Welcome to The Temperance Zone

Sober-curious imbibing, Marin-style

Summer is just around the corner. And with this heatwave beckoning in hotter days to come, it sure feels like the perfect time to start sipping on some cold and delicious beverages…including the outstanding nonalcoholic options out here in Marin.

Mocktails, also called nonalcoholic beverages by some and a regular ol’ drink by many, are an up-and-coming addition to all the best, most contemporary bars, restaurants and communities. And here in Marin, there are plenty of options for mixing up a routine drinks menu with something a little less boozy and maybe even better.

Being sandwiched between the world-famous Wine Country to the north and San Francisco’s (also world-famous) nightlife just south across the Golden Gate Bridge puts Marin in the middle of a whole lot of alcohol. But in that buffer zone is some alcoholic amnesty, a temperance zone perfect for summer’s short lease.

They say temperance is a virtue, but few ever define what exactly that virtue is. In the case of San Rafael’s own California Gold bar, temperance means the new nonalcoholic drinks menu entitled Temperance Delights. This boozeless beverage menu may abstain from the indulgence of alcohol, but its offerings are far from moderate in terms of taste.

California Gold’s brand new menu of nonalcoholic drinks is set to blow expectations out of the water with mocktails so complex, balanced and delicious that customers won’t miss the alcoholic bite for a single second this summer. Or any season after.

A sneak peek at the summertime mocktail section of California Gold includes innovative delights that aren’t like anything one has seen or tasted before. The Tokyo Honey, for instance, features toasted rice, yuzu, apples, ginger, cinnamon, citrus, cucumber and soda.

Owner and founder Isaac Shumway explained the mastercraft and methodology behind developing his own nonalcoholic cocktail menu.

“When it comes to spirits and cocktails, we want the ingredients and flavors to be really simplistic, to let each one speak for themselves. But when you don’t have any alcohol, you’re talking about a lack of complexity to deal with,” said Shumway, going on to explain his experience developing one of his more complex new nonalcoholic cocktails.

“[The Tokyo Honey] is an alcohol-less drink made with toasted sushi rice with a little cinnamon, and then I took apples and cinnamon and honey and combined them until completely melted,” explained Shumway. “Then I used yuzu to balance out the flavors, and then combined it with fresh pressed ginger…throughout the whole process, I was really just thinking about the flavors and having fun with it!”

The process behind California Gold’s Tokyo Honey is involved enough to rival, if not beat out, even the most complex alcoholic cocktails on Shumway’s menu. Tokyo Honey requires the rice to soak for 24 hours before being blended and strained through a cheesecloth. The apple component is made by braising the fruit along with Marshall Farms Marin Honey. Add in the fresh-pressed ginger juice and everything else, and it’s easy to see how a nonalcoholic cocktail can be just as complex as those with boozy additions.

“I’ve been thinking about making a [mocktail menu] for years,” Shumway said. “We make virgin versions of our cocktails, but to really put time and thought into the flavors is something I’ve always wanted to include.”

“To not have alcohol in these drinks gives me the free range to go absolutely crazy with the ingredients and flavors and general complexity,” Shumway continued. “Plus all the aromatics and the visuals….”

While many drinks are arguably nonalcoholic cocktails, lemonade included, there’s more to making a nonalcoholic cocktail pop than just combining sugar and fruit.

“Lemonade is just sugar, water and lemons,” said Shumway. “It’s a lot more fun to make real mocktails in a lot of ways, especially because you get to put more things together to find balance without that base of the alcohol to carry the inherent complexity of the drink. While lemonade made with just sugar, lemon and soda is a pretty one-dimensional drink, it can become something entirely different even by adding something as simple as brown sugar, which makes lemonades so much more exciting.”

Another nonalcoholic beverage that will be available for patrons to try out this coming season from California Gold’s new Temperance Delights menu is the Pineapple Express. It will feature pineapple gum, verjus, masala chia, coconut cream, a hop water refresher and a savory sprig of rosemary to top it all off.

“Along the same line of thinking that replaces white sugar with brown sugar for lemonade, I thought that putting pineapple with rosemary was a great contrast of savory herbaceousness meeting citrus,” said Shumway. “Herbal and savory is such a great match, and I love putting herbs and fruit together. Just think of basil and strawberry—that’s an amazing flavor combination! And rosemary and pineapple is similar to that.”

Whatever reason one has for skipping out on the alcohol this summer, whether it be entirely, in moderation or not at all, it’s always a welcome gesture to see a bar featuring a thoughtful and inclusive nonalcoholic menu.

“Maybe you want to socialize or are out with friends or on a date but don’t want to drink or are pregnant…” Shumway speculated. “Whatever the reason, I wanted to be sure there’s something for everyone.”

California Gold’s nonalcoholic menu is set to continue through the seasonal shifts, even after summer. In fact, the Temperance Delights menu will most likely offer genuine hot chocolate in the wintertime (to start).

But in the spirit of the season currently upon us, Shumway not only developed a whole new menu—he also shared his most simple new nonalcoholic drink recipe: The Columbian Cooler. It will also be available on California Gold’s Temperance Delights menu, along with other, more complex recipes like the Tokyo Honey.

The Columbian Cooler

Ingredients:

1 oz clove syrup

1.5 oz lime juice

4 oz cold soda water

Directions:

Shake together the clove syrup and lime juice. Add the soda, and strain the mixture over fresh ice.

To make the clove syrup, heat 16 oz of simple syrup with ½ oz of cloves that have been toasted until fragrant. Let the mixture come to a simmer, and then take it off the heat to cool while leaving the cloves in the syrup to steep.

Strain off as needed, and store for cocktails through summer and every other season.

California Gold is located at 848 B Street in San Rafael. The bar is open every day of the week, though hours vary daily. For more information, visit the California Gold website at californiagoldbar.com.

Free Will Astrology: Week of June 5-11

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): What potentials should you strive to ripen as the expansive planet Jupiter glides through your astrological House of Connection, Communication and Education in the coming months? I’ll offer my intuitions. On the downside, there may be risks of talking carelessly, forging superficial links and learning inessential lessons. On the plus side, you will generate good luck and abundant vitality if you use language artfully, seek out the finest teachings, and connect with quality people and institutions. In the most favorable prognosis I can imagine, you will become smarter and wiser. Your knack for avoiding boredom and finding fascination will be at a peak.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Since 1969, Taurus singer-songwriter Willie Nelson has played his favorite guitar in over 10,000 shows. His name for it is Trigger. Willie doesn’t hold onto it simply for nostalgic reasons. He says it has the greatest tone he has ever heard in a guitar. Though bruised and scratched, it gets a yearly check-up and repair. Nelson regards it as an extension of himself, like a part of his body. Is there anything like Trigger in your life, Taurus? Now is a good time to give it extra care and attention. The same is true for all your valuable belongings and accessories. Give them big doses of love. 

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Off the coast of West Africa is an imaginary place called Null Island. A weather buoy is permanently moored there. Geographers have nicknamed it “Soul Buoy.” It’s the one location on Earth where zero degrees latitude intersects with zero degrees longitude. Since it’s at sea level, its elevation is zero, too. I regard this spot as a fun metaphor for the current state of your destiny, Gemini. You are at a triple zero point, with your innocence almost fully restored. The horizons are wide, the potentials are expansive, and you are as open and free as it’s possible for you to be.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): When I worked as a janitor at India Joze restaurant in Santa Cruz, California, I did the best I could. But I was unskilled in the janitorial arts. I couldn’t fix broken machines and I lacked expertise about effective cleaning agents. Plus, I was lazy. Who could blame me? I wasn’t doing my life’s work. I had no love for my job. Is there an even remotely comparable situation in your life, Cancerian? Are you involved with tasks that neither thrill you nor provide you with useful education? The coming months will be an excellent time to wean yourself from these activities.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): I foresee two possible approaches for you in the coming months. Either will probably work, so it’s up to you to decide which feels most fun and interesting. In the first option, you will pursue the rewards you treasure by creating your own rules as you outfox the system’s standard way of doing things. In the second alternative, you will aim for success by mostly playing within the rules of the system except for some ethical scheming and maneuvering that outflank the system’s rules. My advice is to choose one or the other, and not try to do both.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Please note that during the next 12 months, I may seem a bit pushy in my dealings with you. I will encourage you to redefine and enhance your ambitions. I will exhort you to dream bigger. There may come times when you wish I wouldn’t dare you to be so bold. I will understand, then, if you refrain from regularly reading my horoscopes. Maybe you are comfortable with your current type of success and don’t want my cheerleading. But if you would welcome an ally like me—an amiable motivator and sympathetic booster—I will be glad to help you strive for new heights of accomplishment.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Three months after Rachel Denning bore her fourth child, she and her husband sold everything they owned and embarked on a nomadic life. They have been roaming ever since, adding three more kids along the way. She says they have become addicted to “the personal transformation that travel extracts.” She loves how wandering free “causes you to be uncomfortable, to step out of the familiar and into the unknown. It compels you to see with new eyes and to consider things you had never been aware of. It removes preconceptions, biases, and small-mindedness.” If you were ever going to flirt with Rachel Denning’s approach, Libra, the next 12 months would be a favorable time. Could you approximate the same healing growth without globetrotting journeys? Probably. Homework: Ask your imagination to show you appealing ways to expand.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Among the Europeans who first settled in South America were Jews who had been forcibly converted to Christianity by Portuguese and Spanish persecutions. Centuries later, some families resolved to reclaim their Jewish heritage. They led a movement called la sangre llama—a Spanish phrase meaning “the blood is calling.” I invite you to be inspired by this retrieval, Scorpio. The coming months will be an excellent time to commune with aspects of your past that have been neglected or forgotten. Your ancestors may have messages for you. Go in search of missing information about your origins.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): If you simply let the natural flow take you where it will in the coming weeks, you would become a magnet for both degenerative and creative influences. Fortunately, you are reading this oracle, which will help ensure the natural flow won’t lead you toward degenerative influences. With this timely oracle, I am advising you to monitor and suppress any unconscious attractions you might have for bewildering risks and seemingly interesting possibilities that are actually dead ends. Don’t flirt with decadent glamour or fake beauty, dear Sagittarius! Instead, make yourself fully available for only the best resources that will uplift and inspire you.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Capricorn politician Robert F. Kennedy Jr. is campaigning to be U.S. President. But oops: He recently confessed that a parasitic worm once ate a portion of his brain, damaging his memory and cognitive skills. “The worm is dead now,” he assured us, as if that were a good reason to vote for him. Why am I bringing this up? Like most of us, you have secrets that if revealed might wreak at least a bit of mayhem. As tempting as it might be to share them with the world—perhaps in an effort to feel free of their burden—it’s best to keep them hidden for now. Kennedy’s brain worm is in that category. Don’t be like him in the coming weeks. Keep your reputation and public image strong. Show your best facets to the world.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): The English and French word “amateur” comes from amatus, the past participle of the Latin word amare, which means “to love.” According to one definition, an amateur is “someone who pursues sports, studies, or other activities purely for pleasure instead of for financial gain or professional advancement.” In accordance with astrological omens, I encourage you to make this a featured theme in the coming months. On a regular basis, seek out experiences simply because they make you feel good. Engage in lots of playtime. At least part-time, specialize in fun and games.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Good news, Pisces: In the coming weeks, one of your flaws will mysteriously become less flawed. It will lose some of its power to undermine you. If you engage in focused meditation about it, you could rob it of even more of its obstructive force. More good news: You will have an enhanced capacity to distinguish between skillful pretending and earthy authenticity. No one can trick you or fool you. Can you handle even more good news? You will have a skillful knack for finding imperfect but effective solutions to problems that have no perfect solution.

Homework: What mediocre pleasure could you give up to better pursue a sublime pleasure? Newsletter.FreeWillAstrology.com

Celebrating Pride

When we celebrate Pride, we honor the history and struggles of the LGBTQIA+ movement and foster a sense of belonging and solidarity among residents.

These events are more than just parades and parties (but be assured, they are also parades and parties); they affirm identity, resilience and the ongoing fight for equality.

In areas like our beloved Sonoma, Napa and Marin counties, where the picturesque landscapes quilted with vineyards and the accouterments of affluent lifestyles might overshadow the community’s diverse fabric, Pride events play a vital role in highlighting the presence and contributions of LGBTQIA+ individuals. They provide a platform for visibility in areas that might otherwise be perceived as lacking in diversity. This visibility is essential, especially for young people struggling with their identity and looking for role models and a supportive community.

Pride and its myriad related events serve as crucial pillars of inclusivity, visibility and community for the LGBTQIA+ population, and they also serve as powerful reminders of the progress made and the work still to be done. They honor the legacy of activists who fought for rights that many take for granted today while shining a light on the issues that continue to affect the LGBTQIA+ community, such as discrimination, mental health challenges and the fight for comprehensive legal protections.

Moreover, these events promote inclusivity and understanding within the broader community. By engaging allies and fostering dialogue, Pride events help break down stereotypes and build bridges across different segments of society. Allies are not just spectators—they actively participate in the fight for equality. They are opportunities for allies to show their support and for everyone to learn more about the challenges and triumphs of their LGBTQIA+ neighbors.

In a time when hate crimes and discriminatory policies still threaten the well-being of LGBTQIA+ individuals, North Bay Pride events are acts of defiance and celebration. They are declarations of self-love and acceptance, echoing that love is love and everyone deserves to live their truth openly and without fear.

Ultimately, Pride is about community. It’s a vibrant, colorful and joyous celebration that reminds us that no one is alone in their journey and that together, we can create a society where everyone is celebrated for who they are. As we march, dance and celebrate, we reinforce the message that inclusivity and acceptance are the cornerstones of a vibrant and resilient community.

Michah D. Mercer lives and loves in the North Bay.

A Cut Above with Mitchell Field

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Before his 15th birthday, Mitchell Field signed on as an apprentice at Vidal Sassoon’s original Bond Street London salon. By 18, he had become the youngest stylist in the salon’s history. He’s owned hair salons in Montreal and Los Angeles, where he cut the hair of Billy Idol, Alice Cooper and Michael “Kramer” Richards, to name a few. Seeking a quieter life, he found his way to Fairfax and is still rockin’ it.

What do you do?

What I love and have been doing since 1963: cutting, coloring and styling men’s and women’s hair to help them feel good. I have been doing that in this location in downtown Fairfax for the past 32 years…

Where do you live? The Mission City, San Rafael. Actually, Terra Linda; it’s wonderful. I can be on a hiking trail in just a few minutes’ walk from my front door, and the nearby Marin County Civic Center and Library are joyful and inspiring architecture.

How long have you lived in Marin?

Since 1992.

Where can we find you when you’re not at work?

Hiking Marin trails by day and on-stage or in the audience at Bay Area theaters in the evening.

If you had to convince someone how awesome Marin is, where would you take them?

Easy: Mt. Tam. The trails, the views, the flora; it’s magical.

What’s one thing Marin is missing?

Great Chinese food and a great deli…Oops, that’s two.

What’s one bit of advice you’d share with your fellow Marinites?

It doesn’t matter what others say about you, so long as it isn’t that you’re boring!

If you could invite anyone to a special dinner, who would they be?

My four grandparents, who were all Londoners. I never met them; they didn’t survive WWII.

What is some advice you wish you knew 20 years ago?

Buy more Apple stock.

What is something that in 20 years from now will seem cringeworthy?

It’ll still be Cats.

Big question. What is one thing you’d do to change the world?

Encourage people to smile; it’s the facelift everyone can afford.

Want to get that perfect look? Hit up Field at the Mitchell Field Salon, 415.454.8818 or mi********@*ol.com.

Nish Nadaraja was on the founding team at Yelp, serves on the San Anselmo Arts Commission and could use a haircut.

Your Letters, May 29

Commercial Break

Does anybody in pint-size America have the courage to stand up to big-belly corporate America? We first gave up on curbing corporate monopoly and straightening out corporate income taxes. We next rolled over and allowed corporations to buy up soulless public servants at election time.

With the goal of a two-class America now in sight, the latest coup of the new American aristocracy has been to take daytime TV by storm. Corporate sponsors have virtually forced daytime news and talk shows into “deal of the day” or “steal of the day” segments that eat well into program content time, just like the ever-expanding commercial break times do.

It used to be that oil, railroad, steel, telegraph, utilities and meatpacking were the hardest-working white-collar robbers in America, but today retail product companies and banks have taken over the railroading of folks into their consumer graves. We must have what we don’t need, and we must go deeply into debt to pay for it all.

Our TV celebs and commerce moguls just can’t get enough millions and billions to satisfy their personal needs for luxury. They must turn the middle class into the working poor to get the job done.

Kimball Shinkoskey

San Rafael

High Time for Pride

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Santa Rosa

SoCo Pride

It’s almost Sonoma County Pride time again! This year’s theme is “Heroes, Sheroes and Queeroes.” The 39th annual parade kicks off at 11am on Saturday, June 1, in downtown Santa Rosa. Over 50 festive floats will roll through city streets, followed by a giant Pride festival at Courthouse Square until 5pm. Festival headliners include Kiesza (of “Hideaway” fame), Rêve and Grant Knoche. The dance party will continue into the wee hours at the Flamingo Resort. For details, visit sonomacountypride.org.

San Rafael

LGBTQ+ on Screen

CAFILM announces the launch of Pride Month in the Bay Area with a weekend series at the Smith Rafael Film Center showcasing LGBTQ+ films. The weekend, from June 7 to 9, is curated by MVFF world cinema programmer João Federici. Program highlights include Common Threads: Stories from the Quilt, the story behind the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt; Pride, the true story of LGBTQ+ activists supporting striking miners in 1984 Wales; Toll, a tale of a mother entangled in a criminal gang while trying to send her son to a gay conversion therapy program; Tomboy, an exploration of gender identity; and Queer Women’s Stories, a selection of short films celebrating the voices and experiences of queer women, in partnership with Frameline. In partnership with the National AIDS Memorial Grove, a 12×12 foot section of the iconic AIDS Memorial Quilt will be displayed in the Rafael lobby throughout the weekend. For dates, times, tickets and location, visit rafaelfilm.cafilm.org.

Sonoma County

Library Love

The Sonoma County Library celebrates Pride Month with queer book lists, LGBTQIA+ events at various branches and parade participation. The library will participate in the Sonoma County Pride Parade on Saturday, June 1, in downtown Santa Rosa, with librarians marching, an information booth and the BiblioBus stocked with LGBTQIA+-focused materials. Members of the Here + Queer project will also be available to chat with parade watchers. For more information and inspiration, visit sonomalibrary.org/pride.

Marin County

Call for Artists

Marin County artists are invited to submit their work to the exhibition, Are We There Yet?, a collaboration between Cedars and the San Anselmo Arts Commission. The exhibition is inspired by the notion of journeying and arriving at a destination. Think cars, trains, staycations, postcards, gas stations, monuments and landmarks. The art submission deadline

is June 7—sculpture, painting, drawing, photography, collage, mixed media and fiber art are accepted. The exhibition runs from July 12–Aug. 22. All submissions will be subject to selection by a jury of Cedars and San Anselmo Arts Commission staff, artists and curators. Art sales will share a 50% commission with Artist Within: A Cedars Gallery. For more information and an entry form, visit cedarslife.org/artsubmission2024.

Mountain Play Gets ‘Kinky’

The last few years have been exceedingly challenging for the theater community, and Mill Valley’s Mountain Play is no different.

“Since 2019, the Mountain Play has been weathering storms,” said executive director Eileen Grady, “both literal and figurative. From the climate crisis to employment law changes, to the pandemic and its aftershocks, we’ve been through it all. Theater companies came back, but we returned to a whole new world. We are filled with gratitude for our community members who have really stepped up to the plate with contributions that have helped us survive this new world. We’re still here because of them.”

This year’s production is Kinky Boots, the Cindi Lauper/Harvey Fierstein musical about a struggling London shoe factory that turns to manufacturing footwear for drag queens to survive. It’s an interesting choice for the company.

“We’re always looking for new stories to tell on the mountain,” said Grady. “It’s a universal celebration of self-acceptance, community and kindness.”

But it ain’t no Sound of Music.

“There are always concerns about subject matter with play selections,” continued Grady. “Humans have evolved since the golden age of musical theater, so even the Rodgers & Hammerstein classics have moments of subject matter that don’t play well when viewed through today’s lens. Kinky Boots is about acceptance. One would hope that wouldn’t turn any one off. We sure hope our audience stays with us and that we find new friends to join us.”

Director/choreographer Gary Stanford, Jr. agrees. “This musical is one of the most fun stage experiences an audience could wish for in terms of pure entertainment,” said Stanford. “You’re going to want to dance, clap to the beat, laugh and even cry. It’s also a show about humanity. It weaves together many aspects of society where everyone comes together for a common cause.”

Stanford has enjoyed the challenges inherent to the Mountain Play. “I think it’s safe to say that this is the most challenging venue in the entire Bay Area. Dealing with the heat, the thin air and drastic weather changes while wearing makeup and full costumes for singing and dancing requires a stamina that is not a normal requirement for a stage actor!”

“We really want to remind everyone how healthy it is for us all to experience theater and that the arts truly are a remedy for a lot of personal and social ills,” concluded Grady. “We hope our audience returns to the Mountain Play being an annual tradition.”

‘Kinky Boots’ runs Sundays through June 16 at the Cushing Memorial Amphitheatre in Mount Tamalpais State Park, 801 Panoramic Hwy., Mill Valley. 2pm. $25–$190. 415.383.1100. mountainplay.org.

The Big Picture: Camilla Jackson Meoli’s Vision for Cinelounge Tiburon

When addressing her fading star in 1950’s Sunset Boulevard, character Norman Desmond famously observed, “I am big. It’s the pictures that got small.”

Perhaps Desmond was referencing the shrinking budgets of her films, or the encroachment of smaller television screens of the era. But she could never have anticipated “streaming” movies and, indeed, how small a screen can get.

Keeping the pictures “big” is Camilla Jackson Meoli, creative director at Cinelounge Tiburon.

Meoli’s innovative approach to programming at the triplex cinema, which showcases both studio hits and arthouse fare, is a testament to her belief in the enduring power of cinema.

“I think that cinema is going to evolve, and the experience of going to the theater needs to be slightly reinvented,” she says.

This reinvention goes beyond just watching a movie—it’s about creating an event. In fact, the term “eventizing” is seldom far from the lips of exhibitors these days.

Sometimes eventizing is an audience-driven phenomenon (think last year’s “Barbenheimer” craze or the preceding “Gentle Minions,” which found young men attending the latest Minions film dressed in formal attire). Other times, the eventizing comes courtesy of the exhibitors who are experimenting with what drives attendance.

“The experience needs to be more than simply just going in and watching a movie with other people,” says Meoli, who baked the premise into the DNA of both Cinelounge Tiburon and a Los Angeles-based sibling theater. Each embodies a year-round film festival spirit, blending art house offerings with mainstream appeal—and expanding what it means to “go to the movies.”

To that end, Cinelounge Tiburon is the only first-run three-screen movie theater and performance venue in Marin that serves beer and wine and offers a menu of locally sourced organic food items. Joining the fray is Tony Gemignani, the owner and originator of Tony’s Pizza, Tony’s of North Beach SF and over 20 other restaurant concepts (he literally wrote The Pizza Bible). Gemignani’s pizzas use locally sourced ingredients and are now among the offerings of Cinelounge Tiburon.

At Cinelounge, it’s not just about the films but the shared experience they foster. Says Meoli, “If you’ve got a great community, which we do, I think you can give them a little bit of a nibble, and they will come.”

Meoli curated a recent series of screenings called “Morning Movie Club,” which combined coffee, an eclectic selection of films and in-depth discussions with their stars and filmmakers. It proved a success. Looking ahead, she is excited about expanding Cinelounge’s regular offerings to include live music in their “Lagoon Room,” which will juxtapose the performance with an onscreen experience.

Throughout, the creative energy of Meoli and her husband fuels this endeavor. “I think it’s because my husband, Christian, and I are both very creative, and it’s not enough for us to just show a movie. We get high on going back and forth with ideas. And the crazier, the better. And if it’s crazy, you know what? We’ll try it. If it doesn’t work, so what? You try something else. It’s just us and who we are,” she says.

That “something else” will also include the creative couple producing their own movies, with Meoli at the helm as director. Production of their first film begins this fall, and presumably, it will eventually be “coming soon to a theater near you”—in Tiburon.

Cinelounge Tiburon, located at 40 Main St., Tiburon. 415.797.6976. cineloungefilm.com.

Pride in Marin

June is Pride Month, which means it’s time to break out those rainbow flags and let their colors wave in loud, proud, celebratory support of Marin County’s LGBTQIA+ citizens.

Whether one is an ally or a member of the LGBTQIA+ community itself, it’s safe to say this month ahead promises a colorful, fully-packed calendar. So, let’s kick off Pride Month by highlighting some exciting events, people and achievements having to do with Marin’s LGBTQIA+ community.

First up is Jonah Newman, a graphic artist (and editor at Scholastic) who recently released his debut illustrated novel, Out of Left Field. Newman’s first published work depicts an accessible yet intimate window into the world of what it’s like to come of age gay in the Bay Area. The story is based on Newman’s own experiences of playing team sports at school, specifically baseball, while simultaneously balancing self-exploration and sexuality.

“One of the interesting things about my experiences leading up to writing [Out of Left Field] came because, even though I was in a very progressive place, I still ran into a lot of homophobia and toxic masculinity on the baseball team,” Newman explained.

Out of Left Field was released in March of this year and has since garnered accolades across a wide audience. Though Newman currently lives in New York, he recently visited the Bay Area this April to see his parents in Mill Valley and to do some book release events.

“We live in these progressive bubbles in New York City and the Bay Area, but there’s still so many people out there in the world of sports who have a very backward way of thinking,” explained Newman. “And every time an athlete behaves like that in the public eye, it makes it harder for people to come out, especially in the highest echelon of professional sports—or even in amateur and recreational levels, because people and children look up to and emulate those behaviors.”

Although Newman’s graphic novel is based on experiences from over a decade ago, the topics touched on in Out of Left Field still apply to the Marin of the here and now. In fact, on his recent visit home, Newman was approached by a Mill Valley mother whose son currently plays sports in the local school systems.

“She told me that [her son] has been experiencing the same kind of bad language and behavior with his teammates, and she wanted to know how to help,” Newman said. “These kids, they are modeling the behavior of athletes, and Major League Baseball seems to be still a very toxically masculine place, so kids will model that regardless of the values their parents teach them…

“It’s really complicated because part of what my book is addressing is overt homophobia, but also the not-so-overt kind that’s hard to blame on any one person or thing or action,” Newman continued. “But the result of that environment is something that can be not very welcoming and even off-putting to the LGBTQ+ community—I wish I had a silver bullet to solve the issue, but I think awareness and empathy are probably the best tools.”

Developing awareness and empathy starts with seemingly small efforts that add up to make a big difference…reading Out of Left Field for instance, or perhaps by attending a Pride event or two in Marin this June.

One such place to go for Pride Month events in Marin is Sausalito, located only a bridge away from the famously pro-gay rights cultural epicenter that is San Francisco. This year marks the second annual citywide celebration of the LGBTQ+ community in Sausalito.

“Last year, our friend Janelle Kellman, a Sausalito City Council member and former mayor, asked us to help envision a Pride celebration in Sausalito,” explained the chair of the Sausalito Economic Development Advisory Committee and Sausalito Pride co-founder, Scott Thornburg. Thornburg and his husband moved from San Francisco to Sausalito in 2018 in search of more open space and access to the great outdoors.

“[Sausalito Pride] started small: Let’s put up a flag at City Hall for the month of June,” said Thornburg. “However, it quickly ballooned into a city-wide event series with book signings, block parties, live music, a first-of-its-kind art exhibit and more. There was so much community excitement, we were able to get traction quickly.”

While plenty of events and acknowledgments for Marin’s less cis-gendered, straight members of the community are set to take place all across the county in June, Sausalito is certainly demonstrating an especially strong sense of pride, one that will hopefully only grow with time and the efforts of those who work hard to continue to push toward progress.

“We learned a lot from last year’s inaugural event and, with more time, we believe this year’s programming will be even better,” said Thornburg. “We’re trying to focus on quality over quantity this year. Also new for 2024, we officially have our 501(c)3 nonprofit status, so we can directly raise funds to help us achieve our mission of bringing the community together and raising awareness of the LGBTQ+ community of Marin.”

“Sausalito has a remarkable legacy of diversity and acceptance,” continued Thornburg. “Known as “the gayest small town in America,” Sausalito has been a safe haven and a vibrant community for the LGBTQ+ population for decades. From historic gay bars like The Tin Angel and The Sausalito Inn to beloved community figures like Peggy Tolk-Watkins and Rosie Casals, Sausalito’s LGBTQ+ history is rich and varied.”

An example Thornburg gave to help illustrate the city’s LGBTQ+ history had to do with the military presence in San Francisco, which apparently led gay service men and women to party across the bridge in Sausalito, where one was less likely to run into a supervising officer (at least by accident).

This year’s Sausalito Pride celebratory event calendar includes a town night out from 5 to 9pm on Caledonia Street at Johnson on June 20. Next up is the Friday with Pride: Sausalito Pride Reception at the Sausalito Center for the Arts from 4 to 6:30pm on June 21.

Also on June 21, from 6:30 to 8pm, is the Pride Night: Jazz and Blues by the Bay, which will take place in Gabrielson Park. And lastly, Sausalito Pride is proud to present A Night in Drag from 7 to 10pm at Gene Hiller Menswear (this is a ticketed event, so make sure to hop online and buy those tickets early).

To learn more about Sausalito Pride or to purchase tickets to an event, visit the website at sausalitopride.org.

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Free Will Astrology: Week of May 29

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): Welcome to the future of your education, Aries! Here are actions you can take to ensure you are exposed to all the lush lessons you need and deserve in the coming months. 1. Identify three subjects you would be excited to learn more about. 2. Shed dogmas and fixed theories that interfere with your receptivity to new information. 3. Vow to be alert for new guides or mentors. 4. Formulate a three-year plan to get the training and teachings you need most. 5. Be avidly curious.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Poet Emily Dickinson was skillful at invoking and managing deep feelings. One scholar described her emotions as being profoundly erotic, outlandish, sensuous, flagrant and nuanced. Another scholar said she needed and sought regular doses of ecstasy. Yet even she, maestro of passions, got overwhelmed. In one poem she wondered, “Why Floods be served to us in Bowls?” I suspect you may be having a similar experience, Taurus. It’s fun, though sometimes a bit too much. The good news is that metaphorically speaking, you will soon be in possession of a voluminous new bowl that can accommodate the floods.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): All of us periodically enjoy phases I call “Freedom from Cosmic Compulsion.” During these times, the Fates have a reduced power to shape our destinies. Our willpower has more spaciousness to work with. Our intentions get less resistance from karmic pressures that at other times might narrow our options. As I meditated on you, dear Gemini, I realized you are now in a phase of Freedom from Cosmic Compulsion. I also saw that you will have more of these phases than anyone else during the next 11 months. It might be time for you to get a “LIBERATION” tattoo or an equivalent new accessory.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Bold predictions: 1. Whatever treasure you have lost or are losing will ultimately be reborn in a beautiful form. 2. Any purposeful surrender you make will hone your understanding of exactly what your soul needs next to thrive. 3. A helpful influence may fade away, but its disappearance will clear the path for new helpful influences that serve your future in ways you can’t imagine yet. 4. Wandering around without a precise sense of where you’re going will arouse a robust new understanding of what home means to you.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Denmark’s King Canute IV (1042–1086) wasn’t bashful about asserting his power. He claimed ownership of all the land. He insisted on the right to inherit the possessions of all foreigners and people without families. Goods from shipwrecks were automatically his property. But once, his efforts to extend his authority failed. He had his servants move his throne to a beach as the tide came in. Seated and facing the North Sea, he commanded, “Halt your advance!” The surf did not obey. “You must surrender to my superior will!” he exclaimed, but the waters did not recede. Soon, his throne was engulfed by water. Humbled, Canute departed. I bring this up not to discourage you, Leo. I believe you can and should expand your influence and clout in the coming weeks. Just be sure you know when to stop.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Virgo-born Irène Joliot-Curie craved more attention than she got from her mother, Marie Curie. Mom was zealously devoted to her career as a chemist and physicist, which is one reason why she won Nobel Prizes in both fields. But she didn’t spend sufficient time with her daughter. Fortunately, Irène’s grandfather Eugène became his granddaughter’s best friend and teacher. With his encouragement, she grew into a formidable scientist and eventually won a Nobel Prize in chemistry herself. Even if you’re not a kid, Virgo, I suspect there may be a mentor and guide akin to Eugène in your future. Go looking! To expedite the process, define what activity or skill you want help in developing.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): I have a fantasy that sometime in the coming months, you will slip away to a sanctuary in a pastoral paradise. There you will enjoy long hikes and immerse yourself in healing music and savor books you’ve been wanting to read. Maybe you will write your memoirs or compose deep messages to dear old friends. Here’s the title of what I hope will be a future chapter of your life story: “A Thrillingly Relaxing Getaway.” Have you been envisioning an adventure like this, Libra? Or is your imagination more inclined to yearn for a trip to an exciting city where you will exult in high culture? I like that alternative, too. Maybe you will consider doing both.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): An Instagrammer named sketchesbyboze advises us, “Re-enchant your life by making the mundane exciting. You are not ‘going to the drugstore.’ You are visiting the apothecary to buy potions. You are not ‘running an errand.’ You are undertaking an unpredictable adventure. You are not ‘feeding the birds.’ You are making an alliance with the crow queen.” I endorse this counsel for your use, Scorpio. You now have the right and duty to infuse your daily rhythm with magic and fantasy. To attract life’s best blessings, you should be epic and majestic. Treat your life as a mythic quest. 

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): I invite you to invite new muses into your life in the coming months. Give them auditions. Interview them. Figure out which are most likely to boost your creativity, stimulate your imagination and rouse your inspiration in every area of your life, not just your art form. Tell them you’re ready to deal with unpredictable departures from the routine as long as these alternate paths lead to rich teachings. And what form might these muses take? Could be actual humans. Could be animals or spirits. Might be ancestral voices, exciting teachings or pilgrimages to sacred sanctuaries. Expand your concept of what a muse might be so you can get as much muse-like input as possible.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): The Japanese have a word for a problem that plagues other countries as well as theirs: karoshi, or death from working too hard and too much. No matter how high-minded our motivations might be, no matter how interesting our jobs are, most of us cannot safely devote long hours to intense labor week after week, month after month. It’s too stressful on the mind and body. I will ask you to monitor yourself for such proclivities in the coming months. You can accomplish wonders as long as you work diligently but don’t overwork. (PS: You won’t literally expire if you relentlessly push yourself with nonstop hard exertion, but you will risk compromising your mental health. So don’t do it!)

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Typically, human fertility is strongest when the temperature is 64 degrees Fahrenheit. But I suspect you will be an exception to the rule in the coming months. Whether it’s 10 below or 90 in the shade, your fertility will be extra robust—literally as well as psychologically and spiritually. If you are a heterosexual who would rather make great art or business than new babies, be very attentive to your birth control measures. No matter what your gender or sexual preference is, I advise you to formulate very clear intentions about how you want to direct all that lush fecundity. Identify which creative outlets are most likely to serve your long-term health and happiness.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Here’s a key assignment in the coming months: Enjoy fantasizing about your dream home. Imagine the comfortable sanctuary that would inspire you to feel utterly at home in your body, your life and the world. Even if you can’t afford to buy this ultimate haven, you will benefit from visualizing it. As you do, your subconscious mind will suggest ways you can enhance your security and stability. You may also attract influences and resources that will eventually help you live in your dream home.

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