability to delay seed release until the environment is just right. Some pinecones, for instance, only open after a fire. What part of you has been patiently waiting, Libra? What latent brilliance has not been ready to emerge until now? The coming weeks will offer catalytic conditions—perhaps heat, perhaps disruption, perhaps joy—that will be exactly what’s needed to unleash the fertile potency. Have faith that your seeds will draw on their own wild intelligence.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): One of your superpowers is your skill at detecting what’s unfolding beneath the surfaces. It’s almost like you have X-ray vision. Your ability to detect hidden agendas, buried secrets and underground growth is profound. But in the coming weeks, I urge you to redirect your attention. You will generate good fortune for yourself if you turn your gaze to what lies at the horizon and just beyond. Can you sense the possibilities percolating at the edges of your known world? Can you sync up your intuitions with the future’s promises? Educated guesses will be indistinguishable from true prophecies.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Sagittarius-born Wassily Kandinsky (1866-1944) got a degree in law and economics and began a career teaching those subjects at the university level. But at age 30, he had a conversion experience. It was triggered when he saw a thrilling exhibit of French Impressionist painters and heard an enthralling opera by Richard Wagner. Soon he flung himself into a study of art, embarking on an influential career that spanned decades. I am predicting that you will encounter inspirations of that caliber, Sagittarius. They may not motivate you as drastically as Kandinsky’s provocations, but they could revitalize your life forever.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): The ancient Egyptians revered the River Nile’s annual flooding, which brought both disruption and renewal. It washed away old plant matter and debris and deposited fertile silt that nourished new growth. In the coming weeks, Capricorn, I suspect you will experience a metaphorical flood: a surge of new ideas, opportunities and feelings that temporarily unsettle your routines. Rather than focusing on the inconvenience, I suggest you celebrate the richness this influx will bring. The flow will ultimately uplift you, even if it seems messy at first. 

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Medieval stonemasons worked not just in service to the immediate structures they made. They imagined eternity, laying foundation blocks in cathedrals they knew they would never live to see completed. I think you are being invited to do similar work: soulful construction whose fruits may not ripen for a while. A provocative conversation you have soon may echo for years. A good habit you instill could become a key inheritance for your older self. So think long, wide and slow, dear Aquarius. Not everything must produce visible worth this season. Your prime offerings may be seeds for the future. Attend to them with reverence.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): In the frigid parts of planet Earth, some glaciers sing. As they shift and crack and melt, they emit tones: groans, pulses, crackles and whooshes. I believe your soul will have a similar inclination in the coming weeks, Pisces: to express mysterious music as it shifts and thaws. Some old logjam or stuck place is breaking open within you, and that’s a very good thing. Don’t ignore or neglect this momentous offering. And don’t try to translate it into logical words too quickly. What story does your trembling tell? Let the deep, restless movements of your psyche resound. 

Culture Crush, June 18

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Calistoga

Art & Music


Music, memory and mandolins converge this weekend at Sofie Contemporary Arts, where musician Josh Martin—Coast Guard vet turned NorCal troubadour—brings his genre-crossing trio to the gallery stage. He’s joined by Texas-bred singer and mandolinist Genevieve and Sonoma County’s own Jenica Thorp on fiddle, for an afternoon of bluegrass, blues, rock and original vernacular tunes. The free Sunday show is part of a mini-tour of humble North Bay haunts, handpicked by Martin’s longtime friend, artist Terry Holleman. Holleman’s exhibition, Still Play, is on view now and plays in visual harmony with the performance—his deeply textural conte-on-gesso drawings conjure the same roadhouse rhythm and communal spirit that Martin and company will stir live. 1-4pm, Sunday, June 22. Sofie Contemporary Arts, 1407 Lincoln Ave., Calistoga. Free. More: sofiegallery.com.

Petaluma

Strings & Things

The Sonoma County String Collective makes its official debut with First Bloom, an open-air concert set in the rose-laced idyll of Garden Valley Ranch. Known for their genre-hopping finesse—classical to Coldplay, Bach to Beyoncé—the quartet brings high-caliber strings to weddings, wineries and now their own stage. Expect a golden-hour set of reimagined pop and timeless classics performed al fresco among the blooms. 5-8pm, Saturday, June 28. Garden Valley Ranch, 498 Pepper Rd., Petaluma. $20. Tickets and info: bit.ly/sonoma-strings-bloom.

Tiburon

Kermy Crashout

Move over Muppets—there’s a new felt-faced phenom in town. Internet puppet sensation Kermy Crashout brings his wacky charm to Cinelounge Tiburon for a special morning of kid-friendly chaos and storytelling joy. Designed for ages 2–12, this lively session features heartwarming tales, zany antics, and ends with each child receiving an old-school portrait with Kermy himself (think Sears glamor shots but with more googly eyes). 10:30-11:15am, Saturday, June 21. Cinelounge, 40 Main St., Tiburon. Tickets: bit.ly/kermy-crashout.

Mill Valley

Trivial Pursuits

It’s time to bring the brainy bunch—or just that best guess—and join Trivia Café with Marin’s master of minutiae, Howard Rachelson. Known for his long-running column in the Bohemian and Pacific Sun, Rachelson brings his trademark wit, visuals, music and head-scratchers to the Sweetwater Music Hall stage. Prizes await the top teams, and all humans are welcome. No ticket, no cover—just a good time and a full bar. 5pm, Sunday, June 22. Sweetwater Music Hall, 19 Corte Madera Ave., Mill Valley. Free. More: sweetwatermusichall.com.

Open Mic: When Going Through Hell, One Needs to Keep Going

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People who I meet for the first time around our fine county often look at this face and ask, “How many times have you been married?” 

I guess it’s obvious from the hangdog look that I’ve been around the nuptial block more than once or twice. My stock answer is, “I’m on my second marriage for the third time,” which gets some good, quizzical looks from people. 

At my age, roughly 74.17260274 years, I have earned my hangdog wrinkles and those tilted-head looks from new acquaintances. The younger ones look at me and think, “Ah, here’s a man of depth, experience, maturity, maybe even wisdom. He can help me sort sh** out.”

Sorry, kids. As I mentioned to a throng of 14 cherished family members last June at my third and final wedding, “By now, I should have keen insights into the nature of personal relationships. I do not. I know less now, in fact, than I have ever known. But I am curious about how relationships work, and I will remain curious. That is my pledge. Take that, cherished family members.”

As a kid, our household was about as safe as any mental or correctional institution you would care to name, maybe less so. What all that did was make me a student, a learner, a seeker of truth in the area of human interaction, from a practical, not an academic, point of view. I unconsciously sought to figure out how people might better work with each other, and with other resources, to achieve common ends. 

A marriage is all about teamwork. Good teams, and I’ve been on some in school and at work, are much harder to assemble and sustain than most people are willing to admit. While good parenting is about creating an environment of unconditional love and unconditional limits, good marriage is about constantly shifting conditions, uncertainty, forbearance, forgiveness and recovery from error, lots of error. If one is not out there making mistakes, they won’t get much done. Take that, cherished family members.

Craig Corsini lives and writes in Marin County.

Princess for a Day, Queen for a Lifetime

Esperanza Rico and Estrellita Rico of The Princess Boutique in Santa Rosa offer their clients cradle to grave service—or nearly so. 

The tall-walled and brick-lined showroom is divided into sections where first communion suits, quinceañera “coming out” gowns, prom and wedding dresses sit, lit in abundant sunshine. Their clothing covers the principle passages (marked with rose trellis) through which a traditional Latina processes during her lifetime.

I asked Estrellita Rico, the daughter and helpmate to owner Esperanza Rico, why they didn’t offer funeral wear to complete their clients’ lifetime needs. She laughed that they did—provided they wanted to be buried in a big foofy dress. And, come to think of it, yes, I do. 

Entering their boutique on Railroad Square, one is immediately drawn to the quinceañera section, with its long rows of court dresses in every color of the rainbow, from the most traditional Mexican, big and black, embroidered with climbing red roses, to the most American, a straight ahead pink “Cinderella” ball gown. 

And dancing pole to pole are gowns in shades of scarlet, magenta, lavender, lime and daiquiri, bedewed with “pearls,” or opulent with silver-threaded arabesques, lace, giant bows, silk butterflies or the blossoming flowers of maidenly spring.

To one oppressed by regnant minimalism, it is all so rapturously extra. And I have not even described the rhinestone traced silk flower bouquets or the rhinestone mounting quince crowns that put the crown jewels of Europe to shame.

Fresh from a quince fitting, I sat down with Esperanza Rico. Estrellita Rico helped a bit with translation. I might add, for description, that as Esperanza Rico spoke, there hung over her shoulder a three-quarters life-sized double photo of her daughter as a 15-year-old quince princess, looking imperious, in a gown of peach and another of emerald.

Cincinnatus Hibbard: Why do you do this work?

Esperanza Rico: When I was a little girl, growing up in Michoacán, I never had birthday parties. 

My single mother didn’t have the money for decorations or presents. But my grandmother made me a doll out of an old sock, and I would make beautiful dresses for it with paper and glue. I never had a quinceañera, but I dreamed of a peach-colored tule quinceañera dress… Now I live to make other girls’ dreams come true…

Lovely … perhaps you could give all us a rundown of the services you provide.

Special event clothing, from our inventory, catalogs and sometimes my own original 

designs—I went to design school in Mexico and worked with dressmakers. We have inclusive sizing, from size zero to 4X. We do clothing alterations of our clothing or clothing people bring in. And we have accessories for everything. We are a one-stop shop.

And I understand you have extensive contacts in every aspect of event planning—if your client needs a balloon arch, make-up, catering or a stretch humvee.

Yes. We actually did event planning until the pandemic. We might start again…

How were you able to start this business?

We started a party business making decorations at home. Later, we were able to purchase an existing dress shop with money we won at the casino. We started with $100 (laughs).

Estrellita Rico: My mother is very lucky; she has a good spirit and good energy (laughs).

Tell me, Esperanza, is it too late for you to have a quinceañera?

When I turned 50, I had my “cincuentañera” with all my childhood best friends and family Michoacán. I wore an emerald dress….

Estrellita Rico: Her dream did come true. My dad was the chambelan.

Learn more: Their instagram is @princess_boutiquesr.

Culture Crush, June 11

Napa

Marriage, Fame & Other Horrors

It’s time to dive into the fantastical, the horrific and the domestic with Betty and Clayton Bailey at di Rosa Downtown. Their exhibition showcases the quirky, wild worlds of ceramic sculptor Clayton Bailey, a legend of California clay art, alongside the prolific graphite and ceramic works of his wife, Betty Bailey. Together, this duo’s art explores the weird and wonderful chaos of fame, creativity and marriage, with monsters and mayhem galore. One may catch this mind-bending duo’s creations in the flesh—so to speak—from now through Sept. 7 at di Rosa Downtown. The Betty and Clayton Bailey exhibition is free to attend and open from noon to 4pm Friday through Sunday. Find the exhibition at 1300 First St., Suite 251 in Napa. For more info, visit dirosaart.org.

Sebastopol

Light It Up

Are y’all ready for the gosh darned best 3rd of July party in town? Well, if so, then y’all be happy to hear that the Kiwanis Club of Sebastopol is back with their annual 3rd of July Fireworks and Music Extravaganza. This event promises a night packed with live music, good eats and sky-high pyrotechnics, guaranteed to make the eyes sparkle—literally. The music kicks off at 4pm and rolls on till the fireworks blast off at about 9:30pm. Before that, Uncle Sam himself leads the flag ceremony at 9:20pm, followed by the “Star-Spangled Banner”—and yes, a raffle to keep things interesting. Tickets are $20 for adults, $5 for kids age 6-11 and totally free for the littlest firecracker kiddos under 5. No outside booze or pets allowed, so leave those at home, and don’t forget to bring that party spirit. For more info, visit sebastopolkiwanisclub.org.

Novato

Radio Days

Wondering how to survive in a world without Wi-Fi? Well, amateur radio operators (aka hams) just might have the chops to get through a low-tech resurgence. Enter the 2025 ARRL Amateur Radio Field Day, a 24-hour communications showdown where the Marin Amateur Radio Society (MARS) proves they can set up a radio station faster than one can say “no bars.” From wildfires to hurricanes, these folks are the reason disaster response doesn’t turn into a total communications blackout. Curious? One may come see the gear, meet the hams and maybe even chat with someone transmitting from across the country—or from a lawn chair in Kansas. Either way, it’s pure analog magic. ARRL Field Day runs 11am June 28 to 11am June 29 at Picnic Area 1, Stafford Lake Park, 3549 Novato Blvd. in Novato. Contact Steve Toquinto at kb****@*****st.net. Talk-in frequency: 147.585 MHz simplex.

Bolinas

A Howlin’ Good Time

Friday the 13th is coming once more, and what better way to mark the occasion than (you guessed it) … werewolves? Werewolf Serenade, a campy indie lycanthrope rom-com, is screening at the Bolinas Community Center on Friday, June 13 as part of the Bolinas Film Festival’s “Filmmaker’s Lounge” series. Even better? Local filmmakers Daedalus Howell (the editor of this very paper) and Kary Hess will be in attendance for a post-film Q&A to talk shop, spill secrets and possibly confirm whether lycanthropy is covered by Kaiser (spoiler: it’s not). This knowingly weird, weirdly tender film follows a Gen X couple grappling with marital ennui and sudden werewolfism—equal parts horror, humor and midlife crisis. Think sharp dialogue, occult academia and hair in increasingly inconvenient places. Audience howling is encouraged. Admission is free. ‘Werewolf Serenade’ will screen from 7-9pm on Friday, June 13, at the Bolinas Community Center, located at 14 Wharf Rd. To reserve tickets, visit dhowl.com/bolinas-wolf.

Turtle Time: How to Save an Amphibian

The culture in Marin County has been called all sorts of things, from eco-friendly to aggressively sustainable to “so progressively green it would make a Ninja Turtle look kinda purple.” Being in the Bay Area means living on the very forefront of the environmental movements that help shape the future narrative of nature conservation, clean living and a whole bunch...

Lunatics, Lovers & Poets: Marin Shakes’ ‘Midsummer’

The Marin Shakespeare Company opens its 35th season in the Forest Meadows Amphitheater with a new adaptation of William Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream.  This tale of young lovers and troublesome fairies runs on the campus of Dominican University in San Rafael through July 13. The production was adapted, directed and choreographed by Bridgette Loriaux and set in 3000 AD. Like...

Living By One’s Wits, Luka Kalinic’s Hospitality Journey

Luka Kalinic is general manager of Wit & Wisdom restaurant, located at The Lodge in Sonoma.  And while he didn’t go straight into the hospitality industry, the ethos behind it has always been something he’s been drawn to. He feels that there’s something special about being part of someone’s memorable experience, finding this well-loved quote a favorite: “At the end...

Fast and Slow, Jennifer York and Joe Ruffatto of Bamboo Sourcery

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Your Letters, June 18

Measly Measles When I was a child 75 years ago, all the kids got measles. No one was afraid of it. Most mothers stayed at home and were comfortable caring for sick children. There was no “Big Pharma” as we know it today—just common sense and generational wisdom when it came to childhood illnesses. In fact, these illnesses were considered strengthening...

Free Will Astrology: June 18-24

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Aries writer Joseph Campbell was a world-renowned mythologist. His theories about the classic hero archetype have inspired many writers and filmmakers, including Star Wars creator George Lucas. As a young man, Campbell crafted the blueprint for his influential work during a five-year period when he lived in a rustic shack and read books for nine...

Culture Crush, June 18

Calistoga Art & Music Music, memory and mandolins converge this weekend at Sofie Contemporary Arts, where musician Josh Martin—Coast Guard vet turned NorCal troubadour—brings his genre-crossing trio to the gallery stage. He’s joined by Texas-bred singer and mandolinist Genevieve and Sonoma County’s own Jenica Thorp on fiddle, for an afternoon of bluegrass, blues, rock and original vernacular tunes. The free Sunday...

Open Mic: When Going Through Hell, One Needs to Keep Going

Opinion
People who I meet for the first time around our fine county often look at this face and ask, “How many times have you been married?”  I guess it’s obvious from the hangdog look that I’ve been around the nuptial block more than once or twice. My stock answer is, “I’m on my second marriage for the third time,” which...

Princess for a Day, Queen for a Lifetime

Esperanza Rico and Estrellita Rico of The Princess Boutique in Santa Rosa offer their clients cradle to grave service—or nearly so.  The tall-walled and brick-lined showroom is divided into sections where first communion suits, quinceañera “coming out” gowns, prom and wedding dresses sit, lit in abundant sunshine. Their clothing covers the principle passages (marked with rose trellis) through which a...

Culture Crush, June 11

Napa Marriage, Fame & Other Horrors It’s time to dive into the fantastical, the horrific and the domestic with Betty and Clayton Bailey at di Rosa Downtown. Their exhibition showcases the quirky, wild worlds of ceramic sculptor Clayton Bailey, a legend of California clay art, alongside the prolific graphite and ceramic works of his wife, Betty Bailey. Together, this duo’s art...
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