Advice Goddess

By Amy Alkon

Q: My boyfriend of a year used to fly into rages. He and his ex had huge, ugly screaming fights. He now uses “mental tricks” to stay calmer. Obviously, rage is a bad thing, but it’s also a passionate thing. Is it crazy to worry that he doesn’t care enough about me to get really angry?—Fretting

A: When the cops come to the door, it usually isn’t to say, “Your neighbors called and said they heard you loving each other really loudly.”

Rage isn’t a sign of love; it’s a sign of bad emotion management. Research by doctor and behavioral neuroscientist Emil Coccaro finds that people who are prone to angry outbursts—responding to every slight like somebody just nuked Rhode Island—have exaggerated activity in part of the brain called the amygdala. This is a set of lima bean-sized structures that basically work as a security guard, identifying threats (or potential threats). As neuroscientist Joseph LeDoux explains it, the amygdala makes a “quick and dirty” assessment that danger is afoot—before rational thought can get involved—and releases chemical messengers to get us to leap into action, as in, “DO SOMETHING BEFORE YOU DIE!”

But because the amygdala is an evolutionarily ancient structure—one we share with sheep and hamsters—it’s not all that discerning. In fact, it makes a lot of mistakes. That’s because our chances of survival are better if we jump out of our skin at a rustling in the leaves that turns out to be nothing—rather than being all, “Yeah, that could be a deadly poisonous snake, but I’m not letting it get in the way of a good bong hit.” Still, socially, a hypersensitive amygdala can pose problems—like our going all Kill Bill on somebody’s ass when they, oh, graze our arm reaching for a coffee lid.

Chances are that what your boyfriend has learned to do through these “mental tricks” is redirect his attention from the amygdala to the newer, thinkier “frontal” parts of the brain. Yes, your brain is about as easily fooled as Aida, my 6-pound Chinese crested. The vet holds out a treat in one hand so Aida won’t get hopped up about the other—which is en route to her butt with the same size thermometer they use on the Great Dane.

Your boyfriend’s newfound cool is a sign—showing that he gets that rage is to problem-solving as a chain saw is to hangnail eradication. Of course, many people realize that they’re doing something totally counterproductive—and remain all pedal to the metal down Stupid Avenue instead of investing the effort your boyfriend did (and does) to respond differently. As for the notion that his not blowing his top means that he doesn’t care about you … right. Nothing says you’ve got the lukewarmies for somebody like treating them with love, patience and respect instead of giving in to your initial impulse to stab them in the neck with a fork.

Q: I’m a woman with a high sex drive. My boyfriend and I live a long plane ride apart. Months can go by between visits. On our first day together, he typically has erectile dysfunction. The next day, everything’s good. However, it’s hard to not take the first day personally. After we’re apart for a while, shouldn’t he be raring to go?—Concerned

A: A classic car that’s been garaged for the winter can also be hard to start, but that probably isn’t a sign that you need to lose a few pounds and sex up the undies.

Luckily for the car, it just needs a battery jump, not reassurance from the tow truck driver: “You’ve still got it, Impala!” For a man, however, first-day-back jitters can easily turn Mr. Happy into Mr. I Dunno What Happened. This occurs because emotions aren’t just feeling-flavored thoughts; they have physiological underpinnings. Anxiety is a cousin of fear. The same area in the brain—the amygdala—sounds the alarm, chemically messaging your body to prepare it to fight or flee. Your body, in turn, shuts down processes not required for that, like digestion, and diverts blood flow where it’s needed most: To your heart and the large muscles (in your arms and legs) that you’d use to hit back or run. (Sadly, the “third leg” does not count as an actual leg.)

The thing is, if your boyfriend doesn’t feel pressured to put on a big show, the show might just happen. On your first day together, tell him that you just want to cuddle and reconnect—and act like you mean it. Your overriding goal should be making him feel comfortable—though not the way an ER nurse would, by cutting off his jeans while he’s asleep with a big pair of surgical scissors.

Film: The redemption

By Richard von Busack

A smidgen of a movie, Elvis & Nixon is about December 21, 1970, the day when Elvis Presley (Michael Shannon) presented himself at the White House for volunteer duties as a “Federal Agent-at-Large” in the drug war to a baffled Richard M. Nixon (Kevin Spacey). In director Liza Johnson’s version, nice-guy Egil “Bud” Krogh (Colin Hanks) and Dwight Chapin (Evan Peters) help seal the deal with two Memphis Mafiosi—Jerry Schilling (Alex Pettyfer) and Sonny West (Johnny Knoxville, the most authentic Southerner in the movie). In a subplot grafted on somewhere during the rewriting stage, Schilling has to leave D.C. and get back home to L.A. so that he can meet his girlfriend’s parents for dinner.

Johnson glues the oddly matched pair together through compare and contrast subplots; both the King and the president coming from very poor backgrounds, both vets, both with a taste for sweets, both with obsessive love for their mamas. The similarity ends there—Elvis was on a swoon of numerology, with his eyes on a mystic horizon. Nixon exudes his usual Nixonian crapulence and awkwardness, seething over old snubs and uttering flatulent pieties mixed with out-and-out obscenities.

In this movie about two singular and lonely men redeeming each other, you’d need two well-matched actors. With all deserved respect to Shannon, he’s no one’s idea of Elvis—gaunt instead of well-fed, weird and covert instead of beguiling. Nixon is a wonderful part for any actor, be he John Cusack or Anthony Hopkins. Spacey has both the silhouette and the rancor to play this diabolical figure—and there’s a trick Spacey does of slowly revealing himself. You don’t see him move from behind his desk until half the film is over; in a movie this thin, something like Kevin Spacey unfolding himself seems like a big deal. (So does the punchline—the least huggy man in the history of Western civilization is in danger of receiving a manly abrazo.) Johnson includes details that are supposed to reveal more about the big day, but they all seem to be discursive—padding to overlook the lack of source material.

Elvis & Nixon plays at the Christopher B. Smith Rafael Film Center through April 28.

Theater: Shake it up

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By David Templeton

You’ve probably heard the Bard news by now. As of last Saturday, April 23, William Shakespeare has been dead for exactly four full centuries. While not a record for certain kings, queens, Egyptian pharaohs and Roman emperors, it’s definitely a high-water mark for the poet of Stratford-upon-Avon. To be sure, his late 16th century critics would have been shocked to hear that Shakespeare’s plays would still be popular 100 years in the future, let alone 400.

He’s certainly still popular in the North Bay.

“This is so exciting,” says Leslie McCauley, director of Santa Rosa Junior College’s upcoming presentation of Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night. “It’s fun to be doing one of Shakespeare’s most popular plays the way he wrote it,” McCauley says, noting that a cast of men will play all of the roles, including the women. “On top of that, we’re turning the Burbank Auditorium into the Blackfriars Theatre, in London—complete with ‘orange girls.’ It will be very memorable.”

Orange girls? “‘Orange girls’ were women who worked at the theaters selling nuts, oysters and oranges, which were a delicacy,” McCauley says. “Ours will be selling chocolate-covered orange slices. Sadly, we won’t be allowing our audience to relieve themselves in the theater the way they did in Shakespeare’s time.”

It will certainly be a relief to local Shakespeare fans that they needn’t travel to England, or even to Ashland, Oregon—home of the Oregon Shakespeare Festival, because the Bard’s works will be on full display for the remainder of the spring and summer.

Beginning April 29 at the College of Marin (COM), Shakespeare’s sublime real estate tragedy King Lear will howl, and crack its cheek within the college’s intimate Studio Theatre. Directed by legendary COM educator James Dunn, the story of an aging monarch who divides his kingdom among his three daughters will bring audiences right up into the face of madness and despair. Just the way Shakespeare wanted it.

As for what Marin Shakespeare Company is brewing up for its big quadricentennial celebration, expect elaborate presentations of Lauren Gunderson’s The Taming of the Shrew update, The Taming, along with Shakespeare’s nail-biting soap opera Othello, and yet another variation of Twelfth Night.

Whether or not there will be “orange girls” has yet to be announced.

NOW PLAYING: Find more information about upcoming productions at 707/527-4307 (Santa Rosa Junior College); 415/485-9385 (College of Marin) and marinshakespeare.org (Marin Shakespeare Company).

Upfront: Tree tidings

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By Tom Gogola

A signage war on the Sonoma-Marin County border on Red Hill Road reached a state of edgy ceasefire recently as competing pro- and anti-Donald Trump sentiments have been eliminated from public view. It was a terse and vicious rhetorical battle in a rancher-heavy part of the North Bay, a signage set-to whose various battles found symmetry in the escalating violence surrounding Trump and his supporters.

The first sign appeared around three months ago, on a side-of-the-road tree with a trunk that angled out into the road, right over the Sonoma border in Marin County.

It read, in plain military-style stencil: “Vote Trump.” Not long after it popped up, the sign disappeared, just like that. But then another sign appeared, a little higher up the tree, sturdier and yellow and sheathed in plastic. It read, “Trump 2016.” A real attention-grabber.

The sign apparently presented a too-juicy target for anti-Trump sentiment, and soon thereafter—and right around the time that Trump supporters were sucker-punching protesters and his campaign manager was manhandling a reporter—the entire middle of the sign was gouged out by what we’ll assume was the application of a large rock.  

The embattled and broken-down signage toughed it out for awhile, its gaping wound of victimhood there for the world to see—but was soon met with competing messages that started to appear on cement retaining walls located right near the Trump Tree, along the road.

“Trump = Hate” appeared one day, just yards from the Trump Tree, which appeared to spark a reaction from the Trump Tree sign-hanger, who took down the broken sign and reinstalled the “Vote Trump” stencil sign.

“Trump = Hate” stuck around for a few days before it was painted over, and right around then, at the beginning of April, the stencil-signage was gone, too.

Now there’s just a blank rectangle of wood on the Trump Tree. That was an interesting development, as it came when Trump was making a complete ass of himself during a March 30 Wisconsin town hall meeting hosted by MSNBC.

Most media reports about that town hall emphasized Trump’s suggestion that women who get abortions should be punished. But when a Wisconsin rancher asked Trump a question about undocumented labor in that state’s ranching economy, Trump changed the subject to California wine country grape-growers. Those are not the same thing, and there’s a little bit of a history that tells a story of King Grape’s emergence and dominance in the North Bay, sometimes at the expense of ranchers (and especially in Napa County).

Is the Trump Tree sign-hanger having second thoughts? Can’t say, but very shortly thereafter, the previously pro-Trump sign in ranch country went blank—as if waiting for another, better candidate who knows the difference between a cow and a grape.

“F**ck Trump” soon appeared on another nearby retaining wall, to drive the point home; it, too, has since been painted over.

As of this week, all is quiet on Red Hill Road and Trump is steamrolling toward a victory in the GOP primary with a big win in New York and new polls showing that he’s blowing Ted Cruz out of the water in California, whose primary is on D-Day plus one, June 7. Whether Trump’s attempted pivot to a “more presidential” public posture in recent days will be rewarded with a new Trump Tree sign of support—that remains to be seen.

Best of Marin 2016: Everyday

One of Richard Hamilton’s works of art is titled, ‘Just What is it That Makes Today’s Homes so Different, so Appealing?’

Well, we’d have to say that in Marin, that could be many things: The antiques you picked up from Dove Place, the used books from Rebound Bookstore, the albums from Red Devil Records—the list goes on. The only problem? There are so many cool places to find modern and attractive things, you’ll consider rearranging your life every month, in between shopping for vintage clothes at Knimble Clothing & Knick Knack and squeezing in a massage at Mill Valley Massage.—Molly Oleson

By Flora Tsapovsky

The good life

With a brand new Mill Valley outpost, Good Earth Natural Foods is now officially the mini-food empire that Marin County deserves. On any given day, the mere action of walking into Marin’s Best Natural Foods Store makes you feel healthy and wholesome; shelves upon shelves of grains and produce welcome you, and best of all, the deli section, complete with ice cream from Three Twins, is abundant and inviting. The cafe, Good Earth promises, is 100 percent organic, a notion that makes the tofu banh mi sandwich taste even better. In both locations, smiling families stock up on sugarless candy and kombucha, and attractive, lean folks with no day job sip on fresh-pressed juices. Among them, anyone can appreciate the good life, and, well, the good earth.

720 Center Blvd., Fairfax; 415/454-0123; 201 Flamingo Rd., Mill Valley; 415/383-0123.

More than words

Book Passage is so much more than a bookstore, and regulars know it well. Serene and cozy, it’s practically a home away from home, and booklovers can easily spend hours there without even noticing the time flying by. With its two spaces, one dedicated to fiction and magazines and the other to children and other topics, Book Passage—winner this year in the Best Bookstore (New) category—occupies a hefty amount of space, filled to the brim with wonderful books. These things, however, make this place an outstanding gem—their events, classes, workshops and programs illuminating Marin County’s cultural life with bigshot names like Nigella Lawson and Nick Hornby, and the coffee shop, where you can sit and flip through any book and magazine, if you ask politely.

51 Tamal Vista Blvd., Corte Madera; 415/927-0960.

Sexy time

The winner of three categories—Best Gift Shop, Best Lingerie Shop and Best Erotica Store—Pleasures of the Heart is indeed a hall of pleasurable toys, accessories, books and anything sexy. The store does a great job of staying on top of all of the latest niche trends, from the slickest vibrator to the most educational books on passion and desire. And the fun that the owners are having with curating it, really shows. Full-on bachelorette party gear, seductive lingerie and tasteful games—it’s all here waiting to be discovered. And the general atmosphere of acceptance makes shopping here easy and fun. Can’t get enough? For private groups, the store throws parties that include lectures on sexy topics, champagne and playing around with accessories.

1310 Fourth Street, San Rafael; 415/482-9899.

Sunny surprises

It takes a lot of courage to open a store in Olema, a tiny intersection of a town. The Shop, an ‘unlikely mercantile’ of local designers and artisans, is a success; every bit the cool, urban boutique, magically transplanted to the edge of Marin. Bringing together handcrafted jewelry, paper products, vintage goods and sturdy denim aprons, this sunny, photogenic store—crowned Marin’s Best New Retail Business Opened in 2015—is full of surprises, and it’s perfect for gift-hunting and souvenir-picking. But that’s not all—live music shows, advertised on the store’s website, along with occasional craft shows, add a communal aspect that make The Shop even more of a destination.

9960 Shoreline Hwy., Olema; 415/237-1731.

Chic factor

What makes a boutique great? Viva Diva Boutique, a San Rafael institution of sorts, provides a comprehensive answer: Contemporary, ageless style, friendly atmosphere and a selection of items embodying laid-back NorCal style that don’t compromise on the chic factor. The list of featured designers and brands goes on and on; Bella Dahl, Ella Moss, Tolani, Mother Denim, Free People and many more fashionable favorites cater to every occasion you can think of—from music festivals to weddings. Loyal devotees keep going back to Marin’s Best Women’s Clothing Store every season (or, quite possibly, every week).

1327 Fourth Street, San Rafael; 415/256-8380.

Victorian escape

The Panama Hotel has it all, including a Bordello Room. The small, historic hotel was built in 1910 and has changed owners three times, all the while maintaining its Victorian charm. The Panama, it seems, has achieved the highest rank of hotel boutiquing—it manages to create its own little world within the premises, a world you’ll never want to leave, thanks to a number of factors. First, it’s tucked away in a pleasant residential neighborhood, but not too far from downtown. Second, its shady courtyards and leafy balconies create a sense of adventure and encourage romance. Third, its restaurant is perfectly affordable for its mouthwatering takes on classics. And finally, Marin’s Best Boutique Hotel manages to fuse modern style with heritage Hispanic notes, making this the perfect little California escape.

4 Bayview Street, San Rafael; 415/457-3993.

Driving me crazy

Thank you, traffic, for making us feel like true urban dwellers. Thank you, Marin County roads masterminds, for not foreseeing the tech boom and linking all of the county’s cities with the one-and-only Highway 101. Thank you, ongoing construction in San Rafael and beyond, for making getting in and out of the county’s biggest hub quite unbearable, and a special thanks to Petaluma residents who choose to work in San Francisco and flood 101 South every morning during the week. On a more serious note, Marin County’s traffic—this year’s Best Reason to be Late for Work—doesn’t look like it’s going to go away any time soon. No better time to invest in a helicopter, financed by a friend working at a startup.

Everywhere.

Home away from home

Tourists actually take the ferry from San Francisco to wander around Sausalito, Marin County’s Best Town Other Than Your Own. And that’s completely understandable. Of all of Marin County towns, Sausalito is the one with countless irresistible features that even locals can’t stay away from. Highlights include the marina—with its picturesque masts against the blue sky, the little art galleries hidden in alleys and Sushi Ran, the best sushi restaurant in the whole Bay Area, according to some. Sausalito has some awesome parts to it, but the whole is even greater. It feels like a Sicilian vacation town rather than a place close to yours. 

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Everyday winners:

Best Antique Store

Dove Place

306 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Anselmo.

415.453.1490.

Best Art Supply Store

Rileystreet Art Supply

1138 Fourth Ave., San Rafael

415.457.2787.

Best Frame Shop

Cheap Pete’s Frame Factory Outlet

221 Third St., San Rafael.

415.455.8055.

Best Gift Shop

Pleasures of the Heart

1310 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.482.9899.

Best Florist

Natalie & Daria’s Flowers & Gifts

479 Entrada Drive., Novato.

415.883.0522.

Best Bookstore—New

Book Passage

51 Tamal Vista Blvd., Corte Madera.

415.927.0960.

Best Bookstore—Used

Rebound Bookstore

1611 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.482.0550.

Best Record/CD Store

Red Devil Records

894 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.8999.

Best Music Store

The Magic Flute

182 Northgate Drive, San Rafael.

415.479.3112.

Best Eco-Conscious Business

Woody’s Yogurt Place

802 Strawberry Village, Mill Valley.

415.383.4881.

Best New Retail Business Opened in 2015

The Shop

9960 Shoreline Hwy., Olema.

415.237.1731.

Best Grocery Store

Mollie Stone’s Markets

100 Harbor Drive, Sausalito.

415.331.6900.

270 Bon Air Center, Greenbrae.

415.461.1164.

Best Ethnic Market

Mi Pueblo Food Center

330 Bellam Blvd., San Rafael.

415.578.3971.

Best Natural Foods Store

Good Earth Natural Foods

720 Center Blvd., Fairfax; 415.454.0123; 201 Flamingo Rd., Mill Valley; 415.383.0123.

Best Hydroponic Supply Store

Marin Hydroponics

721 Francisco Blvd. E., San Rafael; 415.482.8802; 55 Frosty Lane, Novato; 415.233.4104.

Best Men’s Clothing Store

Gene Hiller Menswear

729 Bridgeway, Sausalito,

415.332.3636.

Best Women’s Clothing Store

Viva Diva Boutique

1327 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.256.8380.

Best Vintage Clothing Store

Knimble Clothing & Knick Knack

851 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.454.4009.

Best Resale/Consignment Shop

Knimble Clothing & Knick Knack

851 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.454.4009.

Best Shoe Store

Sole Desire

5800 Northgate Mall, San Rafael; 415.472.1202; 181 Bon Air Center, Greenbrae; 45.419.8130.

Best Costume/Festival Apparel

Belrose Theater

1415 Fifth Ave., San Rafael.

415.454.6422.

Best Jewelry Store

Johann Paul Jewelers

272 Bon Air Center, Greenbrae.

415.461.1866.

Best Lingerie Shop

Pleasures of the Heart

1310 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.482.9899.

Best Erotica Store

Pleasures of the Heart

1310 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.482.9899.

Best Beauty Supply Store

Marin Beauty Company

140 Vintage Way, G-11, Novato; 415.892.3600; 417 Third St., San Rafael; 415.454.4500.

Best Facial

Evo Spa

800 Redwood Hwy, Frontage Road #216, Mill Valley.

415.383.3223.

Best Hair Salon

Edward’s Salon

655 Redwood Hwy. #140, Mill Valley.

415.381.1950.

Best Nail Salon

Three Sisters Salon

963 Grand Ave., San Rafael.

415.454.9662.

Best Body Art Place

Spider Murphy’s

1006 Lincoln Ave., San Rafael.

415.460.6979.

Best Massage

Mill Valley Massage

61 Camino Alto., Ste. 102, Mill Valley.

415.381.1855.

1007 C St., San Rafael.

415.460.1855.

Best Hospital/Health Care Clinic

Kaiser Permanente

Kaiserpermanente.org.

Best Senior Living Facility

The Redwoods

40 Camino Alto, Mill Valley.

415.383.2741.

Best Optical Store

20/20 Optical

1127 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415.453.2020; 5800 Nave Dr., #F, Novato; 415.883.2015.

Best Plastic Surgeon

Dr. Yngvar A. Hvistendahl

350 Bon Air Road #300., Greenbrae.

415.925.2880.

Best Travel Agent

Redwood Skytours

1204 Fifth Ave., San Rafael.

415.454.4932.

Best Hotel/Resort

Cavallo Point Lodge

601 Murray Circle, Sausalito.

415.339.4700.

Best Boutique Hotel

Panama Hotel

4 Bayview St., San Rafael.

415.457.3993.

Best Day Spa

Evo Spa

800 Redwood Hwy. Frontage Road #216., Mill Valley.

415.383.3223.

Best Wedding Venue

Marin Art & Garden Center

30 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., Ross.

415.455.5260.

Best Reason to Be Late for Work

Traffic

Best New Cars

Toyota Marin

445 Francisco Blvd. East, San Rafael.

415.521.1382.

Best Used Cars

Toyota Marin

445 Francisco Blvd. E., San Rafael.

415.521.1382.

Best Motorcycle Shop

Motopia

1121 Francisco Blvd. E., San Rafael.

415.457.1010.

Best Auto Detailing

Matt and Jeff’s Car Wash & Detail Center

125 Vintage Way, Novato.

415.899.9952.

Best Auto Body Shop

Blake’s Auto Body

31 Bay St., San Rafael.

415.459.6115.

861 Vallejo Ave., Novato.

415.897.8824.

Best Car Repair

Easy Automotive

747 Lincoln Ave., San Rafael.

415.457.1688.

Best Tire Shop

Cains Tire

1531 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.453.2942.

Best Town Other Than Your Own

Sausalito

Best Computer Repair Service

Renew Computers

446 Du Bois St., San Rafael.

415.457.8801.

Best Digital Creative Services

Speedpro Imaging

1495 Francisco Blvd. E., Ste. A, San Rafael.

415.275.3344.

Best Consumer Bank

Bank of Marin

Bankofmarin.org.

Best Business Bank

Bank of Marin

Bankofmarin.org.

Best Credit Union

Redwood Credit Union

209 Third St., San Rafael; 707.545.4000; 1010 Grant Ave., Novato; 800.479.7928.

Best Nonprofit

Whistlestop

930 Tamalpais Ave., San Rafael.

415.456.9062.

Best of Marin 2016: Family

Claes Oldenburg once said that his intention was to make an everyday object that eludes definition. “I’m happy if people smile at my work,” he said. “I mean, I’m very happy if they enjoy it, because it can be enjoyed that way as a frustration of the expectations.”

Many of us enjoy Oldenburg’s ‘Cupid Span,’ a monumental outdoor sculpture—created in collaboration with Coosje van Bruggen—of a giant bow and arrow shooting into the ground along San Francisco’s Embarcadero.

One wonders if Marin County’s mind-blowing natural landscape would make this sculptor’s eyes light up with public art possibilities—an upside down ice cream cone at the Bay Area Discovery Museum, a massive bowl of water at Dogbone Meadow or a colossal safety pin jutting out of the Marin Headlands.—Molly Oleson

By Flora Tsapovsky

Imagine that

A solid winner in the Best Baby Gift Store category for a few years in a row, A Child’s Delight is indeed delightful, and the slogan, ‘Imaginative Toys for an Enchanted Childhood’ couldn’t be more accurate. The selection is dazzling and comprehensive, and the baby section goes way beyond the pastel-colored minimum that many stores offer. The nicest thing about A Child’s Delight, besides its helpful staff members who masterfully balance children’s excitement and parents’ budgets, is the mix of modernity and nostalgia; you can find good, educational mobiles and puzzles along with the newest baby accessories on the market.

190 Northgate One, San Rafael; 415/499-0736; 412 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera; 415/945-9221.

Miles of magic

Five Little Monkeys, a magical store, will make the most serious of adults want to go back in time. With three Bay Area locations in addition to the Novato store (Albany, Burlingame and Walnut Creek), Marin’s Best Toy Store manages to feel intimate and uber-local, with the best selection of toys, books and games for miles and miles. They carry every type of Lego imaginable, ‘green’ environmentally friendly dolls, board games that adults can secretly enjoy and plenty of stuffed “friends.” The regulars rave about the gift-wrapping service—professional, fast and almost too pretty to unwrap (but trust your kids to ignore it completely).

852 Grant Ave., Novato; 415/898-4411.

Furry friends

Adopting a pet is a big deal, and the wonderful Marin Humane Society, the county’s Best Animal Adoption Center, makes it oh so easy. Along with the annual (and impossibly adorable) ‘Catapalooza,’ and the clever Animal Film Festival, the center offers much-needed classes, training and lectures for owners and pets themselves, consulting services and tons of free and approachable information. The adoption center is comprehensive and friendly as well; animals are listed online and come with extensive and touching bios, and the staff is ready for the most unexpected and neurotic of questions. The Kitty Corner, the new satellite kitten adoption center in San Anselmo, is also excellent.

171 Bel Marin Keys Blvd., Novato; 415/883-4621.

Good as new

A consignment children’s clothing store? A truly genius, if not new, idea. In Marin County, however, this niche doesn’t seem to bloom, and Outgrown—what an appropriate name—does the job remarkably, catering to parents who’d rather spend their money on educational DVDs. The modest prices and good selection of gently used children’s clothes, toys, cribs and other items that kids go through way too quickly, make the Best Children’s Clothing winner a pilgrimage destination for young families mindful of budgets and the environment. As with adult consignment, finds can be wild—from a Burberry sweater to an antique bib that everyone will love on Instagram; the quality is always high.

1417 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/457-2219.

Got it all

Marin residents can hardly complain about a lack of kid-friendly activities. A lot of them, however, tend to be nature-oriented and physical. What’s a parent to do if he or she desires an educational, indoor experience for their multi-talented, super-smart offspring? The Bay Area Discovery Museum—Marin’s Best Children’s Museum, Best Children’s Educational Center and Best Place for a Children’s Party—is the perfect answer. Adults love the spectacular views of the Golden Gate Bridge, and the kids go crazy for all of the hands-on, interactive experiences that this smartly planned destination offers. A mock ‘restaurant’ where kids can play waiters, a ‘cove,’ a Fab Lab that includes a variety of tools … you name it—the museum has it. And did we mention that the snacks are more than edible and the lemonade is organic?

Fort Baker, 557 McReynolds Road, Sausalito; 415/339-3900.

Nice haircut

Your furry friends, or “kids,” deserve the very best, and the best is what Doggie Styles is going for. Established in 1997 by certified groomer Janine Schengel, the Best Pet Groomer category winner of years 2008-2011 is back on top; customers love the no-nonsense approach and the precision, as well as the gentle, pleasant fragrances the salon uses. Most importantly, the staff always gives professional assessments and never tries to get unnecessary treatments and add-ons on the books. Sure, the happy customers can’t exactly talk or Yelp, but they come home soft, clean and presentable.

401 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415/381-1777.

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Family winners:

Best Baby Gift Store

A Child’s Delight

190 Northgate One, San Rafael; 415.499.0736; 412 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera; 415.945.9221.

Best Toy Store

Five Little Monkeys

852 Grant Ave., Novato.

415.898.4411.

Best Hobby Shop

Dollhouses, Trains & More

300 Entrada Drive, Novato.

415.883.0388.

Best Children’s Clothing

Outgrown

1417 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.2219.

Best Child-Friendly Restaurant

Finnegan’s Marin

877 Grant Ave., Novato.

415.899.1516.

Best Child Care

Miss Sandie’s School

2001 Center Road, Novato.

415.892.2712.

Best School (K-12)

Saint Isabella School

1 Trinity Way, San Rafael.

415.479.1561.

Best Children’s Educational Center

Bay Area Discovery Museum

Fort Baker, 557 McReynolds Road, Sausalito.

415.339.3900.

Best Children’s Museum

Bay Area Discovery Museum

Fort Baker, 557 McReynolds Road, Sausalito.

415.339.3900.

Best Place for a Children’s Party

Bay Area Discovery Museum

Fort Baker, 557 McReynolds Road, Sausalito.

415.339.3900.

Best Children’s Camp

Osher Marin JCC

200 N. San Pedro Road, San Rafael.

415.444.8000.

Best Dog Park

Dogbone Meadow

Novato Boulevard and Sutro Avenue, Novato.

Best Pet/Feed Store

Pet Food Express

Petfoodexpress.com.

Best Kennel

Bridewell Hilltop

325 Sunset Trail, Novato.

415.897.5471.

Best Pet Groomer

Doggie Styles

401 Miller Ave., Mill Valley.

415.381.1777.

Best Animal Adoption Center

Marin Humane Society

171 Bel Marin Keys Blvd., Novato.

415.883.4621.

Best Animal Hospital/Veterinarian

East San Rafael Veterinary

820 D St., San Rafael.

415.456.4463.

Best of Marin 2016: Home Improvement

“Outside is the world; it’s there,” Roy Lichtenstein once said. “Pop Art looks out into the world; it appears to accept its environment, which is not good or bad, but different—another state of mind.”

Lichtenstein would have found more than enough to work with in Marin’s talented home improvement environment: Whaam!—clean carpet, thanks to Atlas Window & Carpet Cleaning! Pop!—a comfy couch from Sunrise Home! Bam!—new tools from Jackson’s Hardware! So many fun, ordinary things … so little time.—Molly Oleson

By Tom Gogola

Get it together

Your interior landscape is a mess, your desk drawers are open but empty because the junk’s all on the floor and you clearly need an interior 2.0—so get your act together as you swivel around in the vintage chair and contemplate how the heck to organize it all. Changing Places, changing spaces—let the Best Home Organizer help you out.

4340 Redwood Hwy., Ste. F-100, San Rafael; 415/461-6257.

Home sweet home

Art, name no tub time. Emit but one mantra: Kitchens & More is a well-deserved winner in the Best Kitchen/Bath Remodeler department. Whether it’s a new pantry for your canned hams or that deep, lenticular bathroom sink you’ve had your eye on—these guys have got you covered front to back and vice versa.

4178 Redwood Hwy., San Rafael; 415/479-1000.

Color splash

Study of A Common Marin Dust-Up: After much discussion, the new plan for the yurt is to paint it the color of a soft, pink landscape, with splashes of reflective yellow, which is more of a study for a fashion plate than the simple task of painting a freaking yurt, but you’re in this together and she has the way with the imploring chromesthesia. Tamalpais Paint & Color, crowned Marin’s Best Paint Services, has a way with the customer service and has handled these sorts of issues before. Go to them.

5784 Paradise Drive, Corte Madera; 415/924-7321; 338 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415/388-1086.

Here comes the sun

You mean there are actually people out there who can deliver the sun on a cloudy day? We know lots of people like that out in cheery-foggy West Marin, and we know the solar guy who was supposed to put the panels in for Bob Weir while the Grateful Dead played its final shows last year—but the dude was a Deadhead and was at those selfsame shows, so the work had to wait until the deal went down. So there you have it. Solar will save the planet, and Solarcraft, Marin’s Best Solar Supplier, takes the best of the best technologies in a planet gone nuclear-hot and wraps them into a solar plan for your home. So you can tell PG&E where to stick that energy bill.

285-D Bel Marin Keys Blvd., Novato; 415/382-7717.

Flora and fawn over it

Hers is a lush situation—her skin bronze by gold as she contemplates a languid, floating flower in a stone fountain, distracted only by fleeting thoughts about the coming trends in men’s wear and accessories and her telecommuting gig at the fashion mag. Rayner Landscaping, Marin’s Best Landscape Design Company, has done it again, she thinks, drawn to attention by unicorn bonsai, and sworn to gratitude as she looks off to the soft, blue landscape beyond an eroding cliff that no landscape designers can withstand, try though they may.

19 Digital Drive, Ste. U, Novato; 415/279-9661.

Fix it, dear Harris

In a world gone nuts for expendable products with built-in expiration dates—an expectation of upgrades at every holiday or convenient juncture of cash, opportunity and Apple press conference—there still are places that you can bring a balky toaster to and get it fixed—or buy a new one if the toast keeps burning up, like a nightmare vision of the Orange Man actually getting elected president. You want old-school attention to the value of thrift, but you also want the latest in eco-friendly washing machines. Martin & Harris Appliances, Marin’s Best Appliance Repair, has more than a half-century of experience, and knows just what it is that makes today’s homes so different, so appealing.

2158 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/454-2021.

Got your back

Ordinary cleaners reach only so far, but Linda’s Cleaning Services in Novato—a first-time winner in a crowded field of annual contenders—takes top honors this year in the Best Cleaning Service category. Cleaners go quickly up the staircase with the vacuum—and the extra mile if, for example, your wee one’s cherry Tootsie Pop gets crunched into the sofa.

1208 Chase St., Novato; 415/328-9377.

Crystal clear

What the heck happened to the window? The glass is all smudged in the corners with fingerprints and it looks like one of the kids tried to draw Saturn on the pane with an orange crayon. The detached rings are admittedly once-removed from a conceptual-art masterpiece, but don’t tell Dada about the dirty deed as you make the call to Best Window Cleaner, Smart Window Cleaning, for a proper window wash—and congratulations for their shock-and-awe victory over the competition.

22 Commercial Blvd., Ste. B, Novato; 415/382-0999.

All the right moves

Johnson & Daly Moving & Storage, Marin’s Best Moving & Storage company, is the big-time deal for people on the move, with lots of celebrities on a client roster that spans 37 years as the county’s most well-endowed moving company. They’ve got a fleet of trucks and international shipping options if, perchance, you’re swinging on out to London for that new job. The hyperlocal hepcat on the move—they’ve got you covered, too, but make sure you send a postal card for mother from those new digs, wherever you should wind up. Your stuff will get there safe and sound.

110 Belvedere St., San Rafael; 415/491-4444.

Restored hope

The advent of the storage-box economy evokes post-capitalist cubist entrenchment, a last-resort, semi-anonymous zone for over-parceled possessions scurried about from various domiciles until finally, the Alamo of necessary neo-hoarding, you crawl through the micro-space searching for that scratchy—but perhaps valuable—copy of the White Album, with its inimitable snow-white minimalism on the cover, and the hidden messages, all of them, somewhere among the boxes and upside-down bicycles. Now here comes the Storage Wars crew with their remorseless and televised vulture-grab when the bill’s past due. Eff that. You want the Best Self-Storage company to be one that is forgiving, helpful, secure and affordable. Bellam Self Storage & Boxes takes the prize.

24 Bellam Blvd., San Rafael; 415/454-1983.

Golden key

Marin rocker Sammy Hagar has a three-lock box, but that’s a little bit paranoid, and perhaps too kinky for mother and child’s delicate ears. You really only need one key to unlock the door to a greater glorious embrace of secure well-being, and Best Locksmith, Transbay Security Service, it is.

2018 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/456-3860.

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Home Improvement winners:

Best Home Furnishings

Sunrise Home

831 B St., San Rafael.

415.456.3939.

Best Home Improvement Store

Jackson’s Hardware

435 Du Bois St., San Rafael.

415.454.3740.

Best Home Organizer

Changing Places

4340 Redwood Hwy., Ste. F-100, San Rafael.

415.461.6257.

Best Contractor

Hazelton Electric

319 Second St., Sausalito.

415.332.6048.

Best Kitchen/Bath Remodeler

Kitchens & More

4178 Redwood Hwy., San Rafael.

415.479.1000.

Best Carpeting/Flooring

Rafael Floors

822 Francisco Blvd. W., San Rafael.

415.456.3656.

Best Paint Services

Tamalpais Paint & Color

5784 Paradise Drive, Corte Madera.

415.924.7321.

338 Miller Ave., Mill Valley.

415.388.1086.

Best Solar Supplier

Solarcraft

285 Bel Marin Keys Blvd., Novato.

415.382.7717.

Best Landscape Design Company

Rayner Landscaping

19 Digital Drive, Novato.

415.279.9661.

Best Nursery/Garden Center

Sloat Garden Center

Sloatgardens.com.

Best Appliance Repair

Martin & Harris

2158 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.454.2021.

Best Cleaning Service

Linda’s Cleaning Service

1208 Chase St., Novato.

415.328.9377.

Best Carpet Cleaning

Atlas Window & Carpet Cleaning

118 Auburn St., San Rafael.

415.256.8321.

Best Window Cleaners

Smart Window Cleaning

22 Commercial Blvd., Ste. B, Novato.

415.382.0999.

Best Real Estate Brokerage

Bradley Real Estate

Bradleyrealestate.com.

Best Moving & Storage

Johnson & Daly Moving & Storage

110 Belvedere St., San Rafael.

415.491.4444.

Best Self-Storage

Bellam Self Storage

24 Bellam Blvd., San Rafael.

415.454.1983.

Best Locksmith

Transbay Security Service

2018 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.456.3860.

Best of Marin 2016: Food & Drink

“It’s hard to be creative and it’s also hard not to think what you do is creative or hard not to be called creative because everybody is always talking about that and individuality,” Warhol once said.

The eccentric artist would have had a field day in his studio with all things food and drink in Marin County. Fresh fruits and vegetables from the Marin Farmers’ Market would replace cans of Campbell’s Soup, Johnny Doughnuts baked goods would make for a mouthwatering diptych and Tyler Florence—the county’s Best Chef, and Stacy Scott—Marin’s Best Caterer—might pose for a Marilyn Monroe-esque portrait. And if Warhol were on an all-night painting bender? Smoky barbeque from Pig in a Pickle to the rescue.—Molly Oleson

By Stett Holbrook

Giddy up

There isn’t really any competition in the Best Cheese Shop category, is there? Cowgirl Creamery is the place for cheese in Marin County—and I dare say the entire Bay Area. Heck, sometimes I go in there just to look and breathe in all of those cheesy aromas. As good as the cheese is, Cowgirl is more than a cheese shop. Founders Sue Conley and Peggy Smith conceived of their business in 1997 as a way to celebrate local cheesemakers and dairies (back then, just Straus Family Creamery, Joe Matos Cheese Factory, Bellwether Farms and Redwood Hill Farm & Creamery), and help keep local agriculture alive. And it’s worked. Cowgirl Creamery was the catalyst for a new generation of West Marin food purveyors working to keep the area’s agriculture thriving. It all started with cheese. Red Hawk and Mt. Tam are classics, but the shop pulls in around 60 cheeses from far and wide. If you want to rub it in to your Midwestern relatives, take them here.

80 Fourth St., Point Reyes Station; 415/663-9335.

Burrito fix

Having been raised on carne asada burritos in San Francisco’s Mission District, I have what I think are high standards when it comes to burritos. I want them to be big—big enough so that first I think there’s no way I could finish it, then somehow do. I want them rolled properly in foil so they don’t fall apart in my hands and into my lap. And I want my burritos made with military-precision speed. If you can’t get to the Mission for your burrito fix, then High Tech Burrito, winner of Best Burrito, is the next best thing. They check all of the boxes. In fact, call me a heretic, but they might even be better than a Mission District burrito, given the variety of non-Mexican—but no less delicious—fillings they offer, like Thai peanut sauce, yellow curry and teriyaki. And I like the online ordering app, too. It makes good-quality fast food even faster.

484 Las Gallinas Road, San Rafael; 415/526-2188; 118 Strawberry Village, Mill Valley; 415/388-7002.

Perfect perch

There is an inverse relationship between the quality of a restaurant’s view and the quality of the food. The better the view, the worse the food. But I’m happy to say that Hilltop 1892 is the exception to the rule. From its perch above Novato, the once-private estate built in—yes, you guessed it—1892, offers 360 degrees of beautiful views of Marin County, the bay and beyond. Grab a cocktail from the excellent bar and savor the sight. Chef Todd Davies’ food matches the pretty scene. The “California country” menu draws on modern classics like red curry mussels, ahi spring rolls and crab cakes. Main courses like pan-roasted salmon, Kobe steak and frites and braised short ribs seal the deal. And don’t miss the duck-fat fries at this Best Restaurant with a View.

850 Lamont Ave., Novato; 415/893-1892.

Cozy cove

The food at Nick’s Cove is mixed. When the kitchen tries to get fancy, it can stumble. Best bets are the basics: Burgers, sandwiches and, of course, oysters. Always get the oysters, raw or cooked. But Nick’s is about more than the food. The setting on the windward side of Tomales Bay is unrivaled. If it’s rainy and windy, there’s no better place to be than inside, cozy and warm, as storms sweep across the bay’s waters. Sunny days are even better. The bar fairly oozes tales of drinkers and revelers from times gone by. Walk out on the pier and head to the boat shack at the end with a beverage of choice in hand and attempt to take it all in—the sights, the smells, the history, the beauty of it all. (I recently got a clothing catalogue in the mail that used the pier for its photo shoot.) Nick’s Cove is certainly the Best Beach Restaurant in Marin County, but it’s so much more. And what that is depends on who you are, where you’ve been and what Nick’s means to you. Go and make some memories.

23240 Hwy. 1, Marshall; 415/663-1033.

Got soul

Best Meal Under $20? Sure, I give Sol Food that. I’d also say that it’s one of the few restaurants I’d wait in line for. And come during the weekend or prime-time weekday lunch or pretty much anytime really, and you’re going to wait. That’s because Sol Food isn’t just a good value; it’s great food served in a lively atmosphere. And you won’t have to wait long. These folks know what they’re doing and somehow keep things moving when there’s a crowd—which is always. I’m a fan of the pollo al horno, tangy roasted chicken thighs marinated with oregano and garlic. It comes with rice, beans, a salad and a choice of French fries or fried platanos (get a little of both). The nap-inducing meal will set you back $15.75, with a few leftovers. For something a little lighter, go for the chuleton sandwich, a pan-fried pork chop with sautéed onions, jack cheese and mayo ($10.95). Wash it all down with a cold glass of ponche, half mango ice tea and half limeade. It’s worth the wait and your hard-earned dollars.

401 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415/380-1986; 901 Lincoln Ave., San Rafael; 415/451-4765.

Above and beyond

Fish is everything a fish restaurant should be. It’s on the water, it’s unpretentious and it serves an extensive menu of expertly prepared, fresh-from-the-water fish. Fish, winner of Best Seafood, goes beyond the usual suspects. A recent special featured fried halibut cheeks (kind of like a filet mignon of the sea). There are fish tacos made with whatever’s fresh and best. There’s a heaping Dungeness crab roll. (It’s OK to eat Dungeness now, so do it and support your local crabber.) And check out the Portuguese red chowder made with tomatoes, linguica, clams and smoked paprika. The best thing about Fish is that all of the fish (and shellfish) comes from sustainable sources. That’s something few restaurants can say. In fact, state legislators gave Fish the Sustainable North Bay Award in honor of the restaurant’s commitment to protecting wild fish populations and supporting local fishermen. What else could you want? Guinness and HenHouse Oyster Stout on tap? They’ve got that, too.

350 Harbor Drive, Sausalito; 415/331-3474.

Brew, baby, brew

There’s a certain brewery that uses a dog on the label, used to call Lagunitas home base and sucks up a lot of attention in the North Bay. They make some good brews, but Marin County has many other fine beer producers that deserve recognition. Iron Springs Pub & Brewery in Fairfax flies a little lower on the radar. But that (and its brews) is what makes this winner of Best Microbrew cool. The pub has a great neighborhood appeal. Out now is the Moonwalker Spring Bock seasonal brew, a strong (6.8 percent ABV) golden ale. While it’s all about IPAs these days and Iron Springs makes some excellent ones, it’s nice to see something other than boozy, hop bombs like Iron Spring’s easy-drinking Screaming Eagle lager, weighing in at just 3 percent ABV. Have two! Great live music at the pub is the perfect accompaniment to whatever you’re drinking.   

765 Center Blvd., Fairfax; 415/485-1005.

Shake sugaree

It’s kind of funny that a restaurant that prides itself on earnest, farm-focused cuisine gets the nod for Best Cocktails. To be sure, the food is good, but it competes with what’s shaking at the bar. And what a bar it is. It stretches pretty much the whole width of the place. It’s an adult candy store of booze, with lights dimmed pleasantly low. What’s good to drink? Every winter I think that I should invent a maple syrup cocktail. Too late. Farmshop’s mixmasters beat me to it with the Maple Heist: Templeton rye, lemon juice, maple syrup, egg whites and bitters. Check out the rootsy Real Roots, Amaro Montenegro, Rittenhouse rye and lemon juice mixed with ginger beer and rhubarb bitters. And I love Farmshop’s take on the Paloma When Doves Cry. It’s got Milagro silver tequila, grapefruit and lime, Squirt soda, smoked salt and grapefruit foam. And now it tastes bittersweet with the passing of the Purple One.  

2233 Larkspur Landing Circle, Larkspur; 415/755-6700.

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Food & Drink winners:

Best Bakery/Cafe

Rustic Bakery

1139 Magnolia Ave., Larkspur; 415.925.1556; Marin Country Mart, 2017 Larkspur Landing Circle, Larkspur; 415.461.9900; 1407 Grant Ave., Novato; 415.878.4952.

Best Cheese Shop

Cowgirl Creamery

80 Fourth St., Point Reyes Station.

415.669.9335.

Best Farmers’ Market

Marin Farmers’ Market

3501 Civic Center Drive, San Rafael.

415.472.6100.

Best Coffee Shop

Equator Coffees & Teas

244 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley; 415.209.3733; 2 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415.383.1651.

Best Diner

Shoreline Coffee Shop

221 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.388.9085.

Best Breakfast

Marvin’s Restaurant

1112 Grant Ave., Novato.

415.892.4482.

Best Brunch

Half Day Cafe

848 College Ave., Kentfield.

415.459.0291.

Best Business Lunch

Buckeye Roadhouse

15 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.331.2600.

Best Food Truck

Johnny Doughnuts

1617 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.450.1866.

Best Deli

Inverness Park Market & Deli

12301 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., Inverness Park.

415.663.1491.

Best Burger

Phyllis’ Giant Burgers

2202 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415.456.0866; 924 Diablo Ave., Novato; 415.898.8294.

Best Barbeque

Pig in a Pickle

341 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera.

415.891.3265.

Best Burrito

High Tech Burrito

484 Las Gallinas Road, San Rafael.

415.526.2188.

118 Strawberry Village, Mill Valley.

415.388.7002.

914-A Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Anselmo; 415.455.9176.

Best Pizzeria

Amici’s East Coast Pizzeria

1242 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.455.9777.

Best Neighborhood Restaurant

Finnegan’s Marin

877 Grant Ave., Novato.

415.899.1516.

Best Restaurant with a View

Hilltop 1892

850 Lamont Ave., Novato.

415.893.1892.

Best Waterfront Restaurant

The Spinnaker

100 Spinnaker Drive, Sausalito.

415.332.1500.

Best Beach Restaurant

Nick’s Cove

23240 Hwy. 1, Marshall.

415.663.1033.

Best New Restaurant Opened in 2015

Village Sake

19 Bolinas Road, Fairfax.

415.5241.5790.

Best Natural/Sustainable Restaurant

Cafe del Soul

1408 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.5400.

247 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.388.1852.

Best Outdoor Dining

Sam’s Anchor Café

27 Main St., Tiburon.

415.435.4527.

Best Romantic Dinner

The Caprice

2000 Paradise Drive, Tiburon.

415.435.3400.

Best Spot to Dine Solo

Aroma Cafe

1122 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.459.4340.

Best Dining after 10pm

Marin Joe’s

1585 Casa Buena Drive, Corte Madera.

415.924.2081.

Best Meal Under $20

Sol Food

401 Miller Ave., Mill Valley.

415.380.1986.

903 Lincoln Ave., San Rafael.

415.451.4765.

Best Chef

Tyler Florence, El Paseo

17 Throckmorton Ave., Mill Valley.

415.388.0741.

Best Caterer

Stacy Scott Caterers

415.299.2503.

Best Chinese Restaurant

Jennie Low’s

120 Vintage Oaks, Novato.

415.892.8838.

Best French Restaurant

Left Bank Brasserie

507 Magnolia Ave., Larkspur.

415.927.3331.

Best Indian Restaurant

Lotus Cuisine of India

704 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.456.5808.

Best Italian Restaurant

Il Fornaio

223 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera.

415.927.4400.

Best Japanese Restaurant

Village Sake

19 Bolinas Road, Fairfax.

415.521.5790.

Best Mediterranean Restaurant

Insalata’s

120 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Anselmo.

415.457.7700

Best Mexican Restaurant

Saylor’s Restaurant

2009 Bridgeway, Sausalito.

415.332.1512.

Best Seafood

Fish

350 Harbor Drive, Sausalito.

415.331.3474.

Best Thai Restaurant

Royal Thai

610 Third St., San Rafael.

415.485.1074.

Best Vegetarian Restaurant

Cafe del Soul

1408 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.5400.

247 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.388.1852.

Best Ice Cream

Fairfax Scoop

63 Broadway Blvd., Fairfax.

415.453.3130.

Best Frozen Yogurt

Woody’s Yogurt Place

802 Strawberry Village, Mill Valley.

415.383.4881.

Best Brewpub

Marin Brewing Company

1809 Larkspur Landing Circle, Larkspur.

415.461.4677.

Best Microbrew

Iron Springs Pub & Brewery

765 Center Blvd., Fairfax.

415.485.1005.

Best Happy Hour

Boca Tavern

340 Ignacio Blvd., Novato.

415.883.0901.

Best Cocktails

Farmshop

2233 Larkspur Landing Circle, Larkspur.

415.755.6700.

Best Bar

2am Club

380 Miller Ave., Mill Valley.

415.388.6036.

Best Sports Bar

Flatiron Saloon

724 B St., San Rafael.

415.453.4318.

Best Wine

TREK Winery

1026 Machin Ave., Novato.

415.899.9883.

Best Wine Bar

123 Bolinas Artisan Wine Bar

123 Bolinas Road, Fairfax.

415.488.5123.

Best Sommelier

Erick Hendricks, Hilltop 1892

850 Lamont Ave., Novato.

415.893.1892.

Best of Marin 2016: Arts & Culture

Tom Wesselmann once expressed that a thing he liked about collage was that he could use anything, which gave him variety in his work. “I’m interested in assembling a situation resembling painting, rather than painting,” he said.

We can think of a few situations that Wesselmann could assemble from Marin’s vibrant arts and culture scene, should he come back in another life: A woman contemplating a colorful painting at Seager Gray Gallery; a still life of a vintage camera, an apple and a bottle of Coke left behind by a young man at the Sausalito Art Festival; a couple embracing next to a bold bouquet of flowers at the Sweetwater, swaying the night away as the music plays.—Molly Oleson

By Charlie Swanson

We heart art

At the Marin Museum of Contemporary Art, it’s all about community. The center’s commitment to connecting arts and artists to art lovers is unparalleled. More than 40 member artists call the working studios home, and the general public gets to see their works for free.

Located at the picturesque Novato Arts Center at Hamilton Field, MarinMOCA fosters emerging artists and features works by national artists several times a year in its popular, seasonal juried exhibitions. The Best Museum in Marin also offers classes and workshops on a weekly basis, from beginning painting groups to intensive mixed-media techniques.

Currently, the museum is featuring its annual “Altered Books & Book Arts” exhibit, where visitors can bid on works during the show’s closing party on June 4. All proceeds from the live auction event will help support MarinMOCA’s ongoing art shows and community programs.

500 Palm Drive, Novato; 415/506-0137.

Risk-taker

Beginning as a grassroots organization half a century ago this year, the Marin Theatre Company (MTC) has grown into a leading provider of live productions, and it constantly premieres challenging and provocative new works by influential American playwrights.

This month, Marin’s Best Theater Company announced that its new resident playwright will be Lauren Gunderson, who will join the company for the next three years to produce and workshop four new plays alongside MTC artistic director Jasson Minadakis. Each of the new plays will target a different audience, from adults to very young children. The schedule will also include an adaptation of a well-known literary work, done in MTC’s signature risk-taking and inspiring fashion.

Gunderson is an award-winning playwright whose I and You had its world premiere at MTC in 2013. Later this year, her newest work, Miss Bennet: Christmas at Pemberley, a continuation of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice co-written with Margot Melcon, will also premiere at MTC.

397 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415/388-5208.

Pretty picture

My all-time favorite film experience took place at the Christopher B. Smith Rafael Film Center in 2006. The theater was screening experimental auteur David Lynch’s epic masterpiece, Inland Empire, and was welcoming Lynch himself to the event. By the time I found out that one of my favorite filmmakers was going to be showing his new film in my community, it was sold out. Yet the theater announced that a small number of rush tickets would be offered at the door on a first-come, first-serve basis.

Knowing what we had to do, my friend and I headed to Marin’s Best Movie Theater in downtown San Rafael at 11am, eight hours before the screening. For the whole day we sat on the sidewalk, sixth or seventh in line, eagerly waiting for the box office to open. That whole day, we talked Lynch with the other hopefuls and shared our theories on his challenging, avant-garde films and his seminal television show, Twin Peaks.

Thankfully, we got in. And we were not disappointed. Not only was Lynch there to introduce the film, he brought an old friend with him, singer-songwriter Chris Isaak, who appeared in the Twin Peaks prequel, Fire Walk with Me. Isaak played a couple of songs, joined by Lynch on maracas, and the director followed up the screening with a thoughtful, inspiring Q&A.

For me, this was a once-in-a-lifetime event. For the Rafael Film Center, it was par for the course. The theater regularly welcomes special guests to present their works and hosts gala events with renowned Hollywood icons and respected independent filmmakers. It also presents special programs like “Science on Screen,” and gorgeous 35mm prints of classic favorites. That’s why they’ve long been one of the best cinema houses—not only in the Bay Area, but in the nation.

1118 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/454-1222.

Best fest

Taking place Oct. 6-16, the 39th annual Mill Valley Film Festival (MVFF) is nothing short of an institution in Marin. Bringing the best films to the North Bay—not only from around the country, but from around the world—this year’s festival already has ticket packages available, and you may want to consider getting them early, as the event always sells out.

Last year, the MVFF, Marin’s Best Film Festival, opened its event with the film that would go on to win the Academy Award for Best Picture, the investigative drama Spotlight. Another Academy Award winner, Brie Larson, was on hand last year for the festival’s screening of the breakout hit Room, four months before she took home the Oscar for Best Actress for her performance in that film. Other guests last year included Sir Ian McKellen and actress Carey Mulligan.

As if the festival’s reputation for presenting the top films of the year wasn’t enough of an incentive for attending, MVFF debuted a new music program last year that offered nine nights of concerts at the landmark Sweetwater Music Hall in downtown Mill Valley, exclusively curated for the film fest.

Mvff.com.

Rockin’ it

Guitarists and vocalists Mark McGee and Nicole Sutton love what they do. First meeting in 1999 at a studio session, San Francisco native McGee and Detroit native-turned-Northern-California-transplant Sutton felt an immediate connection in their crossed paths and formed the melodic, genre-blending pop group Luvplanet at the turn of the century.

Over the course of four albums and 17 years, Luvplanet—Marin’s Best Band—has become a staple of the North Bay and greater Bay Area, performing alongside heavyweight headliners like Gregg Allman, the Mother Hips and Todd Rundgren, while also making time to perform at small, intimate venues, both as a full band and an acoustic duo.

It’s been more than five years since Luvplanet’s last album, but 2016 is an exciting time for the band, as McGee and Sutton, along with bassist Tommy Sisco and drummer Michael Amos, have finished recording their fifth full-length record, Rivertown, set for release on May 20 and available now for pre-order on the band’s website.

Luvplanet.net.

Good times

Family, community, sustainability and fun—no other town in Marin exemplifies all of these core values better than Fairfax, and no other event exemplifies Fairfax better than the Fairfax Festival. Combining all of Marin’s loves into one weekend of live music, arts and crafts, organic goods and more, Marin’s Best Music Festival returns to Contratti Park’s baseball field June 11-12 for its 39th year.

The weekend will commence with a family film night on Friday, June 10, before a downtown parade on Saturday morning kicks off the weekend’s festivities. In addition to three stages of entertainment, wholesome food and creative vendors, the festival includes an Ecofest with a pavilion full of interactive and educational activities that reflect Fairfax’s commitment to open space, GMO-free produce and other environmentally minded movements.

Fairfaxfestival.com.

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Arts & Culture winners:

Best Art Gallery

Seager Gray Gallery

108 Throckmorton Ave., Mill Valley.

415.384.8288.

Best Museum

Marin Museum of Contemporary Art

500 Palm Drive, Novato.

415.506.0137.

Best Movie Theater

Christopher B. Smith Rafael Film Center

1118 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.454.1222.

Best Film Festival

Mill Valley Film Festival

1001 Lootens Place, Suite 220, San Rafael.

415.383.5256.

Best Art Festival

Sausalito Art Festival

2400 Bridgeway, #220, Sausalito.

415.331.3757.

Best Charity Event

Marin Alfresco

Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, 200 N. San Pedro Road, San Rafael.

415.444.8000.

Best Theater Company

Marin Theatre Company

397 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415.388.5208.

Best Performing Arts Center

Marin Center

10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael.

415.473.6800.

Best Dance Studio/Performing Dance Company

Roco Dance

56 Bolinas Road, Fairfax.

415.456.1590.

237 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.388.6786.

Best Media Personality/TV, Radio, Print

Rick Clark, KWMR

Kwmr.org

Best Band

Luvplanet

Luvplanet.net

Best Music Venue

Sweetwater Music Hall

19 Corte Madera Ave., Mill Valley.

707.388.3850.

Best Music Festival

Fairfax Festival

Fairfaxfestival.com

Best Place to Dance

Sweetwater Music Hall

19 Corte Madera Ave., Mill Valley.

415.388.3850.

Best of Marin 2016: Fitness & Recreation

By Molly Oleson

David Hockney once said that the sources of inspiration for his work were wide. “I am sure my own sources are classic, or even epic themes,” he said. “Landscapes of foreign lands, beautiful people, love, propaganda, and major incidents (of my own life).”

If planted in Marin with an easel, the English painter might never feel the need to leave the rolling emerald hills of Mount Tamalpais, the forested trails of China Camp State Park and the long, sandy stretches of Stinson Beach. And if he were searching for subjects for his swimming pool series, he wouldn’t have to wander beyond Bay Club Marin or the Mt. Tam Racquet Club to find athletes underwater—or quietly pondering a splash.

Work it

“Whatever you need to live life to the happiest, it’s all at the Bay Club.” So when running those trails just isn’t enough, 60,000 square feet of luxurious facilities await at Bay Club Marin, Marin’s Best Health Club. Group exercise, squash, Pilates, swimming, yoga, cycling, basketball and more are all at your fingertips, and the world-class Sanctuary Spa—offering everything from therapeutic work to massage treatments to skin and nail care—lets you zen out after intense workouts. Bay Club Marin has a cafe, a registered dietician for nutrition needs and fitness, and summer and childcare programs for kids. For those looking to unwind, a Vintage Seventy-Seven Wine Club boasts handpicked vino, exclusive tastings and winery excursions.

220 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera; 415/945-3000.

Give it a whirl

According to Pelo Fitness, to have the life that you want, all you have to do is set the pedals of a bike in motion—the rest just follows. Marin’s Best Gym, which says it’s less of a gym and more of a “perfect formula,” offers top-of-the-line cycling equipment and “the best teachers on earth” to give visitors their “best ride ever.” Designed to burn fat and build lean, strong muscles, Pelo’s programs will have you giving yourself a high-five in the mirror in no time. Here, you can do it all: Build endurance and cardiovascular health through cycling, build full-body strength through a TRX suspension system and learn how to make the best food choices through a nutrition program. If you find yourself lost in the whirlwind of an epic workout, all you have to do is remember Pelo’s motto: Spin. Grin. Repeat.

171 Third Street, San Rafael; 415/459-7356.

Actions and reactions

Body Kinetics changed my life forever!” So gushes a happy customer about Marin’s Best Pilates Studio. What’s to love? For starters, the neighborhood health club has been in business since 1990, and is family-owned by brothers Michael, John and Joey Hoeber. The environment is inviting and friendly, and in addition to caring about customers’ muscle strength, flexibility and cardiovascular endurance, these guys go the extra mile when it comes to nutrition, mindfulness, rest and recovery. In addition to Pilates, Body Kinetics offers yoga, Zumba, group cycling, personal training and massage. Three locations—in Mill Valley, San Rafael and Novato—make it easy to drop in to sweat whether you happen to be in Southern, middle or Northern Marin. If life gets in the way one day, not to fear: A blog on the club’s website offers inspiring ideas for your health and well-being.

1800 Second St., San Rafael; 415/457-2639; 1530 Center Road, Novato; 415/895-5965; 639 E. Blithedale Ave., Mill Valley; 415/380-8787.

Strike a pose

You and your co-workers work hard all week, and by the time Friday rolls around, a drink at the local dive sounds pretty darn good. But then someone in the group mentions a class at Red Dragon Yoga. There’s an angel on your left shoulder whispering, “Yoga,” and a devil on your right whispering, “Beer.” What’s a gal to do? Yoga trumps that cold one, and you thank your friends—and yourself—for choosing Marin’s Best Yoga Studio. Multiple Bikram and Power Yoga classes are offered throughout the day at two different locations, so yogis can choose to practice 26 postures in a 105-degree room, or a flowing series of movements linked together with breath. Red Dragon promises that you will sweat—and man, does it feel good to rid yourself of the toxins and stress that have been building up. It’s the perfect way to begin or end the day feeling revitalized and ready for anything.

438 Miller Ave., Mill Valley; 415/381-3724; 1701 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/306-7904.

Rich traditions

Mental growth and physical health are at the core of San Rafael Martial Arts’ commitment to excellence. Teaching Kung Fu, Tai Chi and Self Defense to children and adults, this studio passes on not only discipline, but also confidence and respect. Classes like Lion Dancing, rich in Kung Fu history, keep tradition alive. All levels are welcome at Marin’s Best Martial Arts Studio, so no need to have years of experience under your belt. One of the best parts about venturing into new territory? Your first class is free.

861 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/459-5425.

Time to play

At Mt. Tam Racquet Club, it’s all about a healthy lifestyle—and a robust social life. Joining Marin’s Best Tennis Club means access to tennis courts, a basketball court, cardio equipment, a pool, steam room and a Jacuzzi. But it also means becoming part of a community established in 1974. So you can challenge your best friends to a friendly game of tennis, and then clink glasses courtside and laugh about those crazy serves that had you scrambling, hustling and diving. Life is short. Work hard; play hard.

One Larkspur Plaza Drive, Larkspur; 415/924-6226.

How they roll

Bikes are life at Mike’s Bikes, Marin’s Best Bike Shop. Founded in 1964 as one of the county’s very first Schwinn shops, this institution has always been committed to finding new and creative ways to get more people on two wheels. Walk in with a flat tire after loving your bike a little too much, and someone always greets you with a smile and a quick fix. Overheard conversations about Marin’s best trails create a buzz of excitement, and make you antsy to get back out there and explore. Cyclists can “learn to spin wrenches like a pro” at free tech clinics, and group rides—ranging in difficulty level from beginner to advanced—help build the cycling community. There’s even a ride to a North Bay brewery. Need we say more?

836 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/454-3747; 1 Gate 6 Road, Sausalito; 415/332-3200.

Flying high

Proof Lab, the place to be when it comes to surf and skate gear, is nestled in Tam Junction, right before the turnoff to Mt. Tam and beaches galore. Supporting small businesses is part of the mission here, and places like Shredders Skate Camp, Big Dog Surf Camp, Magic West Music School and Studio 4 Art are all in it together, creating a colorful community with much to offer. Equator Coffees & Teas is located inside Proof Lab—Marin’s Best Skate Shop and Best Surf Shop—so you can load up on caffeine before hitting the surf. And there’s even a small, indoor skate park. A new and inviting location in downtown San Rafael gives these guys central visibility on a bustling street—soon to be full of people from all walks of life enjoying the weekly farmers’ market.

244/254 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley; 415/380-8900; 415/888-2553; 907 Fourth St., San Rafael; 415/457-1625.

The full list of Best of Marin 2016 Fitness & Recreation winners:

Best Health Club

Bay Club Marin

220 Corte Madera Town Center, Corte Madera.

415.945.3000.

Best Gym

Pelo Fitness

171 Third St., San Rafael.

415.459.7356.

Best Pilates Studio

Body Kinetics

1800 Second St., San Rafael.

415.454.2639.

1530 Center Road, Novato.

415.895.5965.

639 E. Blithedale Ave., Mill Valley.

415.380.8787.

Best Yoga Studio

Red Dragon Yoga

438 Miller Ave., Mill Valley.

415.381.3724.

1701 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.306.7904.

Best Martial Arts Studio

San Rafael Martial Arts

861 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.459.5425.

Best Tennis Club

Mt. Tam Racquet Club

1 Larkspur Plaza Drive, Larkspur.

415.924.6226.

Best Bike Shop

Mike’s Bikes

836 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.454.3747.

1 Gate 6 Rd., Sausalito. 415.332.3200.

Best Skate Shop

Proof Lab

244/254 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.380.8900; 415.457.1625.

907 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.1625.

Best Surf Shop

Proof Lab

244/254 Shoreline Hwy., Mill Valley.

415.380.8900; 415.457.1625.

907 Fourth St., San Rafael.

415.457.1625.

Best Beach

Stinson Beach

Stinsonbeachonline.com.

Best Park/Open Space

China Camp State Park

Parks.ca.gov.

Best Hiking Trail

Dipsea

Nps.gov.

Best Bike Route/Trail

Mount Tamalpais State Park

Park.ca.gov.

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