Upfront: DEA on Arrival?

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When downstate Democratic congressman Ted Lieu introduced an amendment earlier this year to slash funds sent to the Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) devoted to cannabis eradication, he had Colorado in mind more than California.

Lieu, a frequent and outspoken critic of President Donald J. Trump on a range of issues, offered his budget amendment to address “a pretty idiotic scenario” in Colorado, says Lieu’s chief of staff, Marc Cevasco.

“You have taxpayers who are paying to fund two sides of a battle over marijuana,” says Cevasco, as the legalization-leader state of Colorado angles to reap a pot-tax bonanza even as the federal government has set out to kill the very plant that would contribute to the state tax coffers.

Trump, says Cevasco, has ceded the question of a cannabis crackdown to Attorney General Jeff Sessions who “has been kind of militant about it, and it seems like it’s getting worse and not better.”

This dynamic of enforcement agencies being at odds plays out in Lieu’s home state, too, highlighting a harvest-season irony in the post-Proposition 64 era in a state where pot politics and eradication priorities are decidedly in flux: Counties in California continue to accept DEA eradication money, but now it’s to help support the California push on legalization—even as the DEA is committed to holding up a federal ban on medical and recreational cannabis use.   

Huh? The success of Proposition 64, which legalized recreational use of cannabis for Californians and will be fully implemented in 2018, is predicated on a robust law enforcement eradication of black market cannabis in the state. Counties from Sonoma to Siskiyou continue to accept DEA funds devoted to eradicating cannabis, even as the state as a whole has legalized a plant that remains illicit under federal law. Recently, the DEA was a lead agency in a series of Sacramento raids in July that yielded more than 7,500 illegal plants grown indoors, plus some weapons, as reported by the Sacramento Bee.

Is the DEA’s presence in California actually helping the state clear out its illegal grows to make way for legalization?  

“It’s a fair point, an interesting development,” says Cevasco with a laugh about the federal-state push-pull. “In an ideal scenario, we’d all be rowing in the same direction. If the DEA is actually assisting the state of California to set up a legal marketplace, the congressman would approve of that. In a weird, ironic way this is kind of divine justice.”  

Lieu’s amendment sought to extract $16 million in cannabis-eradication funds, says Cevasco, out of a Department of Justice (DOJ) budget that comes in at around $300 million annually.

“The goal is to defund the cannabis-eradication programs,” he says of the Lieu amendment, which passed with support from House Speaker Paul Ryan, R-Wisconsin, and Cevasco says that in the best available light, the effort may build some momentum for next year’s budget fight—which will take place after California has launched full-throttle into legal cannabis.

But eradication of the black market is a key piece to a successful rollout of legalization in California—even as the black market will likely continue to feed the cannabis-consuming beast that is most of the United States. Generally speaking, in order for legalization to work, the price of legal cannabis can’t be higher than black market cannabis, for the simple reason that people will buy cheaper weed when they can.  

State lawmakers, such as Mike McGuire, D-Healdsburg, who has supported the thrust of Proposition 64, have also pushed for an end to outlaw grows. McGuire has many such grows in his district, which comprises the Emerald Triangle. The illicit grows pop up on occasion along the banks of creeks that support endangered species, most notably the coho salmon and steelhead trout.

According to the California Statewide Law Enforcement Association, a June 2017 raid on an illegal grow site in Sonoma County’s Jack London State Park was undertaken—without assistance from the Sonoma County Sheriff’s Office (SCSO)—by the CDFW and State Parks officials who used a helicopter to help eradicate 7,566 plants, a weapon, fertilizer and pesticides.

Interim Sonoma County Sheriff Rob Giordano says that the new legal regime has meant the end of large-scale, county-driven eradication efforts. “We’re out of the cannabis business,” he says.

Giordano stressed that SCSO would always be involved in unsavory aspects of the drug trade: Murders, robberies, illegal weapons and home invasions. But as the county eases off from raiding local grows, local cannabis-enforcement efforts will fall to the county’s Permit and Resource Management Department, the code-enforcement department charged with overseeing the county’s legalization rollout. He also noted that Sonoma County cut some $5 million in the sheriff’s office budget this year, with nearly $800,000 cut for the sheriff’s narcotics unit, historically tagged with the responsibility of eradicating illegal cannabis grows.  

“The real landscape change [for SCSO],” he says, “is the $5 million lost and the fact that cannabis is now legal.”

California has its own marijuana-eradication unit, the California Department of Justice’s Campaign Against Marijuana Planting (CAMP). The task force partners with local, state and federal agencies to eradicate cannabis on private and public land that endangers public safety and the environment. The California Department of Justice’s office didn’t respond to questions about CAMP in time for the Pacific Sun deadline.

Inge Lundegaard is the cannabis point person for Marin County, which unlike Sonoma County, hasn’t fully embraced legalization and its potential for local business and tax bonanzas. As it awaits the legal rollout in 2018, Marin County has nixed medical-dispensary storefronts and is now considering a delivery-only medical-cannabis ordinance.    

The county, with its vast western lands of various state, federal and local provenance, has had a historical problem with illegal grows on public lands, but Lundegaard says the county hasn’t busted a big grow since 2015.

As the North Bay plunges headlong into its final harvest season before legalization, Lundegaard says the Marin County Sheriff’s Office is “not aware of any illegal grows,” but the county is starting discussions around Proposition 64.

The question in Marin, she says, is whether the pivot to legalization will mean an increase or a decrease in illegal grows in the county.

In the meantime, Lundegaard says that the sheriff’s office work is focused on “responding to large grows and trying to deal with the cooperative collective model, which will become illegal and get phased out once the state starts licensing.”

For now, the operative word when it comes to future eradications large and small is uncertainty. The devil will be in the code-enforcement details in Marin County, where medical cannabis users and caregivers are allowed to grow their plants outdoors but adult recreational users will be forbidden from doing the same.

So how will the county figure out who’s who in order to eradicate the adult-use outdoor grows? Lundegaard regards this as an open question. There are many more where that came from.

Food & Drink: Shine On

For all its old-school charm and undisputed beauty, it’s been a while since San Anselmo had an exciting restaurant opening. Enter Madcap, the new solo project by chef Ron Siegel—previously of The Western Room at Rancho Nicasio. All signs point to success. Eater SF declared it one of September’s hottest new restaurants, and Yelpers give it four-and-a-half stars. The menu, a mix of Californian and Japanese touches, reads like a declaration of freshness and commitment to local product. We caught up with Siegel to find out what compelled him to open a place in Marin.

Pacific Sun: Why did you choose San Anselmo?

Ron Siegel: It’s where I live and there’s nothing like Madcap in the area. I want people to have options and maybe not have to drive to San Francisco for this type of dining.

PS: Japanese influences are so popular these days—how do you put your own spin on it?

RS: It’s not really a spin. It’s a style of food and dining I have been cooking since I won Iron Chef in Japan 20 years ago. It’s a lighter style of dining, which I prefer. We don’t use a lot of cream or butter. I prefer to focus on the ingredients. The upside is you feel really good after a meal here, not weighed down.

PS: How do you construct the main dishes and make sure that they excite diners?

RS: Of course I shop at the Marin Farmers’ Market where I can buy the best, most flavorful vegetables. I also buy from the best fishmongers and ranchers in the area. When you put those elements together with a restrained and clean approach—let them shine—they often end up being the best courses on the menu.

PS: What is the thought behind the $80 chef’s tasting menu?

RS: There’s really no target audience for this and I did not intend to offer it, but so many guests asked for one, so now we have it. Turns out it’s really popular and a great way to try a variety of menu items.

Madcap, 198 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Anselmo; 415/453-9898; madcapmarin.com.

Feature: Wonder World

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In case you haven’t heard, there are unicorns and rainbows on the corner of Adobe and Washington in Petaluma. Where residential morphs into rural sits a field covered in flashy polychromatic blooms, flanked on one side by a row of weathered barns. Welcome to Aztec Dahlias.

On this acre of neatly planted rows, 5,200 dahlias representing an impressive 400 varieties compose a living art gallery, an homage to the greatest artist of all time: Mother Nature. If you’ve never seen one, the dahlia is no ordinary flower. This extraordinary flower ranges from colossal, 10-inch-diameter “dinner plates” to dainty two-inch pompoms. With more tightly packed petals than the eye can comprehend and varietal names like Brittany Rey, Thomas Edison and Gay Princess, dahlias grow in the most fantastical colors—from deep orange with a flash of fuchsia, to highlighter yellow to the darkest red you’ve ever seen.

Originally grown for their edible tubers by the indigenous people of Mexico, dahlias began to be cultivated for their flowers in the late 18th century. In 1917, the first dahlia society in San Francisco was founded, and in 1926 the dahlia was chosen to be the official flower of the city of San Francisco. Thirty-seven years later, the stunning perennial was also selected as the national flower of Mexico.

But rather than a lengthy description of some incredible flowers, this is the story of a wild and wonderful dream come true.

A few years back, Freestone resident Kate Rowe spotted a lone potted dahlia plant for sale at the Friday night Occidental Farmers Market. The plant had just one ball-shaped bloom, yellow in the center, with raspberry-colored petals. A stranger to dahlias, Rowe describes being “completely smitten” upon seeing it, and then laughs, recalling that she had also met her longtime partner, Omar Duran, at the same market.

She didn’t buy the plant that week, but the next week when she went back, it was there again, still for sale. Rowe bought and planted her first dahlia that year, multiplying to three the next year, then 11, then 22. “That’s when I knew I had a problem,” she says.

At the time, she was working nearly 100-hour weeks as an event producer and software product manager. The dahlias were her healer.

“The flowers made me present when I was completely and utterly distracted, so caught up with things that were really not important to me in life, though I thought they should be,” Rowe says. “All of a sudden, I would be around one of these flowers, and, even just for a moment, I was completely taken and totally present.”

She was inspired to bring that same feeling to others. At the height of her home garden, she was growing 120 dahlias and had begun thinking about making it a business and dreaming about making it her life. And that’s when sweet serendipity began making appearances. In the midst of having these thoughts, Rowe received a phone call from a woman she had met at a party who was studying to be a life coach. She had finished her training and wanted to offer free coaching hours. Through these unexpected sessions, Rowe realized that following her dream was actually possible.

No sooner had she begun visualizing the possibility than she ended up having a fateful conversation that changed her life. While she was getting a haircut, engaging in some friendly salon banter, she mentioned her dream of one day becoming a dahlia farmer.

“No kidding?” her hairstylist replied. “You want to be a dahlia farmer? Well, I know someone who has a dahlia farm in Petaluma and is thinking of selling it.”

Turns out that Jamie and Rosa O’Brien, who had owned Aztec Dahlias for more than 15 years, had just started thinking about moving to Texas to open a restaurant. They had discussed it only with their immediate family, not publicly, but the O’Briens’ daughter happened to go the same hairdresser as Rowe. Rowe’s hairstylist put her in touch with Jamie O’Brien, who welcomed the idea, saying that he and his wife were indeed considering selling, but didn’t know who they’d sell to. While they originally had decided to sell in two to three years, a month later, they shifted gears and now wanted to sell as soon as possible.

Rowe and Duran discussed the idea. Duran was equally unhappy with his job as a bike builder, so they decided to go for it. Rowe held on to her job temporarily, to keep some steady income, and Duran immediately began shadowing O’Brien full-time to learn the ropes. On August 11, 2016 they were officially proud (and super-freaked-out) owners of a dahlia farm, a dream that was realized so quickly that it was almost hard for them to grasp.

But how does one go from tending a hobby garden to being responsible for thousands of flowers and an established business? On the business side, Rowe says that every previous position she had held ended up somehow preparing her for this moment, from orchestrating events to being a master of spreadsheets (“The whole field is a spreadsheet!”) and number-crunching. On the plant-care side, the answer is two-fold: Listening to the plants and tapping the collective wisdom of the vibrant dahlia community.

Even though dahlias have a reputation for being difficult to grow, Rowe believes that they’re not. “We’re just present to the plants,” she says. “For example, when you’re cutting the flowers all day long, if the stem is dry and woody, they need water, and if the stem is soggy, it has too much water. They start to talk to you after a while.”

She adds that it’s helpful that Duran is “the plant and animal whisperer,” with a natural knack for knowing what makes them happy.

Although Aztec Dahlias is the only dedicated dahlia farm in the area, Rowe gleaned invaluable insight from other California farmers, notably Kristine Albright of Santa Cruz’s Blackbird Farms and Kevin Larkin of Corralitos Gardens, who has 40 years of experience growing dahlias and generously spent hours on the phone sharing his wealth of knowledge.

The hardest part? Now a full-time farmer, Rowe thinks for a minute and says, “Waking up at 4:30am and working 18-hour days.” But she acknowledges that this is only their first full year, and her process is becoming more streamlined and efficient all the time. Plus, the overwhelming joy and sense of presence that they bring to people makes all the hard work worthwhile, she says. Luckily, only the summer high season is crazy.

Normally, tubers are planted in April; Aztec Dahlias’ flowers are planted in a greenhouse in February to ensure viable plants. They then get transplanted to the field in May and bloom from June or July to mid-October, going dormant on the first full rain. The tubers are then dug up by hand and sold to clients across the country, usually selling out, especially because Aztec carries so many hard-to-find varieties.

Rowe and Duran sell their flowers at six farmers’ markets a week, plus the Sonoma Flower Mart at Sebastopol’s Barlow on Wednesdays and Thursdays, as well as every day but Monday at their flower stand at the entrance to the farm, which is the best place to see them.

The flowers have a hypnotic effect, drawing a steady stream of dahlia lovers and enticing clientele to get to the markets a full hour before opening to get first pick. They usually sell out, even though they’ve been averaging 300 flowers for sale at each of the big markets.

Their customers “are just obsessed like we are,” Rowe says. “I’m definitely obsessed. They’re so magical.”

Rowe and Duran have big plans. Rowe would like to organize an event around the end of the bloom called the Bloomdiggity, where everyone comes and cuts flowers before they dig up the tubers. Aztec Dahlias has also started hosting design workshops and may add watercolor workshops and invite folks to use the space for photo shoots.

They have visions of making the farm into an even more inviting space by setting up tables and chairs where folks can bring their own libations and be surrounded by the field. They’ve intentionally planted their rows with wider aisles in between to encourage folks to walk around.

“That’s what people love,” Rowe says. “They just light up when they’re in the field. People come intending to stay 10 minutes and then end up staying hours. I want to create a space where people feel better just being here, to have this sense of awe and wonder. Whatever else is going on in their world, whether an illness in the family or the stress of work, gets left behind. It’s all rainbows and unicorns out here.”

Aztec Dahlias, 2478 E. Washington St., Petaluma; farm and flower stand open daily (except Mondays), 10am-5pm; find Aztec Dahlias at the Marin Country Mart Farmer’s Market, 2257 Larkspur Landing Circle, Larkspur; Saturdays, 9am-2pm; aztecdahlias.com.

Hero & Zero: Call for Volunteers & Call of the Wild

Hero: Tax forms are daunting documents and many people miss out on earned credits and deductions because they can’t afford professional tax preparation. The Marin AARP Tax-Aide program comes to the rescue by providing free income tax services for seniors and low- to moderate-income taxpayers. Want to make a difference in your community and be part of the rewarding program that assisted more than 2,000 Marin residents this past tax season? Volunteer. Tax preparation training for 2018 starts soon and no experience is necessary. If you’re squeamish about numbers, volunteer for a greeter or translator position. The season runs from February to mid-April and volunteers are asked to work a five-hour shift per week. To learn more, email ma**********@gm***.com, or sign up at aarpfoundation.org/taxaide.  

Zero: Folks in Mill Valley and Sausalito are rabid about a few coyotes making appearances in their neighborhoods. We hear tales of packs of coyotes trotting through the streets with their mouths full of pet cats, dogs and children. Peruse the community website Nextdoor and you’ll find fake news about local coyotes growing to giant sizes due to mating with wild wolves. One woman exclaims, “They are predators, no matter how cute you think they are. They need to be removed from the town!!!” Project Coyote suggests that we keep cats inside, walk dogs on leash and haze bold coyotes by throwing things near them and making loud noises. Our recommendation? Coexist with the wildlife you chose to live near or move to a concrete jungle.

Free Will Astrology

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Psychologists say that most people need a scapegoat—a personification of wickedness and ignorance onto which they can project the unacknowledged darkness in their own hearts. That’s the bad news. Here’s the good news: The coming weeks will be an excellent time for you to neutralize that reflex and at least partially divest yourself of the need for scapegoats. How? The first thing to do is identify your own darkness with courageous clarity. Get to know it better. Converse with it. Negotiate with it. The more conscientiously you deal with that shadowy stuff within you, the less likely you’ll be to demonize other people.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): If the weather turns bad, or your allies get sad or the news of the world grows even crazier, you will thrive. I’m not exaggerating or flattering you. It’s exactly when events threaten to demoralize you that you’ll have maximum power to redouble your fortitude and effectiveness. Developments that other people regard as daunting will trigger breakthroughs for you. Your allies’ confusion will mobilize you to manifest your unique visions of what it takes to live a good life.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): “If at first you don’t succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried,” declared comedian Steven Wright. My Great Uncle Ned had a different perspective. “If at first you don’t succeed,” he told me, “redefine the meaning of success.” I’m not a fan of Wright’s advice, but Ned’s counsel has served me well. I recommend that you try it out, Gemini. Here’s another bit of folk wisdom that might be helpful. Psychotherapist Dick Olney said that what a good therapist does is help her clients wake up from the delusion that they are the image they have of themselves.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): What is home? The poet Elizabeth Corn pondered that question. She then told her lover that home was “the stars on the tip of your tongue, the flowers sprouting from your mouth, the roots entwined in the gaps between your fingers, the ocean echoing inside of your ribcage.” I offer this as inspiration, Cancerian, since now is a perfect time to dream up your own poetic testimonial about home. What experiences make you love yourself best? What situations bring out your most natural exuberance? What influences feel like gifts and blessings? Those are all clues to the beloved riddle “What is home?”

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): You’re most likely to thrive if you weave together a variety of styles and methods. The coming weeks will be a highly miscellaneous time, and you can’t afford to get stuck in any single persona or approach. As an example of how to proceed, I invite you to borrow from both the thoughtful wisdom of the ancient Greek poet Homer and the silly wisdom of the cartoon character Homer Simpson. First, the poet: “As we learn, we must daily unlearn something which it has cost us no small labor and anxiety to acquire.” Now here’s Homer Simpson: “Every time I learn something new, it pushes out something old.”

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Filmmakers often have test audiences evaluate their products before releasing it to the masses. If a lot of viewers express a particular critique, the filmmaker may make changes, even cutting out certain scenes or altering the ending. You might want to try a similar tack in the coming weeks, Virgo. Solicit feedback on the new projects and trends you’ve been working on—not just from anyone, of course, but rather from smart people who respect you. And be sure they’re not inclined to tell you only what you want to hear. Get yourself in the mood to treasure honesty and objectivity.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): The poet E. E. Cummings said, “To be nobody-but-yourself—in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else—means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.” On the other hand, naturalist and writer Henry David Thoreau declared that, “We are constantly invited to be who we are,” to become “something worthy and noble.” So which of these two views is correct? Is fate aligned against us, working hard to prevent us from knowing and showing our authentic self? Or is fate forever conspiring in our behalf, seducing us to master our fullest expression? I’m not sure if there’s a final, definitive answer, but I can tell you this, Libra: In the coming months, Thoreau’s view will be your predominant truth.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): “When you do your best, you’re depending to a large extent on your unconscious, because you’re waiting for the thing you can’t think of.” So said Scorpio director Mike Nichols in describing his process of making films. Now I’m conveying this idea to you just in time for the beginning of a phase I call “Eruptions from Your Unconscious.” In the coming weeks, you will be ripe to receive and make good use of messages from the depths of your psyche. At any other time, these simmering bits of brilliance might remain below the threshold of your awareness, but for the foreseeable future they’ll be bursting through and making themselves available to be plucked.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Author Barbara Ehrenreich has done extensive research on the annals of partying. She says that modern historians are astounded by the prodigious amount of time that medieval Europeans spent having fun together. “People feasted, drank and danced for days on end,” she writes. Seventeenth-century Spaniards celebrated festivals five months of each year. In 16th-century France, peasants devoted an average of one day out of every four to “carnival revelry.” In accordance with current astrological omens, you Sagittarians are authorized to match those levels of conviviality in the coming weeks.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Kittens made French Emperor Napoleon III lose his composure. He shook and screamed around them. Butterflies scare actress Nicole Kidman. My friend Allie is frightened by photos of Donald Trump. As for me, I have an unnatural fear of watching reality TV. What about you, Capricorn? Are you susceptible to any odd anxieties or nervous fantasies that provoke agitation? If so, the coming weeks will be a perfect time to overcome them. Why? Because you’ll be host to an unprecedented slow-motion outbreak of courage that you can use to free yourself from long-standing worries.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): “The brain is wider than the sky,” wrote Emily Dickinson. “The brain is deeper than the sea.” I hope that you cultivate a vivid awareness of those truths in the coming days, Aquarius. In order to accomplish the improbable tasks you have ahead of you, you’ve got to unleash your imagination, allowing it to bloom to its full power so it can encompass vast expanses and delve down into hidden abysses. Try this visualization exercise: Picture yourself bigger than the planet Earth, holding it tenderly in your hands.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): I got an email from a fan of Piscean singer Rihanna. He complained that my horoscopes rarely mention celebrities. “People love astrological predictions about big stars,” he wrote. “So what’s your problem? Are you too ‘cultured’ to give us what we the people really want? Get off your high horse and ‘lower’ yourself to writing about our heroes. You could start with the lovely, talented and very rich Rihanna.” I told Rihanna’s fan that my advice for mega-stars is sometimes different from what it is for average folks. For Piscean mega-stars like Rihanna, Justin Bieber, Ellen Page and Bryan Cranston, for example, the coming weeks will be a time to lay low, chill out and recharge. But non-famous Pisceans will have prime opportunities to boost their reputation, expand their reach and wield a stronger-than-usual influence in the domains they frequent.

Homework: Imagine what your life would be like if you licked your worst fear. Describe this new world to me: Tr**********@gm***.com.

Advice Goddess

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Q: My boyfriend who dumped me says he wants to be friends (talk to me, see me sometimes), but I’m not ready for that because I’m still in love with him. A female co-worker said that if he can be friends, he was never in love with me to begin with—that if he’d really loved me, he’d hate me now. Is this true?—Feeling Worse

A: According to your office Socrates, “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways” should be answered with, “I slashed your tires. I sprinkled a strong laxative in your latte. And I’m looking forward to chasing you down the street while waving highly realistic replicas of scary medieval weapons … ”

Romantic love actually comes in two flavors—“passionate” and “companionate”—explains social psychologist Elaine Hatfield. Passionate love is the initial “wildly emotional,” lusty kind that wanes over time. Companionate love, on the other hand, involves “friendly affection and deep attachment,” and tends to have more staying power.

The difference between the two is best illustrated in relation to what we’ll call “car trouble.” Passionate love is what leads to the physics problem of how to have sex in a Porsche in your driveway. Companionate love likewise gets two people working out a physics problem in a car; however, it’s trying to collectively muster the NASA-level intelligence required to install an infant car seat.

Companionate love does sometimes lead to, “I hate you! I hate you”-style loathing, but typically just when there’s been a betrayal. But sometimes what people call love is really an unhealthy dependency with sparkly hearts painted on it—one person using the other as a sort of human grout, to fill the empty spaces in themselves so they can take a shortcut to feeling whole.

However, real love doesn’t suddenly curdle into hate. If the respect and the, “Wow, you’re an amazeballs person” and all the rest was there, that remains as a base—even when the relationship tanks. Even so, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you should convert your ex into your BFF. What you should do with respect to your ex, now and in the future, is whatever works for you, when it works for you. This may mean never seeing or speaking to your ex again—despite any, “Love becomes hate!” urging from your co-worker that you owe him a scolding phone call: “If you’d ever really loved me, you’d want the best for me now—the best undetectable poison money can buy!”

Q: Not to brag, but I’m a very intelligent woman with probably too many degrees. I’m always thrilled when a guy says he’s seeking “a smart woman.” However, a guy who initially said that just stopped dating me because he finds my intelligence “emasculating.” Do all men feel this way? Am I supposed to dumb it down to find a partner?—Smarts

A: Men don’t mind being corrected by a woman if it’s, “Oooh, yes … a little more to the right”—not, “I think you meant ‘whom,’ but hey, no judgments.”

The reality is, intellectually average women tend to have an easier time finding a partner. In research by social psychologist Lora E. Park, men imagining their hypothetical ideal partner expressed interest in a woman of high intelligence—even higher than their own. However, when they were in the same room with a woman and they were told that she scored far better on a math test (getting 90 percent correct versus their 60 percent), the men were less interested in exchanging contact info or planning a date with her.

Park and her colleagues speculate—per research by evolutionary psychologists reflecting women’s preference for male partners who are higher-achieving than they are—that being intellectually “outperformed” by women leads men to experience “diminished feelings of masculinity.”

The answer for you, as a very smart woman, isn’t dumbing down; it’s being selective about the men you date (while recognizing that there are brainiacs working as, say, cabinetmakers). Assuming that you aren’t chasing guys away by lording over them—“Well, hello … intellectual earthworm!”—it’s probably best to narrow your search parameters to the highly intelligent: Men who won’t feel like their IQ test results, in comparison with yours, would read something like, “Water every other day and place in indirect sunlight.”

This Week in the Pacific Sun

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This week in the Pacific Sun, our Beer Issue covers everything from Iron Springs’ upcoming opening in San Rafael, to Indian Valley Brewing Company’s launch, to organic beer and brew bashes. On top of that, we’ve got a story on the state of cannabis dispensaries in Marin, an interview with singer/songwriter Jesse Colin Young and a review of ‘Mother!’ All that and more on stands and online today!

Film: Disruption

Oh, Mother! Can this really be the end, to be stuck in J-Law’s earhole with the Messiah blues again? Scene after scene, in tight closeups on Jennifer Lawrence’s face, we peer into her eyeballs as if we were ophthalmologists. Watching Mother! you’d suspect that Lawrence was wearing a mechanical camera rig to follow her as closely as possible.

She’s been accused of overacting, but with the camera this close, it’s Darren Aronofsky (Black Swan) who imprisons her. Every bad thing that happens—rather, every thing that’s probably going to turn out bad—follows with a cut to Lawrence so she can react to it. We know exactly how she feels at every moment. Some ambiguity would have spiced this Kafka-like fable that does a backflip into religious allegory.    

It’s a Repulsion-style study of the walls closing in; Mother (Lawrence) is rebuilding a rambling  farmhouse somewhere in the country. Her husband, twice her age, is called “Him” (Javier Bardem)—a poet walled in by serious writer’s block. One evening, a guest calls, unknown to Mother but slightly known by Him. The man (Ed Harris) is a boorish orthopedic surgeon, a smirking bastard who smokes in the house, even after he’s been requested to stop. Him can’t get enough of the pushy man of medicine, and goes off hiking and talking with him. Later, the doctor’s unnamed wife (Michelle Pfeiffer) arrives. Some Feud-style amusement can be had in watching the reigning female star of 1980s cinema emotionally roughing up the reigning female star of today’s film.

For the first two thirds of Mother!, we watch Mother’s anxiety climb. As she wards off hallucinations with glasses of pretty yellow fizzing medicine, crowds arrive to tear Mother’s home to pieces.

The movie’s best idea is the summing up of Him’s fantastically popular poem in a silent tableau of love and conflagration. We never hear it read aloud or understand its gist. But the tight camera overexposes Lawrence’s face. You’re reduced to spending an hour or so counting the moles on her neck.

Music: Young Again

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“Each show is an adventure,” says singer/songwriter Jesse Colin Young, who formed a new band with his son last year. “It’s a thrill.”

“It’s the most rockin’ band I ever had!” says folk-rock icon Jesse Colin Young, 76, of his new touring band. Best known for his work with The Youngbloods, and the sweet, pure tone of his voice, Young’s hit song “Get Together” became an anthem for the peace and love movement in the ’60s and ’70s.

After being diagnosed with Lyme disease in 2011, Young took a hiatus from touring. But seeing his bass player son Tristan’s senior recital at Boston’s Berklee School of Music last year inspired him.

“I’m confounded by it,” Young says by telephone from a tour rest stop in St. Louis. “I had no plans to start again. But the kids just blew me away, and all of a sudden this light came on in my heart.”

Tristan helped put the new band together with several of his Berklee friends, and they began touring last February. On Sunday, September 24, they’ll perform many of Young’s hits, along with new songs, for Whistlestop’s Whistlestock event at the Marin Center.

“They’re all brilliant kids and their energy is so pure at this point,” Young says. “They’ve come right out of a school that put them on such a high level of proficiency, and they all play and sing from their hearts.”

Young, who lived in Point Reyes for years, says that many of the band’s shows have sold out. “I attribute that to the hunger,” he says. “These are dark times for those of us who love the earth and like to get along with others. There’s a great hunger for this kind of loving and come-together music—and it’s real.”

Jesse Colin Young, Whistlestock, Sept. 24, Fairgrounds Island, Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael; 4pm; $69-$129; 415/473-6800; whistlestop.org/whistlestock.

Upfront: The Deliverance

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After public outcry nixed a plan that would have brought four brick-and-mortar cannabis dispensaries to unincorporated Marin, the Marin County Board of Supervisors are now pushing out an ordinance that would render the county’s cannabis business a delivery-only affair.

The revised cannabis ordinance is still not good enough to pass muster with cannabis conservatives, says Amos Klausner, a resident of San Geronimo who opposed the dispensaries and is now opposed to the delivery-only matrix, which he says would bring crime, traffic and other potential public-safety issues to bear on the unincorporated parts of the county.

Among other issues, Klausner is concerned about cannabis warehouses, which he says would be a magnet for crime in a part of the county with scant law enforcement resources.

“We don’t have a police force out here, we have a sheriff who rolls by once a day,” says Klausner, a 45-year-old native New Yorker who has lived in Marin County for two decades. “This is not why we moved here.” He cites rampant opposition to dispensaries and cannabis warehouses emerging from across multiple demographics and sensibilities in the county. It’s not just a bunch of fuddy-duddies.

Klausner is himself a user of medical cannabis and says that he gets his product mostly from the Harborside dispensary in Oakland. He hopes and expects that the latest ordinance under consideration will have an ample airing-out in public meetings, and makes no apology for his NIMBY-ist attitude toward cannabis in West Marin.

“We haven’t seen any opportunity yet for us to let the county know whether we want a marijuana warehouse in our community,” says Klausner, a graphic designer and author by trade, who has a school-age child in the local school district.

As he reads from the new ordinance during a phone interview, Klausner says his problem with the new delivery-only model is that it doesn’t define “delivery” adequately and leaves open a door, he says, for the sorts of legal loopholes exploited by a delivery service in San Rafael—and which he says he used on occasion. “There’s the need to have the medicine,” he says, “and then there’s the community.”

This service had a well-known system where a medical-marijuana customer would enter a room where all of the cannabis product was held, and place an order.

Then the cannabis would be “delivered” to a room across the hall. “How do you police that?,” Klausner asks. He adds that if all of the cities and towns in Marin were allowing delivery warehouses, storefront dispensaries and recreational storefronts, “I wouldn’t be so bothered.”

The issue for him is that the county seems intent on shunting whatever cannabis businesses do develop in the post-Proposition 64 landscape into West Marin. “San Rafael has a robust police force,” he says, “and we have nothing. If everyone’s got it then I’m OK with it, but you can’t force it upon a small group of people.”

Many towns in Marin have passed local laws to keep storefront cannabis out of their communities. The notable exception is Fairfax, which has an operating medical-cannabis storefront, the Marin Alliance for Medical Marijuana, which opened in 1996, was shut down by the feds in 2011 and reopened in June thanks to the tenacious efforts of medical-cannabis pioneer Lynette Shaw.

“Once this goes legal there are cities and towns in Marin that may reconsider,” says Klausner, who highlights that towns and municipalities across Marin County have passed local laws outlawing storefront dispensaries. But with legalization underway, he adds, “you may find that the lure of the tax revenue is too great for San Rafael. So why can’t the county just be patient and wait and see what the cities and towns do?”

The irony of Marin County’s general disposition of conservatism in the face of the cannabis-legalization initiative, Prop 64, and the tax-glut cannabis playground unfolding to the north in Sonoma County and Santa Rosa—a de facto extension of the Emerald Triangle—is not lost on Klausner. But neither is the associated crime that comes along with big grows, he adds, citing a raft of gruesome and pot-related crimes that have sprung up in Mendocino County in recent years.

One of the key tenets of the new cannabis legalization regime unfolding in the state is the imperative placed on law enforcement to crack down on illegal grows and make every effort to end the black market sale of cannabis.

But since most of the cannabis that grows in California is shipped out to states (such as New York) where it remains illegal, the black market isn’t going anywhere anytime soon, unless U.S. President Donald J. Trump orders Attorney General Jeff Sessions to drop the federal fatwa on weed, which seems unlikely.

Still, Klausner remains supportive of the push to legalize, since he says that it could serve to spread the cannabis business around the county and into cities that are better prepared to deal with whatever law-enforcement issues emerge.

Brian Bjork, director/partner of Marin Gardens, which delivers medical cannabis throughout the county, says, however, that “safety is not any more of an issue in delivery than in a storefront. Bjork would like to have a storefront operation, and says that the county should allow them, “but I don’t really blame them since 98 percent of the naysayers are OK with delivery.”

For Bjork, the problem with the new delivery ordinance is that it could open a floodgate of delivery operations from places other than Marin County, such as San Francisco, and put operations like his out of business in the process.

Bjork, a 35-year-old native of Marin County who has been in the medical cannabis business for a decade, notes the irony of a self-identified “progressive” county that gave rise to the 420 movement and the Grateful Dead emerging as one of the more cannabis-wary counties in the region.

“Is it our population is a little different? The beliefs—we are maybe a little more conservative,” he says, but the bigger problem in Marin isn’t a conservative population, but a lack of public education and outreach. “Up north, further north, it’s more part of the cultural landscape. Santa Rosa is more up to date on education, but Marin hasn’t taken the time to educate the population or the county on how [medical cannabis] works.” (At press time on September 19, the supervisors had a public workshop on the ordinance scheduled.)

While Santa Rosa has been rolling out the red carpet and Sonoma County is falling over itself to extend the deadline for licensees, Bjork says that Marin is waiting for the Prop 64 state law to fully kick in next year and is not really taking a proactive approach to the potential tax (and health) bonanza that awaits.

In the meantime, the newest dispensary law, Bjork says, still leaves open the sticky question of the location of the eventual delivery-only businesses. It’s a sticking point for Klausner.

“I do think that this time around they are going to start issuing some licenses,” he says, “delivery, non-storefront only, it will go through—but the location is going to be the problem again.” His suggestion is for the county to pick the four best available delivery services (he hopes his is one of them), and then tell those businesses where they’re allowed to set up shop. The proposals will be “scored” by the county using various metrics such as business viability and proposed location.

When it comes to location, Klausner says not in his backyard, under any circumstances. “While we are liberal in our politics, the county voted overwhelming to support recreational, I understand that.” But he says there’s a big chasm between support for legalization and the actual implications on localities as the roll-out ensues. “When I’m accused of NIMBYism,” he says, “I say, ‘Is it OK if I open up a nuclear waste facility in your backyard?”

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