Upfront: #ENOUGH

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“If we’ve learned anything from the tragedy at Parkland,” said Congressman Jared Huffman, speaking on Sunday, March 18 at a standing-room-only Student Summit on School Safety and Gun Violence Prevention at Dominican University, “it’s that young voices are powerful voices. In the wake of the shootings at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School (Marjory Stoneman) in Parkland, the students who experienced it, and their supporters and friends, have been bravely standing up to speak out—in the face of some brutal opposition and bullying—and I have to say it’s been incredibly inspiring, proving that young people can be incredibly persuasive advocates for the things they care about.”

Just five days after the much-publicized, nationwide #ENOUGH National School Walkout on March 14—coming one month after the Parkland shootings and lasting a symbolic 17 minutes, one for every life lost at Marjory Stoneman on February 14—the summit drew more than 850 students and community members. An assemblage of 18 “student ambassadors” representing 15 high schools and colleges were on stage to represent their campuses. As was made clear by the signs carried by some audience members, and the organized move to register and pre-register arriving folks to vote, the summit was an unabashed call for sensible gun control, an issue made all the more vital for some of the participating students, given recent Marin County school shutdowns in the wake of threatening graffiti on some school campuses. Moderated by Huffman, the summit was initially going to include a Skype conversation with Emma Gonzalez, one of the more visible and outspoken of the Marjory Stoneman student survivors. Gonzalez’s schedule changed at the last minute, however.

“I understand she’s on a plane right now,” Huffman announced, adding, “I can’t imagine what it must be like for these students who are still grieving, trying to recover from surviving a terrible mass shooting just a few weeks ago, while also becoming national television figures and political advocates—and also trying to study for their AP Government exam.”

Filling in for Gonzalez, also via Skype, was Bradley Thornton, a 2015 graduate of Marjory Stoneman, who’s been working with the survivors at his alma mater, and has also emerged as an evident leader in the #ENOUGH movement.

In response to a question from Huffman about the online bullying that he, Gonzalez and several other student activists from Marjory Stoneman have been enduring, Thornton—currently a student at the University of Central Florida—replied that such negativity, much like the horrific shooting itself, has only made him and his fellow student activists more resolved.

“It does sometimes get to us,” Thornton admitted, “but our community and our friendship is what’s keeping us afloat. It allows us to mostly just laugh off the negativity, by sharing the negative emails and pointing out how ridiculous most of them are.”

Thornton went on to tell of Leslie Gibson, a conservative candidate for the Maine state House, who publically dismissed Gonzalez as “a skinhead lesbian,” and mocked another Marjory Stoneman survivor, David Hogg, as “a moron.” In response, Hogg took to the airwaves to invite challengers to run against Gibson. Within hours, two candidates—a Democrat and a Republican, both vocally opposed to Gibson’s remarks—had entered the race, and the popular Gibson, who’d been running unopposed, had withdrawn.

To a loud round of applause, Thornton, his face projected onto a screen above the stage, added, “People who are going to insult us, or say horribly inappropriate things to us, they now know that there will be consequences. You can disagree with us. That’s fine. But you need keep your conversation appropriate.”

Eighteen “student ambassadors” represented their schools at the Student Summit on School Safety and Gun Violence Prevention. Photo courtesy of Sarah Gardner.

Asked how much Thornton knew about gun laws in America and in Florida, the filmmaking and theater major said that he’s learned a great deal over the last four weeks. “The shooting has changed us all forever,” he said. “For one thing, those of us who are now organizing against gun violence, we’re all suddenly becoming experts on gun laws. It wasn’t our choice, but here we are. The biggest thing I’ve learned, the biggest surprise, is how little the politicians seem to care about these issues. Our voices are being ignored by a lot of politicians, who are afraid of standing up for what’s right. We don’t think that’s OK. And we’re only going to get louder.”

Thornton included a plug for the upcoming March for Our Lives event in Washington, D.C. on Saturday, March 24, and invited everyone present to join him, Gonzalez, Hogg and other student advocates from Parkland.

“There are currently over 800 other marches being planned all over the world,” he said. “March for Our Lives is now on every single continent. So if you think the government should take real action on gun control, we invite you to find a march, and come walk with us.”

Asked by one of the student summit participants if he thought the #ENOUGH movement was going to gain momentum, or eventually fade away as other similar movements have often done, Thornton said that he has no intention of stopping until real change is made.

“After the march in Washington, we are forming a non-profit organization,” he announced, “with the goal of empowering and inspiring our fellow students all over the country, to create organic and educated ways to ensure that sensible gun control becomes the number one issue in the upcoming midterm elections.”

Following Thornton’s remarks, the focus was turned back to the student representatives onstage, and a small cluster of adults representing the Marin chapter of Moms Demand Action, the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence and Beyond Differences. Jessica Gerber, of the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence—named for James Brady, a former press secretary to Ronald Reagan, who was wounded during an assassination attempt on Reagan in 1981—said, “Jim and Sarah Brady would be so proud of all of you young people. They too took tragedy and turned it into activism and change, and if they were alive today, they’d be marching right along with you.”

Huffman asked the audience what they thought of the idea to arm teachers.

“I’ve been approached by many of my teachers, expressing their own concerns and fears about being armed,” replied Evelyn Navarro, student government assembly president of Santa Rosa Junior College. “And I’ve been approached by students who are praying that their teachers will never be armed. And my question for you is, what are you going to do, as our congressman, to stop this from ever happening?”

Huffman’s reply included an educated guess as to how the Trump administration might attempt to enact such a policy, largely by offering cash incentives to states or counties that implemented such a plan.

“But the decision would have to come down to the local school district level, and probably to the individual school,” he said. “I will just tell you that everywhere I go, the answer is loud and clear, from students and parents and educators, that this is just a really dumb idea. I’m really not that concerned that we’re going to see armed teachers in the North Bay, or Mendocino and the North Coast. My bigger concern is that this is just an intentional distraction. That by throwing this out there, President Trump and the NRA are hoping we’ll get all distracted and excited about this crazy suggestion, and will waste this moment of momentum, and not take advantage of a few really sensible things we can easily do right now: Background checks, a ban on assault weapons, things like that.”

A question posed by an audience member asked if any of the students had seen their parents change their views on gun control in response to recent events, or in response to the advocacy of their children.

“I’m originally from Redding, California,” said Samantha Hunt, vice president of the Associated Students of Dominican University. “So I come from a very different kind of background than here in Marin. Both of my parents are strong defenders of the Second Amendment, and we’ve been having a lot of conversations about what’s going on, and the capacities of all of these firearms. And they do see the importance of common sense gun legislation, but that came after years and years of conversations where I ended up hearing myself saying, ‘We’re not trying to take away all of the guns, mom!’”

Asked by Huffman what ultimately caused her mother to shift her views, Hunt said that it had a lot to do with realizing that school shootings weren’t just happening to other people’s children.

“I’m her only child. I’m her baby,” Hunt said with a smile, “and I think my mom eventually understood that this was happening to children, children that parents just like her are sending every day into places they think, and trust and hope are safe.”

Alex Simard, of Marin Catholic High School, told of a long period when his family became ardent gun enthusiasts. “When I graduated from elementary school, my grandfather thought the best thing for a fifth grade boy was to have his very own shotgun,” Simard said. “So that was my graduation gift. And after that, my dad and I experienced this two- or three-year-long romance with guns. We talked about guns all the time. We had a white pickup truck and an NRA sticker. All of that. And then when Sandy Hook happened, we both woke up and realized, maybe we liked guns, but that didn’t mean we needed them. And what if someone stole some of our guns and did something terrible?”

Not long after, his family voluntarily gave up all of their guns.

Helen Rosen, of the Marin chapter of Moms Demand Action, said that the organization was founded five years ago by Shannon Watts, after the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. “Shannon was a mom, and she was horrified that so little was being done in this country in response to school shootings,” Rosen said. “She had a huge response, immediately, but I have to tell you, since the Parkland shooting last month, the response has been overwhelming. As of today, we have over 4.5 million supporters working for Moms Demand Action around the country. We are not for taking away all guns, but we are for sensible legislation to curb this epidemic of violence. Seven teenagers a day are shot and killed by guns. That’s a national health crisis, and something real must be done about that, and it must be done now.”

Adam Friedman, of Marin Academy, asked Huffman what could be said in response to those who genuinely fear that gun control will lead to the abolition of the Second Amendment, and the end of Americans’ right to own guns.

“It’s not going to be easy, but we have to find a way to debunk this paranoia that we want to take all of those guns away,” Huffman said. “California has a rigorous background check system. We have a number of sensible laws that exist, and guess what? People still are allowed to have guns. There are just some limits that prevent certain dangerous people from getting them. But if you can go to another state and get around our laws, then it doesn’t help. So what many of us are proposing is national implementation of the most sensible existing gun laws.”

Huffman asked if anyone knew the first words of the Second Amendment. The response from several students was a simultaneous recitation of the phrase, “A well-regulated militia.”

“‘Regulated,’” repeated Huffman. “The Founding Fathers were in favor of some sensible regulation. That’s all we want. Just what the Second Amendment already calls for.” He went on to describe what happens in Congress following every new school shooting. “There is a general statement that it would be inappropriate to discuss politics at such a time, someone from the state where the tragedy has occurred will make a short statement about thoughts and prayers, a moment of silence will be called for, the House solemnly bows its heads for about 20 seconds, the gavel will bang and we go back to business as usual.”

“We call B.S.!” shouted a voice from the audience, inspiring a huge round of applause from the student ambassadors.

“And that’s just what you are all doing, with this march that’s coming up, and with your advocacy,” Huffman responded. “You’re saying not any more. This has to stop. We’re not going to let this issue go away. That’s important. Your voices are important, and they need to be as loud as you can make them.”

Perhaps the most rousing moment came from Jake Cohen, of Tamalpais High School, who took the microphone to make a crowd-pleasing announcement. “I’m a freshman,” he said, “and as soon as I turn 18 I am running for office. It might be the City Council, or it might be something else, but it’s something I’m going to do, because my community needs to be represented. My Jewish community, my queer community and my youth community [need] to be represented. We’re tired of false promises coming from adults who claim to be our allies. We’re young, but we’re not stupid. We understand the issues.

“So, putting it plainly,” Cohen added, “the youth community is just going to have to register to vote, learn everything we can and then take over to make the changes the adults have been too cowardly to make themselves.”

A March for Our Lives event takes place on Saturday, March 24, 1pm, San Francisco Civic Center Plaza, 335 McAllister St., San Francisco; marchforourlives.com.

Feature: Dislike

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As with any toxic relationship, the possibility of a breakup sparks feelings of terror—and maybe a little bit of a relief. That’s the spot that Facebook has put the news business in. In January, the social media behemoth announced it would once again alter its News Feed algorithm to show users even more posts from their friends and family, and a lot fewer from media outlets.

The move isn’t all that surprising. Ever since the 2016 election, the Menlo Park-based company has been under siege for creating a habitat where fake news stories flourished. Their executives were dragged before Congress last year to testify about how they sold ads to Russians who wanted to influence the U.S. election, and so, in some ways, it’s simply easier to get out of the news business altogether.

But for the many news outlets that have come to rely on Facebook funneling readers to their sites, the impact of a separation sounds catastrophic.

In an open letter to Mark Zuckerberg, San Francisco Chronicle Editor-in-Chief Audrey Cooper decried the social media company’s sudden change of course on January 12. “We struggled along, trying to anticipate the seemingly capricious changes in your news-feed algorithm. We created new jobs in our newsrooms and tried to increase the number of people who signed up to follow our posts on Facebook. We were rewarded with increases in traffic to our websites, which we struggled to monetize.”

The strategy worked for a time, she says. “We were successful in getting people to ‘like’ our news, and you started to notice,” wrote Cooper. “Studies show more than half of Americans use Facebook to get news. That traffic matters because we monetize it—it pays the reporters who hold the powerful accountable.”

But just as newspapers learned to master Facebook’s black box, so, too, did more nefarious operations, Cooper noted. Consumers, meanwhile, have grimaced as their favorite media outlets have stooped to sensational headlines to lure Facebook’s web traffic. They’ve become disillusioned by the flood of hoaxes and conspiracy theories that have run rampant on the site.

Now, sites that relied on Facebook’s algorithm have watched the floor drop out from under them when the algorithm changed—all while Facebook has gobbled up chunks of the print advertising revenue that had always sustained news operations.

It’s all landed media outlets in a hell of a quandary—it sure seems like Facebook is killing journalism. But can journalism survive without it?

It’s perhaps the perfect summation of the internet age: A website that started because a college kid wanted to rank which coeds were hotter became a global Goliath powerful enough to influence the fate of the news industry itself.

When Facebook launched its News Feed in 2006, it ironically didn’t have anything to do with news. This was the site that still posted a little broken-heart icon when you changed your status from “In a Relationship” to “Single.”

The News Feed was intended to be a list of personalized updates from your friends. But in 2009, Facebook introduced its iconic “like” button. Soon, instead of showing posts in chronological order, the News Feed began showing you the popular posts first.

And that made all the difference. Well-liked posts soared. Unpopular posts simply went unseen. Journalists were given a new directive: If you wanted readers to see your stories, you had to play by the algorithm’s rules. Faceless mystery formulas had replaced the stodgy newspaper editor as the gatekeeper of information.

With digital ad rates tied to web traffic, the incentives in the modern media landscape could be especially perverse: Write short, write a lot; pluck heartstrings or stoke fury.

Mathew Ingram, who covers digital media for Columbia Journalism Review, says such tactics might increase traffic for a while. But readers hate it. Sleazy tabloid shortcuts give you a sleazy tabloid reputation. “Short-term you can make a certain amount of money,” Ingram says. “Long-term you’re basically setting fire to your brand.”

The News Feed, Zuckerberg announced in January, had skewed too far in the direction of social video posts from national media pages and too far away from personal posts from friends and family. They were getting back to their roots.

Even before the announcement, news sites had seen their articles get fewer and fewer hits from Facebook. In subsequent announcements, Facebook gave nervous local news outlets some better news: They’d rank local community news outlets higher in the feed than national ones. They were also launching an experiment for a new section called “Today In,” focusing on local news and announcements, beta-testing the concept in certain cities. But in early tests, the site seemed to have trouble determining what’s local. The San Francisco Chronicle and other Bay Area news outlets say they’re taking a “wait-and-see” approach to the latest algorithm, analyzing how the impact shakes out before making changes. They’ve learned to not get excited.

There was a time Facebook was positively smug about its impact on the world. After all, it had seen its platform fan the flames of popular uprisings during the Arab Spring in countries like Tunisia, Iran and Egypt.

“By giving people the power to share, we are starting to see people make their voices heard on a different scale from what has historically been possible,” Zuckerberg bragged in a 2012 letter to investors under the header, “We hope to change how people relate to their governments and social institutions.”

And Facebook certainly has—though not the way it intended. A 2016 BuzzFeed investigation found that “fake news” stories on Facebook, hoaxes or hyper-partisan falsehoods, actually garnered more views than stories published in trusted outlets like the New York Times.

That, experts speculated, is another reason why Facebook, despite its massive profits, might be pulling back from its focus on news.

“As unprecedented numbers of people channel their political energy through this medium, it’s being used in unforeseen ways with societal repercussions that were never anticipated,” writes Samidh Chakrabarti, Facebook’s product manager for civic engagement, in a recent blog post.

By last May, a Harvard-Harris Poll found that almost two-thirds of voters believed that mainstream news outlets were full of fake news stories.

The danger of fake news, after all, isn’t just that we’re tricked by bogus claims. It’s that we’re pummeled by so many different contradictory stories, with so many different angles, that the task of trying to sort truth from fiction becomes exhausting.

Facebook has tried to address the fake news problem—hiring fact-checkers to examine stories, slapping “disputed” tags on suspect claims, putting counterpoints in related article boxes—but with mixed results. The latest headache for the company arrived last week when it was revealed that the Trump campaign had used Cambridge Analytica to mine personal data of some 50 million Facebook users.  

Facebook’s new algorithm threatens to make the fake news problem even worse. To determine the quality of news sites, Facebook is rolling out a two-question survey about whether users recognized certain media outlets, and whether they found them trustworthy. The problem is that a lot of Facebook users, like Trump, consider the Washington Post and the New York Times to be “fake news.”

The other problem? There are a lot fewer trustworthy news sources out there. And Facebook bears some of the blame for that, too, the Chronicle’s Cooper says.

“I’ve built my career on exposing hypocrisy and wrongdoing and expecting more of those with power, which is why I have repeatedly said Facebook has aggressively abdicated its responsibility to its users and our democracy,” she says. “I expect a lot more from them, as we all should.”

A version of this article first appeared in the Inlander. Jennifer Wadsworth contributed to this report.

This Week in the Pacific Sun

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This week in the Pacific Sun, our cover story, ‘Of Creeks and Geeks,’ takes a look at the collapse of California’s ocean economy. On top of that, we’ve got a roundup of spring events for foodies, a piece on the Geography of Hope conference coming to West Marin, a review of ‘Office Hour,’ now onstage at the Berkeley Repertory Theatre and our 2018 Kids’ Camps Guide—a handy directory of local summer camps. All that and more on stands and online today!

Hero & Zero: Glue Traps

Hero & Zero: WildCare in San Rafael is sending out an SOS about the glue traps designed to catch rodents. Never use this Zero product. Not inside your home and definitely not outdoors. It’s advertised as a safe and non-toxic method to capture mice and rats, but the manufacturer doesn’t tell you what happens after an animal gets stuck on the adhesive paper. The eventual death caused by starvation, dehydration and suffocation takes days, and in the meantime, the poor creature will even chew off its limbs trying to escape. The traps don’t just snare rodents. Each year, WildCare’s wildlife hospital treats birds, chipmunks and other animals caught in the sticky stuff. Enough. WildCare has launched a letter-writing campaign to remove the merciless traps from store shelves throughout Marin County. Be a hero and help stop the suffering. Contact local hardware, garden and drug stores and request that they discontinue carrying the product. To download a sample letter to deliver to your neighborhood retailers, visit discoverwildcare.org and search for “glue traps.” While you’re on the site, learn about the many humane methods of rodent control.

Free Will Astrology

ARIES (March 21-April 19): The British science fiction TV show Dr. Who has appeared on BBC in 40 of the last 54 years. Over that span, the titular character has been played by 13 different actors. From 2005 until 2010, Aries actor David Tennant was the magic, immortal, time-traveling Dr. Who. His ascendance to the role fulfilled a hopeful prophecy he had made about himself when he was 13 years old. Now is an excellent time for you, too, to predict a glorious, satisfying or successful occurrence in your own future. Think big and beautiful!

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): New York City is the most densely populated city in North America. Its land is among the most expensive on Earth; one estimate says that the average price per acre is $16 million. Yet there are two uninhabited islands less than a mile offshore in the East River: North Brother Island and South Brother Island. Their combined 16 acres are theoretically worth $256 million. But no one goes there or enjoys it; it’s not even parkland. I bring this to your attention, Taurus, because I suspect that it’s an apt metaphor for a certain situation in your life: A potentially rich resource or influence that you’re not using. Now is a good time to update your relationship with it.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): The iconic 1942 movie Casablanca won three Academy Awards and has often appeared on critics’ lists of the greatest films ever made. That’s amazing considering the fact that the production was so hectic. When shooting started, the script was incomplete. The writing team frequently presented the finished version of each new scene on the day it was to be filmed. Neither the director nor the actors knew how the plot would resolve until the end of the process. I bring this to your attention, Gemini, because it reminds me of a project you have been working on. I suggest that you start improvising less and planning more. How do you want this phase of your life to climax?

CANCER (June 21-July 22): If all goes well in the coming weeks, you will hone your wisdom about how, when and why to give your abundant gifts to deserving recipients—as well as how, when and why to not give your abundant gifts to deserving recipients. If my hopes come to pass, you will refine your ability to share your tender depths with worthy allies—and you will refine your understanding of when to not share your tender depths with worthy allies. Finally, Cancerian, if you are as smart as I think you are, you will have a sixth sense about how to receive as many blessings as you disseminate.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): How adept are you at playing along the boundaries between the dark and the light, between confounding dreams and liberated joy, between, “Is it real?” and “Do I need it?”? You now have an excellent opportunity to find out more about your capacity to thrive on delightful complexity. But I should warn you. The temptation to prematurely simplify things might be hard to resist. There may be cautious pressure coming from a timid voice in your head that’s not fierce enough to want you to grow into your best and biggest self. But here’s what I predict: You will bravely explore the possibilities for self-transformation that are available outside the predictable niches.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Cultivating a robust sense of humor makes you more attractive to people you want to be attractive to. An inclination to be fun-loving is another endearing quality that’s worthy of being part of your intimate repertoire. There’s a third virtue related to these two: Playfulness. Many humans of all genders are drawn to those who display joking, lighthearted behavior. I hope that you will make maximum use of these qualities during the coming weeks, Virgo. You have a cosmic mandate to be as alluring and inviting as you dare.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): I suggest that you gaze at exquisitely wrought Japanese woodcuts, listen to jazz trumpeter Miles Davis collaborating with saxophonist John Coltrane and inhale the aroma of the earth as you stroll through groves of very old trees. Catch my drift, Libra? Surround yourself with soulful beauty—or else! Or else what? Or else I’ll be sad. Or else you might be susceptible to buying into the demoralizing thoughts that people around you are propagating. Or else you may become blind to the subtle miracles that are unfolding, and fail to love them well enough to coax them into their fullest ripening. Now get out there and hunt for soulful beauty that awakens your deepest reverence for life. Feeling awe is a necessity for you right now, not a luxury.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): In the Sikh religion, devotees are urged to attack weakness and sin with five “spiritual weapons”: Contentment, charity, kindness, positive energy and humility. Even if you’re not a Sikh, I think you’ll be wise to employ this strategy in the next two weeks. Why? Because your instinctual nature will be overflowing with martial force, and you’ll have to work hard to channel it constructively rather than destructively. The best way to do that is to be a vehement perpetrator of benevolence and healing.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): In 1970, a biologist was hiking through a Brazilian forest when a small monkey landed on his head, having jumped from a tree branch. Adelmar Coimbra-Filho was ecstatic. He realized that his visitor was a member of the species known as the golden-rumped lion tamarin, which had been regarded as extinct for 65 years. His lucky accident led to a renewed search for the elusive creatures, and soon more were discovered. I foresee a metaphorically comparable experience coming your way, Sagittarius. A resource, influence or marvel that you assumed was gone will reappear. How will you respond? With alacrity, I hope!

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): The Velcro fastener is a handy invention that came into the world thanks to a Swiss engineer named George de Mestral. While wandering around the Alps with his dog, he got curious about the bristly seeds of the burdock plants that adhered to his pants and his dog. After examining them under a microscope, he got the idea to create a clothing fastener that imitated their sticking mechanism. In accordance with the astrological omens, Capricorn, I invite you to be alert for comparable breakthroughs. Be receptive to help that comes in unexpected ways. Study your environment for potentially useful clues and tips. Turn the whole world into your classroom and laboratory. It’s impossible to predict where and when you may receive a solution to a long-running dilemma!

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): On May 29, 1953, Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay climbed to the top of Mount Everest. They were celebrated as intrepid heroes. But they couldn’t have done it without massive support. Their expedition was powered by 20 Sherpa guides, 13 other mountaineers and 362 porters who lugged 10,000 pounds of baggage. I bring this to your attention, Aquarius, in the hope that it will inspire you. The coming weeks will be an excellent time to gather more of the human resources and raw materials that you will need for your rousing expedition later this year.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Although her work is among the best Russian literature of the 20th century, poet Marina Tsvetaeva lived in poverty. When fellow poet Rainer Maria Rilke asked her to describe the kingdom of heaven, she said, “Never again to sweep floors.” I can relate. To earn a living in my early adulthood, I washed tens of thousands of dishes in restaurant kitchens. Now that I’m grown up, one of my great joys is to avoid washing dishes. I invite you to think along these lines, Pisces. What seemingly minor improvements in your life are actually huge triumphs that evoke profound satisfaction? Take inventory of small pleasures that are really quite miraculous.

Homework: Describe what you’d be like if you were the opposite of yourself. Write at Freewillastrology.com.

Advice Goddess

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Q: I have a history of terrible relationships that end in awful heartbreak. The advice I keep getting is to date down—get together with a man who is less attractive than I am and who likes me a little more than I like him. I was kind of into the idea of equality on all levels, but maybe I’m wrong.—Rethinking Woman

A: After you’ve had your heart broken, it’s tempting to opt for romantic safety measures. For example, a garden gnome could be an ideal partner—few women will fight you for your 18-inch “Man of Resin,” and his stubby little legs are molded together, making it impossible for him to run away.

There’s a name for this “dating down” thing that you’re contemplating: “The principle of least interest.” This is sociologist Willard Waller’s term—from his observations of dating dynamics between college students—describing how whichever partner is the least emotionally attached is in a position to “exploit” the other.

Now, you aren’t looking to clean out a guy’s bank account or make him scrub the baseboards with Barbie’s toothbrush. Regardless, you’re likely to have more power in any relationship—and be less likely to be the exploitee—if your response to a guy’s, “I love you SO much!” involves polite gratitude or pointing skyward: “Look! A UFO!” The problem is, how do you engineer this sort of situation? Only “swiping right” on men you have the lukewarmies for? Only accepting dates from men you don’t entirely respect? Of course, even an “I’m just not that into you” strategy like this isn’t foolproof, because what anthropologists call “mate value” can shift—like when the mouth-breathing nerdy loser becomes the mouth-breathing but unexpectedly sexy startup multigazillionaire.

Tempting as it is to look for hacks to avoid heartbreak, it’s probably more helpful to look at whether there was anything you could’ve—and should’ve—done differently in your past relationships.

Beyond any willful blindness on your part, the reality is, relationships sometimes end in heartbreak. It’s just the price of getting together with a man you love and lust after—as opposed to one you approached with, “I’ve always pitied you and found you borderline sexually repellant. Whaddya say we get a beer?”

Q: There’s a mutual attraction between this guy in my doctoral program and me, and we have great conversations. I’d date him, but he’s in a long-distance relationship. Recently, he started giving driving lessons. I need to learn to drive a stick shift, so I signed up. This has morphed into our spending time together on weekends, having lunch, etc. My friends say this is a bad idea. But I guess I’m just following my heart. Is that so wrong to do?—Crushing

A: “Follow your heart!” is like that “Forget about money; do what you love!” professional advice. And go right ahead with that career in lentil sculpture—assuming that you’re looking forward to spending your golden years in a very nice retirement tent.

As for all of this time the guy is spending with you, consider that we seem to have evolved to have the romantic version of a spare tire in the trunk—a “backup mate” (to the partner we’re with). Evolutionary psychologists David Buss and Joshua Duntley explain that “mates might cheat, defect” (run off with another), “leave or die. They might suddenly drop in mate value.” Their research finds that both men and women seem to maintain backup mates—three on average—and “try to keep their backup mates out of other relationships” (like by giving them false hope during automotive lurchings around parking lots).

Social psychologist Robert Cialdini, reflecting on what he calls “the scarcity principle,” points out that what we value is what seems out of reach: “Study after study shows that items and opportunities are seen to be more valuable as they become less available.”

In other words, until a man is girlfriend-free, it’s in your best interest to be about as accessible to him as the upholstery of my late Grandma Pauline’s couch was to the rumps of most of humanity. There were people she would remove the plastic covering for—visiting movie stars and members of the British royal family (à la “I’m bored with St. Barts. How about January in suburban Detroit?”).

Film: Wrinkles

Four years ago, Dr. Alex Murry (Chris Pine) vanished in a bizarre physics accident—as the mighty blue Tick noted, “science is not an exact science.” Heroine of A Wrinkle in Time Meg (Storm Reid) is consoled in her fatherlessness by her indifferently drawn mother (Gugu Mbatha-Raw) and her brilliant little brother Charles Wallace (Deric McCabe).

Director Ava DuVernay shoots the early scenes in L.A.’s West Adams, a picturesque old neighborhood architecturally similar to Highland Park. The movie gets on its feet when the supernatural emerges: First, a home invasion by Mrs. Whatsit (Reese Witherspoon) to announce that news of Meg’s plight has been received by her space sisters. She is joined by the quilt-covered Mrs. Who (Mindy Kaling)—sadly, no relation to The Doctor. And then comes the arrival of the large-and-in-charge Mrs. Which (Oprah Winfrey). The three teach Meg how to “tesser”—fold space in search for her father. Dad is easily found, considering the size of the universe.

Wrinkle’s author Madeleine L’Engle was a devout Episcopalian, but her book is more Manichean. It was the house style of the Cold War, considering a battle of forces of light and darkness. The spiritual side was up front, in its quote of John 1:5 in praise of the power of light. This has been removed to make the movie non-denominational. Inclusivity is never wrong, but what’s replaced the religiousness is a rat’s nest of slogans and exhortations to positive thinking.

This movie is going to hit a lot of aging children hard. Wrinkle was the first nerd-book in many ways. Meg was the awkward heroine to many bright rejects, and Reid doesn’t let the character down. But the trio of stars bulldoze the picture, and DuVernay can’t coordinate this bunch who barely seem to be in the same movie—there’s no serious affection or tension between the women. They pose and smile.

Bad movies happen to good people. And reactions to the errant awfulness of A Wrinkle in Time may not represent the alt-right’s slander or white backlash from Black Panther’s wonderful world of color. Ultimately, the multi-colored style of this movie will triumph. This film’s failure won’t even be a wrinkle in the progress to come.

Theater: Timely Story

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In case you haven’t noticed, we are being bombarded daily with increasingly urgent warnings that “civilization” as we know it—meaning the nation/state and all of the cultural, political and economic achievements the term embodies—is nearing an existential crisis. The remedies remain frustratingly unknown.

Reduced to a minimalist level, that’s the problem audiences face in Office Hour, Julia Cho’s gripping probe into the gun violence currently disturbing America’s schools and colleges. The play, a co-production between Berkeley Repertory Theatre (BRT) and New Haven, Connecticut’s Long Wharf Theatre, is on BRT’s stage through Sunday, March 25.

On an unidentified college campus, three teachers of creative writing—David (Jeremy Kahn), Genevieve (Kerry Warren) and Gina (Jackie Chung)—gather between classes in the latter’s stark office-turned-meeting room (scenic design by Matt Saunders). The topic up for discussion is what to do about a student named Dennis (Daniel Chung; no surnames are supplied for any of the characters), who has been dressing and acting strangely, while submitting writing assignments filled with violence and graphic sex, which make his fellow students uncomfortable when read aloud. Gina has been forced to consider giving him a failing grade.

David and Genevieve are tenured faculty members who have been through the classroom cultural wars over a long period and are hardened by the experience. Also, they are both white, while younger Gina is, like her student Dennis, of Asian descent. As an adjunct lecturer with no job security, she is low on the academic totem pole, so naturally the task of dealing with Dennis is placed squarely on her shoulders.

Although it has a disturbingly pedantic ring that clashes with ensuing events, Cho’s play turns on the dynamics revealed in this introductory scene. David points out that Dennis fits the profile of a “classic shooter.” He is an egocentric loner who exults in a delusional conviction that he is superior to his colleagues and instructors. He is obsessed by violence and sex. What’s more, he’s dangerous. With no record of mental illness or criminal activity, he could easily buy an assault rifle at any sporting goods store.

David’s recommendation, generally supported by Genevieve: Get rid of the guy! Flunk him out NOW, before it’s too late! Her colleagues’ brusque stereotyping disturbs Gina. Despite the warning signs, she detects a spark of creativity in some of Dennis’ work, and senses that she might be able to break through his self-destructive behaviors. The bulk of the roughly 85-minute, intermission-less drama is devoted to exploring the validity of these competing positions.

In his first meeting with Gina, Dennis, dressed all in black, his face obscured by a hoodie, dark glasses and a baseball cap, is a menacing figure—especially since his carefully protected backpack may contain a weapon. Stubbornly unresponsive to Gina’s suggestion that he sit down and join her in discussing his academic problems, he threatens her with violence when she attempts to search the backpack. Gradually, however, the two recognize similarities in their lives, barriers begin to crumble and we are left with imagined alternative conclusions about how the relationship might ultimately turn out.

This ending begs the question of how to prevent school violence. With strict defensive measures that recognize potential dangers early on and deal decisively with them? By using “tough love” to redirect potential offenders? By using mental-health techniques to work through the psychological barriers? Putting the ball in the audience’s court has the virtue of recognizing that we don’t have any definitive answers, yet have to keep trying.

Office Hour is an important and timely play by a promising young writer. The production, anchored by director Lisa Peterson and featuring a pair of accomplished actors in the leading roles, is solid throughout. Not everything is tied up neatly, but isn’t that the way life is?

NOW PLAYING: Office Hour runs through March 25 at the Berkeley Repertory Theatre, 2025 Addison St., Berkeley; 510/647-2949; berkeleyrep.org.

Arts: Resilient Hope

“Harriet Tubman was a wilderness leader,” Rue Mapp, the founder of Outdoor Afro, explained. “She traversed the wilds without a GPS.”

Tubman, an abolitionist and a spy for the Union Army, is a role model for Mapp, one of the headliners at this year’s Geography of Hope (GOH) Conference, March 17-18 in Point Reyes Station. The theme is “Finding Resilience in Nature in Perilous Times.”

If that sounds familiar, it should. North Bay survivors of last fall’s fires have been talking about nature and resilience for months. Still, the conference promises to deliver new insights and strategies.

In 2016, just as the Black Lives Matter movement spread across the country, Mapp put her fledgling organization on the map when she launched a series of outdoor events called “Healing Hikes” that resonated widely.

“The hikes came along in tandem with Black Lives Matter,” Mapp told me. “Synchronicity was at work.” She added, “We need to lay our burdens down by the riverside. Streets are a hard landscape to find release from trauma.”

The hikes have swelled the ranks of Outdoor Afro, which started as Mapp’s own personal blog. Now, the nonprofit has members in nearly 30 states and more than 60 leaders who guide inner-city residents through forests and meadows where they breathe clean air, identify medicinal plants and appreciate natural beauty. In spite of the group’s name, Mapp said, all races are welcome.

Mapp will be joined at GOH by Peter Forbes, the founder of the Center for Whole Communities, and by Caleen Sisk, the Tribal Chief of the Winnemem Wintu Tribe based in Northern California. Like Sisk and Forbes, Mapp aims to strengthen communities and make up for lost time.

A rare opportunity slipped through the cracks of history in 1964, Mapp argued, when the wilderness cause and the civil rights cause might have been linked but weren’t. That year witnessed the passage of the Wilderness Act and the Civil Rights Act, both of which President Johnson signed into law. In the half-decade that followed, African-Americans moved toward “black is beautiful” and black liberation, while whites moved toward Earth Day.

“Unfortunately, we now have two siloed movements,” Mapp told me. “One is for people and the other is for land.”

At the GOH conference, Mapp and fellow presenters will suggest ways to fuse them. The event is made to order for local environmentalists, community activists and citizens who crave a brave new vision of the world.

Including vocal improvisation led by David Worm, a founding member of Bobby McFerrin’s Voicestra, the conference wraps up with an outdoor restoration project with Peter Wohlleben, author of The Hidden Life of Trees.

Geography of Hope Conference,  March 17-18, Point Reyes Station; gohconference.org.

Kids’ Camps Guide 2018

It’s staying light out longer these days, which means that summer is just around the corner, and the kids of Marin will soon be skipping off to camp. Whether your child is an aspiring artist, actor, scientist, sports star or outdoor adventure guide, we’ve got you covered with our handy directory of local camps. So put the kettle on, snuggle up with your loved ones and dream about all of the fun and exciting things that await.

Academy DeTurk

Performing Arts Workshops;

415/456-4297

Academy-deturk.com

Activity Hero

Listings of camps all over Marin County; 800/437-6125

activityhero.com

Aikido Kids of Tamalpais

Corte Madera; 415/264-0157

aiki-kids.com

AndrewsCamps

Corte Madera; 415/891-3185

andrewscamps.com

Audubon Adventure Summer Camp

Tiburon; 415/388-2524

richardsonbay.audubon.org

Avid4Adventure Summer Camps

Mill Valley: 800/977-9873

Avid4.com

Azzi Basketball Camp

Mill Valley; 415/426-9706

azzicamp.com

BandWorks Summer Camp

San Rafael; 510/843.2263

bandworks.com

Bay Area Discovery Museum Summer Camps

Sausalito; 415/339-3927

bayareadiscoverymuseum.org

Bay Club Summer Camps

Kentfield; 415/461-5431

Novato; 415/209-6090

bayclubcamps.com

Belvedere Tennis Club Summer Camp

Tiburon 415/435-4792

belvederetennisclub.com

Bike Adventures for Kids

San Anselmo; 415/279-4469

bikeadventuresmarin.com

Cal-Star Gymnastics

Novato; 415/382-7827

calstar.info

Call of the Sea Voyage Seaward Summer Program

Aboard the Schooner Seaward

Sausalito; 415/331-3214

callofthesea.org

Camp Coyote at Novato

Marin Museum of the American Indian

Novato; 415/897-4064

Camp Doodles

Mill Valley; 415/388-4386

campdoodles.com

Camp Edmo

Corte Madera; 415/282-6673

campedmo.org

Camp Fairfax

Fairfax; 415/458-2340

fairfaxrec.com

Camp Galileo

Kentfield, Mill Valley; 800/854-3684

galileo-camps.com

Camp Kehillah at the Osher Marin JCC

San Rafael; 415/444-8000

marinjcc.org/camp

Caren Horstmeyer Girls Basketball Camp

Larkspur; 415/794-4311

Horstmeyerhoops.com

Challenger Sports British Soccer Summer Camps

Novato and San Rafael; 800/878-2167, ext 280

challengersports.com

Children’s Cottage Cooperative Summer Camps

Larkspur; 415/461-0822

cccmarin.com

College of Marin Volleyball Camp

Kentfield;

collegeofmarinvolleyballcamp.com

Corte Madera Summer Camps

Corte Madera; 415/927-5072

townofcortemadera.org

Country Club Bowl Summer Youth Bowling Camps

San Rafael; 415/456-4661

bowlmarin.com/youth

Craig Breslin’s Champions Soccer Camp

San Rafael; 415/482-8813

championsoccercamp.com

Dave Fromer’s Summer Soccer Camps

Various locations in Marin;415/383-0320

davefromersoccer.com

Dickson Ranch Summer Horse Camps

Woodacre; 415/488-0454

dicksonranch.net

Dojo Fit Warrior Boot Camp

San Anselmo; 415/482-8182

Marindojo.com

Dominican Athletic Summer Camps

San Rafael; 415/482-3543

Dominican.edu.

Doodlebug Imagination at Play Summer Camps

San Anselmo; 415/847-2726

doodlebugmarin.com

Encore Lacrosse Summer Camps

Larkspur, Mill Valley; 888/501-4999

Encorelacrosse.com

First Friends Montessori

Pre-K Summer Camp

Fairfax; 415/459-7028

first-friends-montessori.com

Funtastic Preschool Adventure Camp

San Anselmo; 415/452-3181

Sananselmopreschool.org

Golden Gate Learning Center Maker Camps and Summer Brush Ups

San Anselmo; 415/383-2283

goldengatelearning.center

Gymnastics Camp at The Cave

Corte Madera; 415/927-1630

Inthecave.com

Hairspray! Musical Theatre Summer Camp at the Throckmorton Theatre

Mill Valley; 415/383-9611

throckmortontheatre.org

Joy of Dance Ballet School Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/812-4821

Joyofdanceballet.com

Junior Tennis Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/302-7974

unlimitedtennis.com

Katia & Co Performing Arts & Dance Camps

Various locations

katiaandcompany.com

Kids on Camera

TV/Film/Acting Day Camp

Ross

kids-on-camera.com

Kinder Camp at Bacich

Kentfield; 415/927-6746

larkspur.recdesk.com

Le Petite Jardin

San Anselmo; 415/457-1325

Lpjkids.com

Legarza Summer Sports Camps

Various locations; 415/334-3333

legarzasports.org

Love2Dance Summer Camps

Novato; 415/898-3933

Love2dance.biz

Luis Quezada Soccer Camp

Fairfax and San Anselmo; 415/302-6779

usasoccercamp.org

Marin Christian Academy Summer Day Camp

Novato; 415/892-5713

http://marinchristian.org/

Marin Dance Theatre

San Rafael; 415/499-8891

mdt.org

Marin Girls Chorus Music Summer Camp

Novato; 415/827-7335

marinchorus.org

Marin GreenPlay Nature and Adventure Camps

Mill Valley; 415/264-2828

maringreenplay.com

Marin Horizon School Summer Camp

Mill Valley; 415/388-8408

marinhorizon.org

Marin Humane Society Humane Summer Camps

Novato; 415/883-4621

marinhumanes.org

Marin Primary & Middle School Summer Camp

Larkspur; 415/924-2608

mpms.org

Marin Rowing Association Youth Summer Rowing Camps

Greenbrae; 415/461-1431

marinrowing.org

Marin Shakespeare Summer Camps

San Rafael; 415/499-4487

marinshakespeare.org

Marin Theatre Company Summer Camps

Mill Valley; 415/388-5200

marintheatre.org

Marin Treks Summer Camps

Novato; 415/250-0988

marintreks.com

Marin Waldorf School Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/479-8190

marinwaldorf.org

Marinwood Summer Camps

San Rafael; 415/479-0775

marinwood.org

Mark Day School Camps

San Rafael; 415/472-8000

markdayschool.org

MASTERWORKS Kids’ Art Studio Camps

Corte Madera; 415/945-7945

masterworkskidsart.com

Mathnasium Summer Camp

Mill Valley; 415/384-8272

Mathnasium.com

McInnis Park Golf Course Junior Camp

San Rafael; 415/492-1800

Mcinnisparkgolfcenter.com

Mill Valley Parks & Recreation Summer Program

Mill Valley; 415/383-1370

millvalleyrecreation.org

Mill Valley Potter’s Studio Clay Summer Camps

Mill Valley; 415/888-8906

millvalleypottersstudio.com

Miwok Stables Summer Camps

Mill Valley; 415/383-8048

miwokstables.com

Morning Star Farm Summer Horse Camp

Novato; 415/897-1633

morningstarfarm.info

Mt. Tam Adventures Summer Camps

Sausalito

Mttamadventures.com

Mt. Tam Bikes Camp

Mill Valley; 415/377-9075

mttambikescamp.com

Multi-Sports Kids Camp at Mt. Tam Racquet Club

Larkspur; 415/924-6226

mttamrc.com

NatureBridge Coastal Camp

Sausalito; 415/331-1548

coastalcamp.org

Nike Sports Camps

Variety of sports and locations; 800/645-3226

ussportscamps.com

No Limits Summer Camps

Corte Madera; 415/717-6925

nolimitsdaycamp.com

Novato Parks & Recreation Summer Camps

Novato; 415/899-8279

Novato.org

Novato Theater Company Summer Stars

Novato; 415/883-4498

novatotheatercompany.org

Novato Youth Center Summer Program

Novato; 415/892-1643

novatoyouthcenter.org

Operation C.H.E.F. Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/497-3710

operationchef.com

O’Sullivan Soccer Academy Summer Camps

San Geronimo; 415/497-8164

osullivansocceracademy.com

Otis Guy Mountain Bike Camp

Fairfax; 415/250-2585

otisguymountainbikecamp.com

Parkour American Ninja Camp at The Cave

Corte Madera; 415/927-1630

inthecave.com

Pine Point Cooking School

Sausalito; 415/332-4352

pinepointcooking.com

PlanetBravo Techno-tainment Camp

Ross; 310/443-7607

planetbravo.com

Play-Well LEGO-Inspired Engineering Camps

Larkspur, Marinwood, Tiburon,

San Anselmo; 415/578-2746

play-well.org

Point Reyes Nature Science and Adventure Camps

Point Reyes Station; 415/663-1200

ptreyes.org/summer-camp

Practical Martial Arts Ninja Camps

Corte Madera; 415/927-0899

practicalmartialarts.net

Pyramid Gymnastics Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/927-1240

thepyramidgym.com

Rolling Hills Club Summer Camp

Novato; 415/897-2185

rollinghillsclub.com

Ross Academy Montessori School Summer Mini-Camp

Mill Valley; 415/383-5777

rossacademymontessori.com

Ross Cottage Nursery School Summer Program

Ross; 415/517-7417

rosscottagenurseryschool.com

Ross Recreation Summer Camps

Ross; 415/453-6020

rossrecreation.org

Ross Valley Summer School

Corte Madera; 415/927-6746

Ci.larkspur.ca.us

Ross Valley Swim School

Kentfield; 415/461-5431

bayclubs.com/rossvalley

Sage Educators Summer Essential Skills Workshops

Mill Valley; 415/388-7243; Larkspur; 415/461-7243; San Anselmo; 415/594-7243

sageeducators.com/summer/

Sailing Education Adventures Sail Camp

San Rafael; 415/775-8779

Sfsailing.org

San Anselmo Summer Programs

San Anselmo; 415/258-4600

townofsananselmo.org

San Domenico School Summer Camps

San Anselmo; 415/258-1944

sandomenico.org/student-life/summer-camps

San Geronimo Summer Golf Camps

San Geronimo; 415/474-2613

golfcoachwill.com

San Marin Junior Tennis

Novato; 415/444-9515

tennislink.usta.com/Tournaments

San Rafael Parks & Recreation Summer Camps

San Rafael; 415/485-3344

cityofsanrafael.org

Sausalito Parks and Recreation Summer Camps

Sausalito; 415/289-4100

ci.sausalito.ca.us

Sea Trek Kayak Summer Camps

Sausalito; 415/332-8494

seatrek.com/camps

Singers Marin Summer Camp

Mill Valley; 415/383-3712

singersmarin.org

Slide Ranch Summer Camp

Muir Beach; 415/381-6155

slideranch.org

Soccer Kids

Various locations; 415/608-2608

sf.soccerkids.com

Stapleton School Musical Theatre Camp

San Anselmo; 415/454-5759

stapletonschool.org

Steve & Kate’s Camp

steveandkatescamp.com

Strawberry Recreation District

Camp Strawberry

Mill Valley; 415/383-6494

Strawberry.marin.org

Studio 4 Art Summer Camp

Fairfax, Mill Valley, Novato; 415/596-5546

studio4art.net

Summer Odyssey Camp at Dominican

San Rafael; 415/485-3255

domincan.edu

Summer Rock Band Camps at Marin Music Center

Novato; 415/897-4131

marinmusic.com

Summer Spanish Immersion Classes

Sonoma and Marin Counties; 707/782-1084

colorsofspanish.org

SummerCrest Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/457-6672

Summercrest.org

Super Cool Summer School

Larkspur; 415/927-6746

larkspur.recdesk.com

Super Summer Adventure Camp

San Anselmo; 415/453-3181

supersummeradventurecamp.org

Tamalpais Tutoring Summer Workout

Kentfield; 415/457-7500

tamalpaistutoring.com

Tennis Nation Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/457-5160

Marintennisclub.com

TGA Premier Sports Golf Camps

Various locations; 415/599-9478

northbay.playtga.com

The Cave Summer Gymnastic Camps

Corte Madera; 415/927-1630

admin.inthecave.com

The City of Novato Summer Camps

Novato; 415/899-8279

novato.org/government/summer-camps

The Culinary Dude’s Kids Cooking Camp

Tiburon; 415/242-4192

theculinarydude.com

The National Academy of Summer Camps

Mill Valley, Novato; 707/541-2365

nationalacademyofathletics.com

The Performing Arts Academy of Marin

Mill Valley; 415/380-0887

paamarin.com

The Ranch Summer Camps

Tiburon; 415/435-4355

theranchtoday.org

Tiburon Adventure Camp

Tiburon; 415/435-4366

btccc.org

Totally Tennis Summer Camp

San Rafael; 415/456-5522

rafaelracquetclub.com

Tutu Ballet Camp

Larkspur; 415/419-5610

tutuschool.com

23 Elephants Theatre Company

San Anselmo; 646/241-7734

23elephants.org

Twin Cities Children’s Center Summer Camps

Corte Madera; 415/924-6622

twincitieschildrenscenter.com

Unlimited Tennis Summer Camps

Marin County; 415/302-7974

Unlimitedtennis.com

USS Sports Camps

Various sports and locations in Marin; 800/645-3226

ussportscamps.com

VFX (Visual Effects) for Kids Summer Camp

Novato; 415/475-7567

vfx4kids.com

Vilda Nature Summer Camps

Fairfax; 415/747-4840

vildanature.org

WildCare Wildlife Camps

San Rafael; 415/456-7283

discoverwildcare.org

 YMCA Summer Camps Marin

Various locations; 415/446-2178

ymcasf.org/programs/summer-camp-marin

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