The Impact of LGBTQ+ Storytellers on Recognizing Bayard Rustin

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With the recent release of a new Netflix film portraying the life of Bayard Rustin, East Bay Express talked with Nancy Kates, director of Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin (2003), the documentary that in part helped to inspire the new narrative film and further the cause of recognizing the civil rights leader.

“He was a really important behind-the-scenes organizer in the 1963 March on Washington where Dr. King made his ‘I Have a Dream’ speech,” Kates said during a recent phone conversation. “Rustin had been an advisor to King since the Montgomery Bus boycott in 1956, [but] he wasn’t allowed to be in the forefront of the civil rights movement because he was seen as something of a liability because he was gay, and that could be used against him.”

Being gay at the time could mean trouble at work, with the law or worse. Even more so for a man involved in peace and civil rights movements since the ’40s. The recognition Rustin has received in recent years is thanks in large part to the work of LGBTQ+-focused storytellers and researchers like Kates, who herself identifies as LGBTQ+.

“There’s something a bit gratifying about the fact that our film came out 20 years ago,” Kates said. “And I don’t think [Netflix] would have made a film if they hadn’t seen our film.”

While making the documentary, Kates learned everything about Rustin she could, including tracking down arrest records in Pasadena and visiting London to interview people who had worked with him. In all, the film’s researchers accessed more than 100 archives worldwide. It’s a level of detail that a narrative film cannot quite touch. Yet fiction has its own claim to truth.

Susan Sontag—the subject of Kates’ 2014 film, Regarding Susan Sontag—said she “preferred the form of truth that happened in fiction rather than nonfiction,” which Kates quoted during our call. Kates went on to say, “You know that there are truths in both arenas, they’re just very different from each other.”

Most important is that more people will know about Rustin’s incredible journey as an openly gay man in the ’60s who posthumously received the Medal of Freedom from Barack Obama. While the documentary has been widely viewed, it didn’t have the same reach as a Netflix feature film.

“Well, let me just back up a little bit,” Kates said when asked about the impact of her film. “I think that our film was hugely resonant both for queer communities and for African American communities. And other communities of color, frankly, and that feels like a powerful thing … to raise this figure up.”

She continued, “I know that our film helped raise his visibility in the queer community quite a bit. For example, [there are] plaques in the ground on the sidewalk in the Castro for famous queer people. There’s one for Oscar Wilde and there’s one for Virginia Woolf … and there’s one for Bayard Rustin. And I don’t know if that would have happened without our movie.”

She believes her documentary made an impact on society when it was initially released.

“[M]y experience of our film is that at the time it came out … it was hugely embraced by the queer community [and only] somewhat embraced by the African American community,” Kates said. “And I think that has changed in recent times [and] with this feature film these incredible African American actors are proudly telling the story.”

She added, “When I was a kid, nobody talked about anyone being gay like in school or anything, and the fact that our film is shown in schools and colleges is amazing to me.” She is, in fact, impressed that the country is again having “a conversation about the importance of this Black gay man.”

As members of the LGBTQ+ community face the consequences of organized pushback against established queer and trans rights, and incidents of violence against trans people are up, an intersectional American hero like Bayard Rustin is a reason for hope, a reminder that the fight for dignity and justice matters.


Watch ‘Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin’ at brotheroutsider.org/watch; 48-hour rental or free with a public or university library card. DVDs also available for purchase.

The new film, ‘Rustin,’ is streaming now on Netflix.

Free Will Astrology: Week of January 3

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): The plan I will propose in this horoscope is for temporary use. I’m not recommending you stick to it for all of 2024, but just for the next 15 to 18 days. If you do, I believe it will set you up for beautiful success in the coming months. Here’s my idea: Embark on a free-form extravaganza of playing and having fun. Just for now, set aside your ambition. Don’t worry about improving yourself and producing results. Simply enjoy a phase of suspending inhibitions, creatively messing around, having nothing to prove and being motivated by the quest for joy.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Climate change is impacting rainbows. Rising temperatures and dryer conditions mean that some parts of the world will get fewer rainbows, and other areas will get more. Canada and Siberia will benefit, while the Mediterranean will be less well-endowed with sky-borne arcs of color that come from sunlit rain. But I predict that no matter where you live, the rainbow will be a potent and regular symbol for you Bulls in 2024—more than ever before. That means you will have increased reasons to entertain hope and more power to find beauty. On occasion, there may even be very good luck at the metaphorical rainbow’s end. If you’re an LGBTQIA2S+ Taurus, be on high alert for breakthroughs in your ability to get the appreciation you deserve.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): As one of your inspirational stories for 2024, I offer this tale from singer-songwriter Tom Waits: “Once upon a time, there was a crooked tree and a straight tree. They grew next to each other. Every day, the straight tree would look at the crooked tree and say, ‘You’re crooked. You’ve always been crooked, and you’ll continue to be crooked. But look at me! I’m tall, and I’m straight.’ Then one day, lumberjacks came to the forest and looked around. The manager in charge said, ‘Cut all the straight trees.’ And that crooked tree is still there to this day, growing strong and growing strange.” (PS: Here’s more from Gemini writer Ralph Waldo Emerson: “Be true to your own act, and congratulate yourself if you have done something strange and extravagant.”)

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Japanese artist Hokusai (1760-1849) developed a fascination for his country’s iconic Mount Fuji. In his 70s, he produced a series of woodblock prints titled Thirty-Six Views of Mount Fuji. Later, he added three books of prints collectively called One Hundred Views of Mount Fuji. Some art historians say his obsession stemmed from the legend that the mountain was home to the secret of immortality. The coming year will be a fine time for you Cancerians to celebrate and concentrate on your own Mount Fuji-like passion. Sometime soon, identify what it is and start making plans to commune with it intensely.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): If you will ever in your life go viral—that is, create or do something that suddenly becomes widely known and influential—I bet it will be in 2024. Even if you don’t produce TikTok videos seen by 10 million people, you are at least likely to become more visible in your local community or field of endeavor. Of course, I would prefer that your fame and clout spread because of the good deeds you do, not the weird deeds. So I urge you to cultivate high integrity and a wildly generous spirit in the coming months. Be a role model who inspires and uplifts.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): I expect 2024 to be a free-spirited, wide-ranging, big-vision type of year for you, dear Virgo. I predict you will feel an abundance of urges to travel, roam and explore. You will be more excited than anxious about the prospect of leaving your comfort zone, and you will have a special fondness for getting your mind expanded by interesting encounters. That doesn’t mean you will avoid all awkwardness and confusion. Some of that stuff will happen, though it will usually evolve into educational adventures. And the extra good news is that wandering out in nature will provide even more inspiration and healing than usual. Treasure this quote from conservationist Rachel Carson: “Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure: the migration of the birds, the ebb and flow of the tides, the folded bud ready for the spring.”

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): I am pleased to inform you that a visit to hell will not be on your itinerary in 2024. You may be invited to take a few excursions into the realm that depth psychologists call the underworld, but that’s a good thing. There you will be able to hunt for treasures that have been hidden and uncover secrets that will illuminate your epic, months-long quest for wholeness. It may sometimes be dark and shadowy down there below, but almost always dark and shadowy in ways that will lead you to healing. (I will reiterate what I implied above: The underworld is NOT hell.)

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): I hope that working hard on togetherness will be a fun project for you in the coming months. To do it well, you must outgrow some habitual ways of doing friendship and intimacy. You will have to be imaginative and ingenious. Are you willing to believe that you do not yet know all there is to know about being a fantastic ally and partner? Are you ready to approach the arts of collaboration and cooperation as if enhancing your skills is the most important thing you can do? For the sake of your best selfish goals, be a brilliant teammate in 2024.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Each of us is a complex, kaleidoscopic work of art, whether or not we consciously approach our destiny in that spirit. Every day, we use our creative imagination to craft new elements of the masterpiece known as the story of our life. Leos come by this fun project naturally, but you Sagittarians also have great potential to embrace it with glee and panache. I trust you will be especially keen on enjoying this sacred work in 2024. And right now, today and in the coming weeks, will be an excellent time to ramp up the scintillating drama.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): “I am against sex education in schools because sex is more fun when it’s dirty and sinful.” So said Capricorn author Florence King. I reject and rebel against that perverse declaration—and encourage you to disavow it, too, in 2024. In my astrological opinion, the coming months will be a favorable time to learn everything about sex and eros that you don’t already know. I hope you will dive deep as you gather a rich array of teachings about how to enjoy the art of making love more than ever before. (Consider consulting tantric manuals like Margo Anand’s The Art of Sexual Magic: Cultivating Sexual Energy to Transform Your Life.)

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Singer-songwriter Tori Amos says she’s sure she was burned for being a witch in a previous lifetime. I suspect most of us had past incarnations in which we were punished simply for being our beautiful selves. I bring this up, Aquarius, because I think 2024 will be a favorable time to get some healing from any ancient hurt like that. You will have a series of experiences that could help you recover from the illusion that being faithful to your truth is somehow wrong. Life will conspire with you to help you reclaim more of the full audacity to be your gorgeous, genuine self.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): I believe 2024 will be one of the best years ever for your education. Your willingness and eagerness to learn will be at a peak. Your knack for attracting inspirational teachers will be excellent. It’s likely you will be exceptionally curious and open to good influences. My advice is to be alert for lessons not just from obvious sources of wisdom and revelation, but also from unexpected founts. Don’t be too sure you know where revelations and illumination might come from.

Homework: Make three predictions about your life in 2024. Newsletter.FreeWillAstrology.com

Marin’s 2023 Top Torn Tix

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As a reviewer, it’s important to forgo opinions in favor of informed critique. But theater, like all art forms, has an almost indescribable essence and vitality which can get lost in rationale and review.

As lovers of the art form, at the end of each year we leave the cynical aside and reflect on the shows that stood out to us. Here are five shows in 2023 that I found the most memorable.

The Addams Family – Novato Theater Company – There are few things more satisfying than watching people do something about which they are passionate. This tight company brought so much enthusiasm to the play that their joy turned a weak script into an absolutely delightful

production.

Odyssey – Marin Theater Company – This production was simply sublime. I can count on one hand the number of plays that have wrapped me up so completely as an audience member that I forgot I was watching a play. There have only been four in almost four decades of theater. This show could have been performed in a school cafeteria at lunchtime, and the raw power of the cast would still have held the audience silently spellbound.

24 Nights (two productions of Twelfth Night) – Marin Shakespeare Company, Two Gents Theater Company When it comes to Shakespeare, there are two hills on which I am willing to die: Shakespeare should be done outside, and it should be free. While Marin Shakespeare’s production was not free, it was far and away the best in terms of production value and cohesive storytelling.

While Two Gents may have lagged behind Marin Shakes in production quality and cohesiveness, they did the one thing that should always be commended—by not charging for admission, the company opened the experience up to the community.

American theater is getting more expensive and thus more exclusionary every year. Any company willing to take on the financial burden to make it accessible to everyone should be recognized and supported (hint-hint).

Where Do We Sit on the Bus? – Marin Theater Company – This play could make the list on its title alone. As a mixed-race Latina, this question has always haunted me. And to see someone else not only ask it but experience the same sort of confusion it causes is at the core of why representation matters.

When the titular question is answered by an authority figure with “you weren’t there,” the skin tone difference between the audience members who laughed and those who gasped showed the level of dialogue still needed to teach the very different realities of the global majority versus the American dominant culture. On top of the politics, it was also a damn good show.

The Green-Washed Governor

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At the stroke of midnight on Dec. 31 of this year, Gov. Gavin Newsom will begin celebrating the 20th anniversary of his 10-year plan to end homelessness in San Francisco…YEAH BUDDY!

Now, our illustrious governor says he has a plan to end homelessness in California…YEAH BUDDY!

On a recent trip to China, Newsom met with Chinese President Xi Jinping to discuss strategies to combat global warming. Not quite as recently, Newsom appeared in a video where he proclaimed to the whole world how he is “proud to be on team Biden/Harris.”

Now that (investigative journalist and political writer) Seymour Hersh—and his extremely well-protected sources inside the Pentagon—have pretty much proved that President Joe Biden is the one who blew up the Nord Stream 2 pipelines, which caused the largest single release of methane in human history, the concept that Newsom could ever care about global warming is laughable.

Like many other corrupt politicians in California, Newsom’s rise to power in the Golden State was necessitated by selling out to the growth machine, which, in the United States, is directly or indirectly responsible for 40% of all greenhouse gasses emitted into the atmosphere. Worldwide, that figure goes up to 50%!

Newsom recently approved the construction of the Sites Reservoir in Glenn and Colusa counties, which, according to scientists, will produce about 362,000 metric tons of methane due to decomposing organic material under the lake and won’t do much to solve any water problems.

If one looks at Newsom’s face long enough, one can almost see the dollar signs in his eyes. Perhaps it is time for all good Californians to wake up and realize that politicians like Newsom will always sell out faster than tickets to a Rolling Stones concert.

Now, more than ever, is the time for a brand new third party. What better place to start that third party than in one of the most corrupt states in the union? I could help with that, but I cannot do it alone.

Doug Haymaker lives in Santa Rosa.

Jeff Burkhart of the ‘Barfly’ Column and Podcast

For my final interview of the year, I had to go with Jeff Burkhart.

His popular “Barfly” column has led him to be voted “Best Media Personality: TV, Radio, Print” three times by the readers of the Pacific Sun, and he himself has been voted “best bartender” seven times, by the readers of three different publications. I am honored to consider him a good pal as well.

What do you do?

I am either a bartender who writes, or a writer who bartends. There is a lot of overlap.

Where do you live?

Hamilton Field Novato.

How long have you lived in Marin?

Thirty-two years, minus a brief sojourn to Southern California.

Where can we find you when you’re not at work?

Doing aikido at the dojo (Bay Marin Aikido), reading at the Novato Public Library or walking around Phoenix Lake.

If you had to convince someone how awesome Marin is, where would you take them?

The walk around at the top of Mt. Tam will show you everything that Marin has to offer: the ocean, the bay and almost the entire county! It’s also far enough up Highway 1 to get the gist.

What’s one thing Marin is missing?

A North Bay (San Pablo Bay) ferry!

What’s one bit of advice you’d share with your fellow Marinites?

Progress is inevitable. Let’s work on making it work, not on stopping it.

If you could invite anyone to a special dinner, who would they be?

Three writers who all have a Marin County connection: Mark Twain, Jack London and Jim Morrison. Twain for the wit, London for the prose and Morrison, well, why not?

What is some advice you wish you knew 20 years ago?

You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Don’t fight it; try instead to enjoy it.

What is something that in 20 years from now will seem cringeworthy?

Modern pop music. And espresso martinis. Especially espresso martinis.

Big question. What is one thing you’d do to change the world?

That we would spend as much money and time on peace as we currently do on war.

Keep up with Burkhart at jeffburkhart.net.

Nish Nadaraja was on the founding team at Yelp, serves on the San Anselmo Arts Commission and attempts to play pickleball at Fairfax’s Cañon Club.

Your Letters, 12/27

Sex Ed

I’m a professional sex surrogate, and disagree with Dan Savage’s advice on love and sexuality (Savage Love, Dec. 20, 2023).

When people experience erectile dysfunction, medications are best used as a last resort, due to their medical and psychological side effects.

To get at the root issues, a thorough medical exam and seeing a therapist or surrogate are important. A healthy diet, regular exercise, body awareness techniques and Tantra also help.

These things would also help Mr. Savage’s asexual advice seeker and people wishing to enrich their lovemaking with their long-term partners.

Barbara Daugherty

Santa Rosa

Common Sense

Dr. Barry “The Genius” Barnett has presented us with a prime example of logic and common sense in declaring, more or less, that a circumstance in which Joe Biden and Don Trump sit atop the respective ideologically bankrupt major political parties is a hideous and monumental global embarrassment for the United States of America, in addition to being a daily practical nightmare.

The hope is that it is also a sign that we have finally descended to the bottom of the political pigsty and a harbinger of better days ahead. There is no other intelligent way to view the issue.

Craig J. Corsini

San Rafael

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Unresolved Resolutions: How to make the next 365 days count

There are 365 days in 2024—how can one best spend them?

Between family, friends, finances, self-improvement, community involvement, creative pursuits, health, happiness and all of the struggles, big and small, that stand between oneself and perceived “success,” it can feel almost impossible to stay focused on resolutions…even those that one once deemed important enough to resolve to carry into the new year with them.

For some reason, resolutions rarely stick—even the significant ones. And more often than not, something happens in between that first and 52nd week of the year, something that strips away that post-holiday hubris and stalls out the very same perseverant spirits that originally propelled into the new year dead-set and intent on finding purpose or reaching an aspiration or searching for some raison d’être that will maybe help to ascribe meaning to the ever-quickening passage of time.

No matter how much importance a person assigns to some achievement or another at the beginning of the year, there is absolutely no guarantee that they will see it through all 365 days. In fact, the reality is that many New Year’s resolutions won’t even make it past Valentine’s Day—but it doesn’t have to be that way, at least not here in the North Bay, anyway.

But that’s jumping ahead of the still-unexplored and soon-upcoming explanation of New Year’s resolutions and why they always seem only one frayed thread’s breadth away from slipping away, much like Sisyphus’ rock as it rolls catastrophically down from some intangible, endless mountain top of productivity into yet another failed attempt at…what, exactly?

The way these resolutions are presented and perceived, at least in the context of this current, shared society and its staggering standards, it pushes this idea that the real reward of New Year’s resolutions only goes to those who resolve to strive toward some contrived version of social-media-worthy perfection. Where the already beautiful, successful and talented people of the world still cover themselves in filters to eliminate their pores and curate an image so meticulously cultivated, it falls straight into the uncanny valley where werewolves, unicorns and this idea of perfection share the same unreal liminal space.

This obsession with reaching the imaginary concept of perfection plays an enormous role in how everyone approaches their own personal sense of achievement.

This is as true in Marin as it is anywhere else, especially considering that everyone here lives in a county that is so close to the bustling city of San Francisco, where work burnout is as common and easy to spot as Christmas lights in December.

See, somewhere along the long journey of life, this idea of chasing after things like achievement, productivity, perfection and being the best version of a person possible it sort of ousted and took the place of more real kinds of resolutions, those that focus on the pursuit of more personal achievements and goals that actually lead to a sense of fulfillment—but the process of untangling that web of what is important as an individual from that which is imposed by the world at large…well, it’s hard, to say the least.

But maybe, just maybe, these 365 days of 2024 don’t have to follow the same pattern of perfection-seeking resolutions as some previous years and New Year’s resolutions.

Consider for a second the most common resolutions people promise to commit their time, energy and sense of self-worth to with each new year:

“I want to lose at least 15 pounds,” says the person who is already a perfectly acceptable weight.

“My resolution is to climb that corporate ladder, work as much as I can this year to finally get that promotion,” says the person who really just wants to get decent enough pay to take a vacation.

“This year, I’ve decided I’m going to save money by not eating out at all and cooking at home instead,” says the person who loves their monthly pizza night more than anything, but feels bad spending money on something that makes them happy because it isn’t a necessity.

All of these examples of New Year’s resolutions can absolutely—in theory—be authentic, healthy goals…but, in all honesty, they usually aren’t. Instead, they feel a bit like self-imposed punishments for not being the “best version of you.”

Or, in other words, New Year’s resolutions have transformed into some sort of end-of-year recrimination for one’s own perceived imperfections rather than anything that aims to add some happiness day-to-day.

What if, instead of finding ways to change this year, the citizens of Marin instead chose to focus on what kind of positive change they could create within the community?

What if, instead of restricting calories, dieting and buying an expensive gym membership to lose those 15 pounds of fat, that person invested all of that time and energy into an active volunteer group?

What if, instead of working long, unpaid hours of overtime for a promotion that is not guaranteed, someone chose to devote that time toward starting a union or even developing their own business from a passion they’d long forgotten?

What if, instead of opting out of that once-a-month pepperoni-covered takeout treat that brings such delicious, cheesy delight into their life, that person perhaps planned to save up in some other small, seemingly insignificant way and resolved to throw an entire pizza party every other month to celebrate their favorite food?

These may be silly examples, but the point is this—why resolve to make the coming year worse when one can resolve to make it better for everyone, including oneself, instead?

Marin County and all of its citizens, cities and the incredible landscapes in between are practically overflowing with some of the most amazing opportunities life could provide. And, when it comes down to it, resolutions are better when they aren’t framed as a punishment for imperfection—or, as some would call it, the human condition.

Instead of seeking to fix something that isn’t broken this new year, perhaps seek instead to find some incredible new experiences, people and places and let the memories made be the kind that can be remembered and warm one’s heart in not only the coming year, but the coming decade, half-century and entire life after that as well. Resolve to have more picnics in Point Reyes or to spend more time being a tourist in and around the county or to do whatever other small things spark some joy.

So, consider the remaining, already-dwindling days left in 2023 and don’t allow them to slip away without really considering: How are 365 days really best spent?

Marty O’Reilly and More

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Sonoma

Countdown to ’24

Marty O’Reilly brings his special sauce of steamy, down home blues and soul to New Year’s Eve at the Sebastiani Theatre, Sonoma. Currently in the studio recording his first solo album to be released in the coming new year, O’Reilly and openers Little Worth will be sharing that triumphant feeling with everyone else. Says O’Reilly of performing for an audience, “They come with you on the journey if your heart’s in the right place.” Marty O’Reilly with special guests Little Worth. Doors at 8:30pm, Little Worth 9:30-10:30pm, Marty O’Reilly 11pm-12:20am. Sunday, Dec. 31. Sebastiani Theatre is located at 476 1st St. East, Sonoma. $50 ticket includes a midnight Champagne toast. Winery Sixteen 600’s wines available for purchase.

 
Novato

Bounce Right In

In the We Do It Because We Can category, bouncy balls will be poured 40 feet down onto the street to celebrate New Year’s through physics in action. Scientifically valuable? Maybe. Technically feasible? Definitely! Kids of all ages are invited to Downtown Novato to see what happens when “22,000 small bouncy balls” pour onto the street from the raised ladder of a truck. Kids get a “hard hat” courtesy of Rempe Construction. The bouncy balls are for the kids—and kids at heart— to keep if they can catch them! The organizers say that rain is no problem: “No worries! Your umbrella will protect you from the bouncy balls raining from above!” Bouncy Ball New Year, Novato. 12pm, Dec. 31. Trek Winery, 1026 Machin Ave., Novato. Free.

 
Santa Rosa

Resort Cavort

One can’t do New Year’s Eve without doing New Year’s Eve. Such a night is the White Lotus New Year’s Eve at Vintage Space. Taking on the look of the television show White Lotus Season 2, the evening will have a Sicilian style with a hint of decadence. Semi-formal vacation attire is the order of the night, giving that Italian disco feel to the DJs Miguel Migs and Julius Papp for deep-house rooted soulful dance music that defies categories. 8pm-2am, Sunday, Dec. 31. Vintage Space at Flamingo Resort, 2777 4th St., Santa Rosa. Tickets start at $50.

Napa

Chew Toy

Nothing says bring in the new like bringing out a ’90s rock band. Yet Dogstar has a staying power that is as mysterious as it is tall and handsome. And sometimes that’s all one needs for one good night, a memory of a crush with ’90s guitar music, some drinks and wild dancing with friends, both real and imagined. And yes, Keaunu Reeves will be there. Doors: 8 pm, show: 10pm, Dec. 31. Uptown Theatre, 1350 Third St., Napa. Limited VIP experiences are available at dogstarofficial.com. Dogstar is composed of guitarist/vocalist Bret Domrose, drummer Rob Mailhouse and bassist Keanu Reeves.

Free Will Astrology: Week of December 27

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): Among couples who share their finances, 39% lie to their partners about money. If you have been among that 39%, please don’t be in 2024. In fact, I hope you will be as candid as possible about most matters with every key ally in your life. It will be a time when the more honest and forthcoming you are, the more resources you will have at your disposal. Your commitment to telling the truth as kindly but completely as possible will earn you interesting rewards.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): According to tradition in ancient Israel, a Jubilee year happened every half-century. It was a “trumpet blast of liberty,” in the words of the Old Testament book Leviticus. During this grace period, enslaved people were supposed to be freed. Debts were forgiven, taxes canceled and prisoners released. People were encouraged to work less and engage in more revelry. I boldly proclaim that 2024 should be a Jubilee Year for you Bulls. To launch the fun, make a list of the alleviations and emancipations you will claim in the months ahead.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): “Make peace with their devils, and you will do the same with yours.” The magazine Dark’s Art Parlor provides us with this essential wisdom about how to conduct vibrant relationships. I invite you to make liberal use of it in 2024. Why? Because I suspect you will come to deeply appreciate how all your worthwhile bonds inevitably require you to engage with each other’s wounds, shadows and unripeness. To say it another way, healthy alliances require you to deal respectfully and compassionately with each other’s darkness. The disagreements and misunderstandings the two of you face are not flaws that discolor perfect intimacy. They are often rich opportunities to enrich togetherness.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Cancerian author Franz Kafka wrote over 500 letters to his love interest, Felice Bauer. Her outpouring of affection wasn’t as voluminous, but was still very warm. At one point, Kafka wryly communicated to her, “Please suggest a remedy to stop me trembling with joy like a lunatic when I receive and read your letters.” He added, “You have given me a gift such as I never even dreamt of finding in this life.” I will be outrageous here and predict that 2024 will bring you, too, a gift such as you never dreamt of finding in this life. It may or may not involve romantic love, but it will feel like an ultimate blessing.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Renowned inventor Nikola Tesla (1856–1943) felt an extraordinary closeness with sparrows, finches, pigeons and other wild birds. He loved feeding them, conversing with them and inviting them into his home through open windows. He even fell in love with a special pigeon he called White Dove. He said, “I loved her as a man loves a woman, and she loved me. As long as I had her, there was a purpose to my life.” I bring this to your attention because I suspect 2024 will be an excellent time to upgrade your relationship with birds, Leo. Your power to employ and enjoy the metaphorical power of flight will be at a maximum.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): “All the world’s a stage,” wrote Shakespeare. He was comparing life to a theatrical drama, suggesting we are all performers attached to playing roles. In response, a band called the Kingpins released the song “All the World’s a Cage.” The lyrics include these lines: “You promised that the world was mine / You chained me to the borderline / Now I’m just sitting here doing time / All the world’s a cage.” These thoughts are the prelude to my advice for you. I believe that in 2024, you are poised to live your life in a world that is neither like a stage nor a cage. You will have unusually ample freedom from expectations, artificial constraints and the inertia of the past. It will be an excellent time to break free from outdated self-images and your habitual persona.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): At age 10, an American girl named Becky Schroeder launched her career as an inventor. Two years later, she got her first of many patents for a product that enables people to read and write in the dark. I propose we make her one of your role models for 2024. No matter how old you are, I suspect you will be doing precocious things. You will understand life like a person at least 10 years older than you. You will master abilities that a casual observer might think you learned improbably fast. You may even have seemingly supernatural conversations with the Future You.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Here are excellent questions for you to meditate on throughout 2024. 1. Who and what do you love? Who and what makes you spill over with adoration, caring and longing? 2. How often do you feel deep waves of love? Would you like to feel more of them? If so, how could you? 3. What are the most practical and beautiful ways you express love for whom and what you love? Would you like to enhance the ways you express love, and if so, how? 4. Is there anything you can or should do to intensify your love for yourself?

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Like the rest of the planet, Scotland used to be a wild land. It had vast swaths of virgin forests and undomesticated animals. Then humans came. They cut the trees, dug up charcoal and brought agriculture. Many native species died, and most forests disappeared. In recent years, though, a rewilding movement has arisen. Now Scotland is on the way to restoring the ancient health of the land. Native flora and fauna are returning. In accordance with astrological omens, I propose that you launch your own personal rewilding project in 2024. What would that look like? How might you accomplish it?

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Capricorn-born Lebron James is one of the greatest players in basketball history. Even more interesting from my perspective is that he is an exuberant activist and philanthropist. His list of magnificent contributions is too long to detail here. Here are a few examples: his bountiful support for charities like After-School All-Stars, Boys & Girls Clubs of America, the Children’s Defense Fund and his own Family Foundation. I suggest you make Lebron one of your role models in 2024. It will be a time when you can have more potent and far-reaching effects than ever before through the power of your compassion, generosity and beneficence.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): I propose we make the shark your soul creature in 2024. Not because some shark species are apex predators at the top of the food chain. Rather, I propose you embrace the shark as an inspirational role model because it is a stalwart, steadfast champion with spectacular endurance. Its lineage goes back 400 million years. Sharks were on Earth before there were dinosaurs, mammals and grass. Saturn’s rings didn’t exist yet when the first sharks swam in the oceans. Here are the adjectives I expect you to specialize in during the coming months: resolute, staunch, indomitable, sturdy, resilient.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): In the 19th century, many scientists believed in the bogus theory of eugenics, which proposed that we could upgrade the genetic quality of the human race through selective breeding. Here’s a further example of experts’ ignorance: Until the 1800s, most scientists dismissed the notion that stones fell from the sky, even though meteorites had been seen by countless people since ancient times. Scientists also rejected the idea that large reptiles once roamed the Earth, at least until the 19th century, when it became clear that dinosaurs had existed and had become extinct. The moral of the story is that even the smartest among us can be addicted to delusional beliefs and theories. I hope this inspires you to engage in a purge of your own outmoded dogmas in 2024. A beginner’s mind can be your superpower! Discover a slew of new ways to think and see.

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So Long, and thanks for All the Fish Wrap

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If you’re not careful, this job will turn you into a cigar-chomping J. Jonah Jameson-style cartoon parody of an editorial professional rather rapidly (except, in my case, with less gray—or, in fact—hair when it comes to my follicular particulars).

Every week is a total crap shoot since one never knows what news will break or who’s going to break your heart with unkind cuts, ruminations on the death of birdcage liner, and various and assorted palace intrigues.

That said, I’m probably composed of more NDAs than DNA at this point, so I’ll hush (as they’ll say in the ’30s, “Don’t trust anyone over 60,” says the man born in ’72). Cough, cough.

Suffice it to say, Roy Batty, the killer replicant in Blade Runner, had it right when he said, “I’ve seen things you people wouldn’t believe.” 

And that’s just in my inbox. 

Yet, I’ve also received kind words, encouragement and attaboys that have been a psychic salve throughout my tenure, especially this year. Oof.

Having finally learned some lessons this year (like, say, I dunno, the distinction between acrostics, anagrams and acronyms), the most germane has been that there is no skeleton key to the hearts and minds of readers—except, of course, the horoscope and trivia columns, which have rabid followings and inspire the most savage vitriol if unprinted.

Every year has its moments, but 2023 had many. 

Too many—and I’m exhausted, psychically, emotionally, spiritually and financially, as I suspect you might be too.  

Understandably, this might read as a downer column, but don’t let its mawkish (or mocking?) tone obscure that one thing that keeps me sane and perhaps you: the work itself. 

Or, as Graham Green once opined, “Writing is a form of therapy; sometimes I wonder how all those who do not write, compose or paint can manage to escape the madness, melancholia, the panic and fear which is inherent in a human situation.”

Remedy for the “human situation”? 

Far from it—let’s not forget Greene is also the guy who said, “People who like quotes love meaningless generalizations”—his words are a reminder that the words are always waiting, and when in doubt, “Writer, write thyself.” Cheers!

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